Venting To me it feels like the forum went downhill

[FuneralCry]

Like I don't know if it's dying but it sure feels that way to me especially as lot of the time it doesn't even seem to work these days. But I feel like one of the ways it went downhill is that rather than it being full of suicidal people it seems to be full of bored people desperate for attention, to me it feels like they are begging for attention with how they spam the forum with random things and this just causes all the suffering people's vents to be buried. And yet if you use it to actually vent about your wish to die you just get hated on and insulted for it which is just great, totally makes this place feel like a "safe space", there's so much hypocrisy.

And another way it's went downhill is how now it's a place for deluded pro-lifers to post about how mentally ill all suicidal people are, and it's sad how this place became so pro-life but anyway whatever, those who hate on suicidal people who vent really are so arrogant, I know they only do it just to feel better about themselves, I can tell that some people really love trying to make others feel bad.

Many of us literally want to die we certainly don't want to be lectured by hostile pro-lifers or be given so called "advice" that is just delusional and invalidates suffering, honestly it's just so cringe when they do that. I wish this place only was for those who want to die, bored people and pro-lifers should just go and enjoy their wonderful, precious life and leave those who suffer alone. So yes, this site really did became too mainstream and if often reminds me of how I cannot stand this human species, humans are such a disgusting species and it's tragic how they haven't gone voluntarily extinct yet, in fact it's tragic how life even exists at all, no matter what only non-existence could ever be desirable.

 

[The Schizoid]

So yes, this site really did became too mainstream and if often reminds me of how I cannot stand this human species, humans are such a disgusting species and it's tragic how they haven't gone voluntarily extinct yet, in fact it's tragic how life even exists at all, no matter what only non-existence could ever be desirable.

TBH your posts often rub me up the wrong way. I often get the impression that your posts are subtly trying to push people off the edge.

It almost feels you're annoyed that everyone on the board isn't completely hopeless and immediately seeking ways to kill themselves.

I really fail to see how your pro-extinction points of view should be allowed but pro life points of view shouldn't be allowed. Pro-Life =/= necessarily anti suicide. This forum's existence can only be justified with a firm belief in freedom of speech, which always has to work both ways.

When I see you comment in response to suicidal peoples threads, I see you making subtle attempts to reinforce a bleak point of view of life but then promote death as peaceful and positive. E.G. "This world is so horrible and everything is hopeless.... I hope that death provides the bliss you are looking for".

I just get a really bad vibe from you tbh. It's one thing for people to support and accept people's choices but it's another thing to consistently trying to reinforce a negative opinion about life and a positive opinion about death.

This board SHOULD NOT be about convincing people to die, but allowing them to vent their suicidal feelings and thoughts without judgment and come to their own conclusions.

It's a pro choice forum not a pro suicide forum. You are annoyed at the nature of other people's posts but you expect people to be ok with your anti natalist style points of view like the only positive thing humanity can do is to just extinct itself.

P.S. PEOPLE I'm not anti-suicide, there's a good chance I'm going to CTB soon, but I don't think anyone should be trying to reinforce a bleak point of view, this website should be about supporting individual atonomy, not reinforcing the idea that suicide is a good thing for everyone.

If someone lives a happy life then that's great, but if someone lives a shit life and wants to ctb, that's not good but it should be accepted here and people should be allowed to vent.

We should not be treating suicide as if it's a good thing, because sometimes it's not and sometimes it is. We should be treating personal freedom as a good thing.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

I've been looking at posts in the past (around 2021 to 2022) and the posts back then seemed to be interesting and full of people who were respectful to people in vent posts. However, now, it's exactly like you say. People who are just venting tend to get insulted and get advice when this isn't the recovery forum. At this point, it's why I started venting to myself on my own profile post as opposed to making posts too much as I know that making venting posts here won't end well most of the time.

Hope you find peace soon FC and that you don't have to rely on this forum ever again due to being permanently non existent

 

[SVEN]

For me (just a personal view, others are welcome to disagree) I see the 'Suicide Discussion' threads as, hopefully, addressing the concept, methods and experiences of other members.
Rather than prolife polemics. Discussing suicide is an entirely different matter than coming onto a Forum (often under false pretences) with the specific intent to dissuade individuals from their stated intentions and subvert their heartfelt wishes.
The Recovery section is always accessible and exists to encourage and support anyone having second thoughts or seeking encouragement.

