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When I put in the effort, I'm very cute. I've gotten compliments on my makeup skills and clothes. My personality is dreadful though, not girlfriend material. I'm also asexual. A few boys have flirted with me before. But I just don't have the energy or charisma to even brush my hair anymore.
Im below average due to disability, without this condition probably it would get better (obviously) I was in the gym to feel a bit better and lose weight and all I got was got injuried, so it's over.
Suffering a disability you are fucked up even if you look like Christian Grey.
People in this world is too focused in appearances (particularly America)
Looks, Health, Wealth, can make things a bit more... joyful? anyway.
I live in the U.S. and I 100% agree with you, as far as folks are way too concerned about appearances. We are all the same and personality and brains are some of the more important aspects for me.
Everyone has strengths and weakness and when we are COMBINED TOGETHER, we are unstoppable, as far as spreading love, kindness and the betterment of everyone, everywhere.
standard, 5/10 average white guy when i had the energy. unfortunately depression is unattractive and kills any energy to groom yourself, workout out, etc. but regardless it wouldn't matter. i have no personality, im boring, and not fun to be around.
HELL NO i mean ive had no gf for almost 5 to 6 years and had intimacy twice after dont think anyone would be interested in a nerd who is depressed I'm more celibate and introverted then ever and seems as though women are charging the morality for money
It does suck how appearances mean so much In life, I generally try to keep a positive outlook on it but I have a bunch of birthmarks on my face and body which constantly fucks me up when I look in the mirror . I feel like that's all people look at when they see me. Thank god for when masks came around lol. I hate my looks so much… Such a big contributing factor to why I want to CTB.
HI!! Your post made me cry, as far as no one EVER should have to feel anything but love and joy. I know, at least to some degree, where you are coming from, as I never talk about this. When I was growing up i lived and worked on a dairy farm where one milked cows in the morning and at night. One morning, I was getting ready to put a milking machine on a cow and she kicked me, and her hoof struck right smack dab in the middle of my forehead. The impact cracked my skull at my forehead area completely open and when it healed it left and huge healed crack that runs down the entire top to bottom of my forehead. All through high school I was called Frankenstein and even to this day people stare at it and me.
I am a 100% believer in the fact that having brains and a personality are what helps make a caring and loving soul, like YOU and everyone here on Sanctioned Suicide. What is deep down in a person is everything. Looks fade with time, BUT a heart and soul never do and after reading and rereading your post, you are an incredibly kind, caring and thoughtful spirit and I am so blessed having you as a great friend here.
I care about you a lot and I send you lots of hugs, sunny blue skies and the knowledge that with each passing day you bring joy into my world and others.
Take care my good friend.
Walter
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I hate myself deeply ... I think that depression has greatly increased my obsession with every little defect in my body, I could suffer from dysmorphophobia ... I have always had big problems accepting myself and considering myself beautiful ... my body and my appearance have always been a source of great insecurities and problems to the point of creating problems in relating to others.I have never considered myself beautiful ... only when I look at my photos as a child or baby do I find myself pretty
I guess I would be a 5/10 or whatever. I have always had terrible skin. Honestly I'm over it at this point. I think my personality is much more of a hinderance to finding a partner than my looks
"I'm too much work to keep happy", damn, do you mean a man has to work a lot to keep you happy? Now I understand what you mean, yeah, you would need a millionaire who could spend his time focused on you and that could be difficult ;(
No, not at all. I actually hate how I look. I avoid pictures and there are about 0 pictures of me anywhere that I have control over. I've only ever been told how I look good and when I was younger,I was often told how "cute" I was but I could never see it. Not sure why I feel that way but it is what it is. Interesting post tho, I enjoyed reading the responses from everyone
I think I look okay when I put a lot of effort into my appearance, but declining more quickly than I would have expected despite maintaining or even increasing the effort.
Not a strong sexual allure, but I've never pursued sex much anyway.
You're supposed to have that golden period in your 20's where you're over the awkward acne-covered phase and haven't reached the declining hair-receding phase yet, but my body just decided to make me battle with all I have to get even a couple years of that.
Currently taking a pill that reduces hair loss but also reduces libido. The tradeoff's worth it for me, although it's still frustrating.
I am definitely not good looking. I am somewhere at 3/10, used to be maybe at 4/10 at my highest point, but yeah, not hideous but I've always been unattractive, and that's not fixable without major investment into looks. For better or worse, I also have other reasons why I basically gave up on having any kind of romantic or sexual connections a long time ago, and without it my unattractiveness is mostly irrelevant.
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