Would you consider this behavior sus?

[noname223]

I once had a college course with someone. The youg man seemed kind but also a little bit introverted. I had a good feeling when I talked with them. But he was also a little bit of a mystery. But I retrospectively I might overestimate or overinterpret that. On a platform I still see what this person posts and their profile picture. And everything they posted for a few years is related to children. Their profile picture also shows children. I don't think it is a picture of themselves. The person seemingly has a job to organize events for children. And I also know this might have a religious background.

My friends sort of judged me when I talked about my association that I had... Personally, it seems sus to me when the only content of one's life consists of children. Maybe I would think differently if the person was a woman. Maybe I read too many media stories and always imagine the worst..

I recently read a list with red flags of such situations. And red flags are when such a person spends vacations with children without their parents. Or when they text with them privately without parental control. It sounds like the person keeps contact with them over a messenger....

But honestly this person was so kind to me. Idk. I often have a bad feeling when reading their stories. Maybe just my prejudices are speaking. Idk.

What do you think?

 

[JustADeerGirl]

That definitely sounds weird, very weird in fact.
People THAT close to children are very often malicious.

 

[SweetChariot]

I know some guys that make their job all their social media personality, if said person does children event organizing(if that's a thing?) maybe he's setting up a brand for potential clients?
Honestly i'm not so sure

 

[buriedinmyhead]

I don't think it sounds all that weird if this person has a job organizing events for children. Do you have any evidence of this person messaging with children at all, or in a malicious way? You said yourself that maybe you wouldn't view this as strange if it was a woman.

 

[noname223]

I don't think it sounds all that weird if this person has a job organizing events for children. Do you have any evidence of this person messaging with children at all, or in a malicious way? You said yourself that maybe you wouldn't view this as strange if it was a woman.

In one story there was said something like join our messenger group. And it sounded like they were managing the group.
However, I have absolutely no evidence for malicious behavior. I haven't talked to this person for quite some years.

 

[Set Real Goul]

Well, it does look pretty suspicious

 

[Pluto]

 

[buriedinmyhead]

In one story there was said something like join our messenger group. And it sounded like they were managing the group.
However, I have absolutely no evidence for malicious behavior. I haven't talked to this person for quite some years.

Is there any evidence that they were asking children to join? It could easily be for people interested in having them set up an event

 

[noname223]

Is there any evidence that they were asking children to join? It could easily be for people interested in having them set up an event

I cannot remember it exactly. But I think there was an event and related to this event there was a group on a messenger where you could get information for the event.

Personally, I think this isn't evidence for anything. I just had to think about it when I read the list with red flags.