 

[Ksmиda]

Doesn't help that nearly every post is asking the same questions about SN, which could be found in the resources page or could be figured out using common sense.
It feels like this is more of an SN forum, not a suicide forum. I made one post mentioning how I was planning on buying SN, and I got loads of people begging me for the source.
Also noticed a bunch of new memebers spamming any post mentioning MDS or sources, asking for them.
This only really became an issue within the last few weeks, which makes it suspicious, as this was much less common before Christmas.
I've got a feeling that authorities are making accounts and asking for sources in order to shut them down.
I think we should limit SN posts or create a separate page for it.
It's sad to see this happen to the forum, but I guess that's what happens when so many people start joining all at once.

 

[Captive_Mind515]

TBH your posts often rub me up the wrong way. I often get the impression that your posts are subtly trying to push people off the edge.

It almost feels you're annoyed that everyone on the board isn't completely hopeless and immediately seeking ways to kill themselves.

I really fail to see how your pro-extinction points of view should be allowed but pro life points of view shouldn't be allowed. Pro-Life =/= necessarily anti suicide. This forum's existence can only be justified with a firm belief in freedom of speech, which always has to work both ways.

When I see you comment in response to suicidal peoples threads, I see you making subtle attempts to reinforce a bleak point of view of life but then promote death as peaceful and positive. E.G. "This world is so horrible and everything is hopeless.... I hope that death provides the bliss you are looking for".

I just get a really bad vibe from you tbh. It's one thing for people to support and accept people's choices but it's another thing to consistently trying to reinforce a negative opinion about life and a positive opinion about death.

This board SHOULD NOT be about convincing people to die, but allowing them to vent their suicidal feelings and thoughts without judgment and come to their own conclusions.

It's a pro choice forum not a pro suicide forum. You are annoyed at the nature of other people's posts but you expect people to be ok with your anti natalist style points of view like the only positive thing humanity can do is to just extinct itself.

P.S. PEOPLE I'm not anti-suicide, there's a good chance I'm going to CTB soon, but I don't think anyone should be trying to reinforce a bleak point of view, this website should be about supporting individual atonomy, not reinforcing the idea that suicide is a good thing for everyone.

If someone lives a happy life then that's great, but if someone lives a shit life and wants to ctb, that's not good but it should be accepted here and people should be allowed to vent.

We should not be treating suicide as if it's a good thing, because sometimes it's not and sometimes it is. We should be treating personal freedom as a good thing.

Surely part of being pro-choice is also accepting that some people have the right to hate this life and see death as a positive thing? If someone is suffering, then death can become something to look forward to.

PS. I've never seen FC trying to convince anyone to die. If someone has expressed negative life experiences in a goodbye thread, she very often agrees with that sentiment, wishes them well and hopes they find peace. Nothing at all wrong with that imho.

 

[WhiteRabbit]

Doesn't help that nearly every post is asking the same questions about SN, which could be found in the resources page or could be figured out using common sense.
It feels like this is more of an SN forum, not a suicide forum.

It used to be a N forum, when that was still available. No one wants to do their own research so you get the same posts over and over.

 

[LifeIsCrazyNemb]

TBH your posts often rub me up the wrong way. I often get the impression that your posts are subtly trying to push people off the edge.

It almost feels you're annoyed that everyone on the board isn't completely hopeless and immediately seeking ways to kill themselves.

I really fail to see how your pro-extinction points of view should be allowed but pro life points of view shouldn't be allowed. Pro-Life =/= necessarily anti suicide. This forum's existence can only be justified with a firm belief in freedom of speech, which always has to work both ways.

When I see you comment in response to suicidal peoples threads, I see you making subtle attempts to reinforce a bleak point of view of life but then promote death as peaceful and positive. E.G. "This world is so horrible and everything is hopeless.... I hope that death provides the bliss you are looking for".

I just get a really bad vibe from you tbh. It's one thing for people to support and accept people's choices but it's another thing to consistently trying to reinforce a negative opinion about life and a positive opinion about death.

This board SHOULD NOT be about convincing people to die, but allowing them to vent their suicidal feelings and thoughts without judgment and come to their own conclusions.

It's a pro choice forum not a pro suicide forum. You are annoyed at the nature of other people's posts but you expect people to be ok with your anti natalist style points of view like the only positive thing humanity can do is to just extinct itself.

P.S. PEOPLE I'm not anti-suicide, there's a good chance I'm going to CTB soon, but I don't think anyone should be trying to reinforce a bleak point of view, this website should be about supporting individual atonomy, not reinforcing the idea that suicide is a good thing for everyone.

If someone lives a happy life then that's great, but if someone lives a shit life and wants to ctb, that's not good but it should be accepted here and people should be allowed to vent.

We should not be treating suicide as if it's a good thing, because sometimes it's not and sometimes it is. We should be treating personal freedom as a good thing.

Great arguments!

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

Well I think if nothing else, we owe it to others to consider the ripple effect of our posts. We all have really low points and lose our shit, but I think when it becomes a barrage of hopelessness and depression, a bit of self-examination is probably in order. Our typed words have power. And it's okay to be hopeless for yourself, but when you exercise third party influence by way of dozens of thousands of posts of sheer misery, it's worth stepping back and thinking about what you're doing.

But yes, I do agree the forum is broken way too often lately.

 

[The Schizoid]

Surely part of being pro-choice is also accepting that some people have the right to hate this life and see death as a positive thing? If someone is suffering, then death can become something to look forward to.

PS. I've never seen FC trying to convince anyone to die. If someone has expressed negative life experiences in a goodbye thread, she very often agrees with that sentiment, wishes them well and hopes they find peace. Nothing at all wrong with that imho.

I get bad vibes from their comments on people's threads. I'm not accusing them of anything, I'm just suspicious of their posts.

They're getting annoyed at the way the forum is going and the fact that some comments are pro-life but expresses views that are extreme in the opposite sense. Your point about pro-choice is a point that you should make against them, not me.

They're allowed to have whatever view they want, but I just get the sense that some of their comments are subtly trying to convince people that it's the right decision for them, as they're not just venting about their own thoughts on life, they're responding to others with comments that sound like they're subtly trying to reinforce a bleak and hopeless outlook on life whilst immediately after promoting a positive view of death.

It almost feels like they're trying to hammer the final nail in.

 

[Captive_Mind515]

I get bad vibes from their comments on people's threads. I'm not accusing them of anything, I'm just suspicious of their posts.

They're getting annoyed at the way the forum is going and the fact that some comments are pro-life but expresses views that are extreme in the opposite sense. Your point about pro-choice is a point that you should make against them, not me.

They're allowed to have whatever view they want, but I just get the sense that some of their comments are subtly trying to convince people that it's the right decision for them, as they're not just venting about their own thoughts on life, they're responding to others with comments that sound like they're subtly trying to reinforce a bleak and hopeless outlook on life whilst immediately after promoting a positive view of death.

It almost feels like they're trying to hammer the final nail in.

If someone has already expressed a bleak outlook on life in a goodbye thread, and they are planning on ctb, then I would not see that as reinforcing anything.

That is merely someone agreeing with the sentiment (usually because they have experienced similar crappy life situations themselves), and wishing them peace in their decision. It isn't really fair of anyone, to insinuate what you think someone's intentions are. That is merely YOUR interpretation of their posts. And it's not based on any solid evidence. Just as you say, a "bad vibe"...

 

[Life_and_Death]

but a venting tag makes it ok and theyre not actually telling people to ctb even though the words are still exactly the same, right? /s (i think/hope thats how you do a sarcasm tag)

I often get the impression that your posts are subtly trying to push people off the edge.

 

[the old man]

This board SHOULD NOT be about convincing people to die, but allowing them to vent their suicidal feelings and thoughts without judgment and come to their own conclusions.

Great paragraph and agree 100%.
Ultimately the folk that post here will come to their own conclusions about the path they want to follow, it's their life,their choice.as other members of this forum we should neither persuade or dissuade them from making that choice.

 

[Alpercino]

For me it seems like that the activity just went up and like me when i first saw this site the resources are overwhelming and the first step is to make a thread and secure your landing.

After that everyone finds his or her etc way to get things done.

I find it more annoying that you think you have the best formula of how this forum has to function and as it is not in your thinking you let it out in passive aggressive comments without any heart behind it and vent about this forum in a unproductive way.

Seems to me that its the way you are coping rn. All the best to you. Just wanted to let my thoughts out.

 

[Deleted member 65988]

TBH your posts often rub me up the wrong way. I often get the impression that your posts are subtly trying to push people off the edge.

It almost feels you're annoyed that everyone on the board isn't completely hopeless and immediately seeking ways to kill themselves.

I really fail to see how your pro-extinction points of view should be allowed but pro life points of view shouldn't be allowed. Pro-Life =/= necessarily anti suicide. This forum's existence can only be justified with a firm belief in freedom of speech, which always has to work both ways.

When I see you comment in response to suicidal peoples threads, I see you making subtle attempts to reinforce a bleak point of view of life but then promote death as peaceful and positive. E.G. "This world is so horrible and everything is hopeless.... I hope that death provides the bliss you are looking for".

I just get a really bad vibe from you tbh. It's one thing for people to support and accept people's choices but it's another thing to consistently trying to reinforce a negative opinion about life and a positive opinion about death.

This board SHOULD NOT be about convincing people to die, but allowing them to vent their suicidal feelings and thoughts without judgment and come to their own conclusions.

It's a pro choice forum not a pro suicide forum. You are annoyed at the nature of other people's posts but you expect people to be ok with your anti natalist style points of view like the only positive thing humanity can do is to just extinct itself.

P.S. PEOPLE I'm not anti-suicide, there's a good chance I'm going to CTB soon, but I don't think anyone should be trying to reinforce a bleak point of view, this website should be about supporting individual atonomy, not reinforcing the idea that suicide is a good thing for everyone.

If someone lives a happy life then that's great, but if someone lives a shit life and wants to ctb, that's not good but it should be accepted here and people should be allowed to vent.

We should not be treating suicide as if it's a good thing, because sometimes it's not and sometimes it is. We should be treating personal freedom as a good thing.

Very well said.

Great paragraph and agree 100%.
Ultimately the folk that post here will come to their own conclusions about the path they want to follow, it's their life,their choice.as other members of this forum we should neither persuade or dissuade them from making that choice.

The media has already placed this forum as the one responsible for "encouraging" people to ctb which isn't true because everyone comes to their own conclusions here, whether they'll ctb or close an account or temporarily ban it to give life a 2nd shot because they've decided that's the best decision right now.

It used to be a N forum, when that was still available. No one wants to do their own research so you get the same posts over and over.

Exactly, sometimes people just create threads of the same questions that have been answered before when they could just use the search bar.

I made one post mentioning how I was planning on buying SN, and I got loads of people begging me for the source.

I for one think this needs to stop, I've had pms in the past of people begging me for a source which is why I closed my pms, or well thats part of the reason why I did. We've also had times where members have been harassed for SN sources which to me is absolutely ridiculous and not needed, no matter how much one wants sn, it does not given you the right to harrass people at all.

Please do not harass people for their SN sources.

This is no hate to the person who repeatedly messaged me, but this is a recurring theme I have seen. I posted about my experience taking a small amount of SN to share awareness of how dangerous it is even in extremely small amounts, as before I had no idea and thought you had to take a lot to...

sanctioned-suicide.net

 

[Meteora]

But I feel like one of the ways it went downhill is that rather than it being full of suicidal people it seems to be full of bored people desperate for attention, to me it feels like they are begging for attention with how they spam the forum with random things and this just causes all the suffering people's vents to be buried. And yet if you use it to actually vent about your wish to die you just get hated on and insulted for it which is just great, totally makes this place feel like a "safe space", there's so much hypocrisy.

From your mouth to God's ears. The worst and most hypocritical part is the chat, in my opinion. A bunch of people complaining how bad they feel, constantly, somethimes every 10 minutes...... I just cannot take that seriously, I m sorry.
And I m sure that the people who complain the most are not the ones who are gonna kill themselves. They just do it for the sake of complainig.... maybe some kind of hobby, I don't know. Anyway, it is a very annoying development.

 

[singularity3]

TBH your posts often rub me up the wrong way. I often get the impression that your posts are subtly trying to push people off the edge.

It almost feels you're annoyed that everyone on the board isn't completely hopeless and immediately seeking ways to kill themselves.

I really fail to see how your pro-extinction points of view should be allowed but pro life points of view shouldn't be allowed. Pro-Life =/= necessarily anti suicide. This forum's existence can only be justified with a firm belief in freedom of speech, which always has to work both ways.

When I see you comment in response to suicidal peoples threads, I see you making subtle attempts to reinforce a bleak point of view of life but then promote death as peaceful and positive. E.G. "This world is so horrible and everything is hopeless.... I hope that death provides the bliss you are looking for".

I just get a really bad vibe from you tbh. It's one thing for people to support and accept people's choices but it's another thing to consistently trying to reinforce a negative opinion about life and a positive opinion about death.

This board SHOULD NOT be about convincing people to die, but allowing them to vent their suicidal feelings and thoughts without judgment and come to their own conclusions.

It's a pro choice forum not a pro suicide forum. You are annoyed at the nature of other people's posts but you expect people to be ok with your anti natalist style points of view like the only positive thing humanity can do is to just extinct itself.

P.S. PEOPLE I'm not anti-suicide, there's a good chance I'm going to CTB soon, but I don't think anyone should be trying to reinforce a bleak point of view, this website should be about supporting individual atonomy, not reinforcing the idea that suicide is a good thing for everyone.

If someone lives a happy life then that's great, but if someone lives a shit life and wants to ctb, that's not good but it should be accepted here and people should be allowed to vent.

We should not be treating suicide as if it's a good thing, because sometimes it's not and sometimes it is. We should be treating personal freedom as a good thing.

In fact, I myself would not be here if it were not for my illness. Before my life became difficult I did not think about suicide. I openly think that if you are in good health and have a normal life, there is really no reason to commit suicide, because life can be interesting and good that way. I support voluntary death and individual freedom but not to persuade that not existing is better

 

[RainAndSadness]

Déjà vu.

This site became too mainstream and pro-life

This site feels like it’s filled with pro-lifers now and feels like it became too mainstream which is why to me it’s not the “safe space” that others like to label it as. Sadly pro-lifers just seem to be everywhere in this society, sadly if you don’t believe in forcing “help” onto suicidal...

sanctioned-suicide.net

To me it feels like the forum went downhill

Like I don’t know if it’s dying but it sure feels that way to me especially as lot of the time it doesn’t even seem to work these days. But I feel like one of the ways it went downhill is that rather than it being full of suicidal people it seems to be full of bored people desperate for...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Feels like this forum is no different to anywhere else now

This site really has just went downhill, it’s sad how the only place suicidal people have to vent and discuss suicide openly is filled with pro-lifers and insensitive people. I’m sorry but some of us come on here as we want to vent about our wish to die and it doesn’t mean we want to be lectured...

sanctioned-suicide.net

To me it was better when this site only had suicidal people on it

Now it attracts pro-lifers and people with toxic positivity pushing the idea of “help”, I’m sorry but other people’s wish to die is absolutely nothing to do with you, like if you love something so cruel and futile as existence so much then just go and enjoy it. People come here to escape from...

sanctioned-suicide.net

I feel like this forum became too mainstream

Because a while back people would had mostly found it through researching suicide online so the people on the site would be those who want to die themselves, but due to the site being featured on YouTube, people found it who otherwise wouldn’t. So now instead of the suicide discussion being a...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Feels like this site is going downhill recently

Which is why I especially despise how methods like Nembutal aren’t legalised, it’s so disgusting how we are denied the right to cease existing in peace whenever we wish to and instead there is just this website which doesn’t really function properly. And as well as that it seems to be becoming...

sanctioned-suicide.net

The forum is dead now which just makes me want to ctb even more

I just wanted to say thank you for deleting and destroying the forum, the site is useless and dead now. I spent a lot of time venting on the forum but now it’s all gone. I thought this was a place for suicidal people to vent but I guess not anymore, it’s all dead and deleted, I bet having this...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Main forum has felt like it’s changed a lot.

I know that this thread is pointless really, but it’s just felt like the suicide discussion section has changed a lot, it seems to be full of posts that have barely anything to do with suicide, there’s too many troll posts and people just using it to post about random things, it means that all...

sanctioned-suicide.net

 

[The Schizoid]

From your mouth to God's ears. The worst and most hypocritical part is the chat, in my opinion. A bunch of people complaining how bad they feel, constantly, somethimes every 10 minutes...... I just cannot take that seriously, I m sorry.
And I m sure that the people who complain the most are not the ones who are gonna kill themselves. They just do it for the sake of complainig.... maybe some kind of hobby, I don't know. Anyway, it is a very annoying development.

It's like some of you are annoyed that less people on the board are actually killing themselves, and instead looking for emotional support and venting.

What would you prefer it to be? A place purely for people that are asking for ways to do it?

Déjà vu.

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/thre...o-mainstream-and-pro-life.151828/post-2350978

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/to-me-it-feels-like-the-forum-went-downhill.153159/

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/thre...-is-no-different-to-anywhere-else-now.148724/

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/thre...s-site-only-had-suicidal-people-on-it.146459/

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/i-feel-like-this-forum-became-too-mainstream.142295/

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/feels-like-this-site-is-going-downhill-recently.131903/

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/thre...h-just-makes-me-want-to-ctb-even-more.131682/

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/main-forum-has-felt-like-its-changed-a-lot.114962/

I was worried this person would be a protected member and I'd get banned for my post. Glad to see im not the only one that's seen this.

I'm getting a bit sick of this person.

It's like some users are annoyed that not as many people are as sure about killing themselves anymore, and there isn't a post every 5 minutes from a person who's killed themselves.

You understand my suspicions? It's like some people are here just to get their daily fix of people about to die while on a forum.

 

[rainwillneverstop]

 

[Meteora]

It's like some of you are annoyed that less people on the board are actually killing themselves, and instead looking for emotional support and venting.

What would you prefer it to be? A place purely for people that are asking for ways to do it?

I think you misunderstand. There s a difference between asking for emotional support vs endlessly complaining.

 

[k1w1]

Déjà vu.

This site became too mainstream and pro-life

This site feels like it’s filled with pro-lifers now and feels like it became too mainstream which is why to me it’s not the “safe space” that others like to label it as. Sadly pro-lifers just seem to be everywhere in this society, sadly if you don’t believe in forcing “help” onto suicidal...

sanctioned-suicide.net

To me it feels like the forum went downhill

Like I don’t know if it’s dying but it sure feels that way to me especially as lot of the time it doesn’t even seem to work these days. But I feel like one of the ways it went downhill is that rather than it being full of suicidal people it seems to be full of bored people desperate for...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Feels like this forum is no different to anywhere else now

This site really has just went downhill, it’s sad how the only place suicidal people have to vent and discuss suicide openly is filled with pro-lifers and insensitive people. I’m sorry but some of us come on here as we want to vent about our wish to die and it doesn’t mean we want to be lectured...

sanctioned-suicide.net

To me it was better when this site only had suicidal people on it

Now it attracts pro-lifers and people with toxic positivity pushing the idea of “help”, I’m sorry but other people’s wish to die is absolutely nothing to do with you, like if you love something so cruel and futile as existence so much then just go and enjoy it. People come here to escape from...

sanctioned-suicide.net

I feel like this forum became too mainstream

Because a while back people would had mostly found it through researching suicide online so the people on the site would be those who want to die themselves, but due to the site being featured on YouTube, people found it who otherwise wouldn’t. So now instead of the suicide discussion being a...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Feels like this site is going downhill recently

Which is why I especially despise how methods like Nembutal aren’t legalised, it’s so disgusting how we are denied the right to cease existing in peace whenever we wish to and instead there is just this website which doesn’t really function properly. And as well as that it seems to be becoming...

sanctioned-suicide.net

The forum is dead now which just makes me want to ctb even more

I just wanted to say thank you for deleting and destroying the forum, the site is useless and dead now. I spent a lot of time venting on the forum but now it’s all gone. I thought this was a place for suicidal people to vent but I guess not anymore, it’s all dead and deleted, I bet having this...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Main forum has felt like it’s changed a lot.

I know that this thread is pointless really, but it’s just felt like the suicide discussion section has changed a lot, it seems to be full of posts that have barely anything to do with suicide, there’s too many troll posts and people just using it to post about random things, it means that all...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Yesterday once more........

 

[letsgetittogo]

It feels like I'm reading the same threads from you over and over again, incredibly repetitive.
It quite literally feels like I'm reading something a bot wrote. Suicidal people are allowed to vent about suicidal things on the suicide forum. It doesn't all have to be goodbye threads or rants about how "dreadful life is and how non-existence is the only rational thing"
sometimes suicidal people need to talk about things. I'm personally thankful that people feel like this is a safe enough space to talk about the things that bother them, and the things that they can't share with others. Even if it's "guys I feel like shit today", chances are they don't feel comfortable voicing that with their friends or family. It makes me happy they feel like they can do that here.
Even new users who don't know how to navigate the site, or just want to make a post asking about SN regimens deserve a place here despite the resources available. The ONLY thing I don't agree with is the "SN source?" Spam. I think the rest belongs here, even though I'm welcome to others having different opinions.
Not everything that ISNT strictly "ok guys I'm gonna kill myself today" is necessarily pro-life.

 

[LifeIsCrazyNemb]

Yesterday once more........

Its very anoying...but somehow this anoying user is extremely protected here.

 

[UKscotty]

Always great to hear how much someone with 4 years and 32k posts hates the site so much.

Why don't people understand the site is pro-choice, not pro-death?

 

[R_N]

Great paragraph and agree 100%.
Ultimately the folk that post here will come to their own conclusions about the path they want to follow, it's their life,their choice.as other members of this forum we should neither persuade or dissuade them from making that choice.

I also like how that was said. I said it myself once that we shouldn't encourage or discourage people when it comes to that decision. Even this place is not devoid of hive minds and it can push an individual over the edge just by peer pressure.

 

[kawaiiphantom]

Idk I have yet to see the pro-life dribble you always talk about, also I think anyone should be able to express their opinions. The mods also do their best to keep the site up and running and are very helpful and kind. Also people suffer here and it's a safe place that's why people vent in chat, it's the same as venting in a thread?? And most of the time people are there to support u, I've never been annoyed by people venting in chat because they're suffering and hurting badly as well. You just said people who hate on suicidal people for venting are arrogant which is a bit hypocritical of u in my opinion.

Anyways even though I disagree with a lot of what you said I think you should be able to express your opinion on this just as anyone else can openly express their opinion. I'm sorry, I hope nothing I said came across as harsh. I hope you find peace FC I know you do suffer a lot and I feel awful that you have to go through what you do

 

[Deleted member 65988]

Déjà vu.

This site became too mainstream and pro-life

This site feels like it’s filled with pro-lifers now and feels like it became too mainstream which is why to me it’s not the “safe space” that others like to label it as. Sadly pro-lifers just seem to be everywhere in this society, sadly if you don’t believe in forcing “help” onto suicidal...

sanctioned-suicide.net

To me it feels like the forum went downhill

Like I don’t know if it’s dying but it sure feels that way to me especially as lot of the time it doesn’t even seem to work these days. But I feel like one of the ways it went downhill is that rather than it being full of suicidal people it seems to be full of bored people desperate for...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Feels like this forum is no different to anywhere else now

This site really has just went downhill, it’s sad how the only place suicidal people have to vent and discuss suicide openly is filled with pro-lifers and insensitive people. I’m sorry but some of us come on here as we want to vent about our wish to die and it doesn’t mean we want to be lectured...

sanctioned-suicide.net

To me it was better when this site only had suicidal people on it

Now it attracts pro-lifers and people with toxic positivity pushing the idea of “help”, I’m sorry but other people’s wish to die is absolutely nothing to do with you, like if you love something so cruel and futile as existence so much then just go and enjoy it. People come here to escape from...

sanctioned-suicide.net

I feel like this forum became too mainstream

Because a while back people would had mostly found it through researching suicide online so the people on the site would be those who want to die themselves, but due to the site being featured on YouTube, people found it who otherwise wouldn’t. So now instead of the suicide discussion being a...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Feels like this site is going downhill recently

Which is why I especially despise how methods like Nembutal aren’t legalised, it’s so disgusting how we are denied the right to cease existing in peace whenever we wish to and instead there is just this website which doesn’t really function properly. And as well as that it seems to be becoming...

sanctioned-suicide.net

The forum is dead now which just makes me want to ctb even more

I just wanted to say thank you for deleting and destroying the forum, the site is useless and dead now. I spent a lot of time venting on the forum but now it’s all gone. I thought this was a place for suicidal people to vent but I guess not anymore, it’s all dead and deleted, I bet having this...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Main forum has felt like it’s changed a lot.

I know that this thread is pointless really, but it’s just felt like the suicide discussion section has changed a lot, it seems to be full of posts that have barely anything to do with suicide, there’s too many troll posts and people just using it to post about random things, it means that all...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Yeah, it's just more or the less same thing over and over again, glad that some people notice it.

 

[Captive_Mind515]

It's like some of you are annoyed that less people on the board are actually killing themselves, and instead looking for emotional support and venting.

What would you prefer it to be? A place purely for people that are asking for ways to do it?


I was worried this person would be a protected member and I'd get banned for my post. Glad to see im not the only one that's seen this.

I'm getting a bit sick of this person.

It's like some users are annoyed that not as many people are as sure about killing themselves anymore, and there isn't a post every 5 minutes from a person who's killed themselves.

You understand my suspicions? It's like some people are here just to get their daily fix of people about to die while on a forum.

Is this based on your solid "bad vibes" evidence again? Or were you going to present something that resembled actual evidence of such strong accusations?

I'm finding your posts more extreme than FC's tbh.

 

[MiMif]

I mean I haven't been on the forum as long as you and only came after tantraculs video ngl.

But I haven't seen much of what your talking about...honestly this is the nicest, most non toxic forum I've ever been in it's a really nice place everyone is so nice and understanding and unlike other social medias people dont start attacking each other for no reason.

I've also only seen a few pro-lifers here...at most 15 but that was in my like 6 months of being here.

However I will admit I do low-key kinda spam making post. I just usually come here when I'm at a low point and vent. But then right after venting a random question comes to my mind and I just ask. I do like the attention I get on this site I'm not going to lie. Though not in the way I think your describing...it's more like in real life everyone just wants me to shut up about my mental issues and suicidalness but here I barely ever see a post without at least one comment and I like that.

The majority of people here are broken and I like that everyone here provides some comfort for complete strangers by responding to post or reacting.

I think I spam sometimes because I have so much to say but don't know how to word it. Not sure if I was one of the people you're talking about but I'll try to cool back on it
But despite my spamming there are people who have only been here a month who have like 2x the comments as me

I've been looking at posts in the past (around 2021 to 2022) and the posts back then seemed to be interesting and full of people who were respectful to people in vent posts. However, now, it's exactly like you say. People who are just venting tend to get insulted and get advice when this isn't the recovery forum. At this point, it's why I started venting to myself on my own profile post as opposed to making posts too much as I know that making venting posts here won't end well most of the time.

Hope you find peace soon FC and that you don't have to rely on this forum ever again due to being permanently non existent

I've never seen anyone really get insulted though :/
Like I've seen one or two people who get triggered for no reason and start cussing but that's it.
I haven't seen anyone here get insulted tho...the only one I really saw was when someone was venting about being a pedo. But even then the replies weren't mean they were more of concern.

TBH your posts often rub me up the wrong way. I often get the impression that your posts are subtly trying to push people off the edge.

It almost feels you're annoyed that everyone on the board isn't completely hopeless and immediately seeking ways to kill themselves.

I really fail to see how your pro-extinction points of view should be allowed but pro life points of view shouldn't be allowed. Pro-Life =/= necessarily anti suicide. This forum's existence can only be justified with a firm belief in freedom of speech, which always has to work both ways.

When I see you comment in response to suicidal peoples threads, I see you making subtle attempts to reinforce a bleak point of view of life but then promote death as peaceful and positive. E.G. "This world is so horrible and everything is hopeless.... I hope that death provides the bliss you are looking for".

I just get a really bad vibe from you tbh. It's one thing for people to support and accept people's choices but it's another thing to consistently trying to reinforce a negative opinion about life and a positive opinion about death.

This board SHOULD NOT be about convincing people to die, but allowing them to vent their suicidal feelings and thoughts without judgment and come to their own conclusions.

It's a pro choice forum not a pro suicide forum. You are annoyed at the nature of other people's posts but you expect people to be ok with your anti natalist style points of view like the only positive thing humanity can do is to just extinct itself.

P.S. PEOPLE I'm not anti-suicide, there's a good chance I'm going to CTB soon, but I don't think anyone should be trying to reinforce a bleak point of view, this website should be about supporting individual atonomy, not reinforcing the idea that suicide is a good thing for everyone.

If someone lives a happy life then that's great, but if someone lives a shit life and wants to ctb, that's not good but it should be accepted here and people should be allowed to vent.

We should not be treating suicide as if it's a good thing, because sometimes it's not and sometimes it is. We should be treating personal freedom as a good thing.

I won't lie FC's post are sometimes a bit repetitive...but I feel its because that's their main focus and problem which is existence so that's all they talk about. It also seems they're a bit scared of attempting due to the risk of failure. In like every goodbye threads FC usually offers the person best wishes and hope of peace and sometimes even calls them brave.


I'm sorry but this is a really non toxic nice forum and I feel like having bad feelings about a member shouldn't be voiced specifically...just feels toxic and kinda attacking.

If you don't like her so much just block her. That's what I do when I feel like someone's toxic no reason to attack her. (Kinda feels like you don't like her)

Remember everyone here is suicidal which usually equals being depressed. Leave the girl alone okay she's not comfortable commiting right now and depressed suicidal people can hate the world and wish for non existence as much as they want she's not harming anyone. It's not like she's every told someone not to back out...this is a suicide forum if you haven't noticed ofcourse she's gonna congratulate them for reaching the goal that most people here want.

I usually do the same but add that it's okay if they back out and not to do it if they feel uncomfortable. That's honestly only because of how many times I wrote here I was going to ctb and back out.

Im kinda ranting but I just see multiple posts and comments about people disliking FC. Which is fine but really you don't need to voice it. She's depressed (probably) and suicidal if you don't like her block her and leave her alone.