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NoFutureAnymore
Student
- Jul 4, 2023
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This is my first venting thread, let's see how it goes... Last year was a year full of pain, because I lost the love of my life. This was extremely painful and difficult, not only because I lost her but also because I'm not a very social person limited by a lot of social anxiety. I feel even a little bit afraid to write this. I didn't know how to continue with life so I joined SS and started to plan my ctb. Meanwhile I started to do therapy, because I want to give life a last chance. But it goes very slow and I still feel extremely limited in life compared to the average person. At the same time I kept continuing, I'm cooking food, I'm seeing friends and family and I even hit the gym quite often.
Actually this is where my faith in life was coming back again. I don't know exactly why but I felt a little bit better and started to notice that some girls were looking in my direction. I guess woman can smell your mood... I have no other explanation for this. There was one girl in particularly which was looking every time when I came into the gym. She even did exercises close to me, I guess to make it easier for me... I was ignoring it a little bit in the beginning because I still feel bad about my loss. But I guess she didn't give up for quite some time. So I decided that I maybe should give it a chance, but the closer she was the more nervous I got. When I got home I started to regret it and was thinking about how I should say something next time. This repeated for multiple times and I did do nothing! And now I noticed that she isn't looking at all anymore and she is doing her exercises on the other side of the gym with a female friend. I feels like she is even avoiding eye contact.
So basically I didn't do anything and that's basically how every social opportunity in life goes for me. I feel like a pathetic idiot, hate myself and my mood is rock bottom again. And that's why I'm back here... I was doubting if I should post this in the recovery section, but I guess there is no (simple) solution to my anxiety. So I think my destiny is ctb... I'm still open to suggestions though. Maybe I'll be patient and give it to the end of the year, but I can't deal with this for long.
Actually this is where my faith in life was coming back again. I don't know exactly why but I felt a little bit better and started to notice that some girls were looking in my direction. I guess woman can smell your mood... I have no other explanation for this. There was one girl in particularly which was looking every time when I came into the gym. She even did exercises close to me, I guess to make it easier for me... I was ignoring it a little bit in the beginning because I still feel bad about my loss. But I guess she didn't give up for quite some time. So I decided that I maybe should give it a chance, but the closer she was the more nervous I got. When I got home I started to regret it and was thinking about how I should say something next time. This repeated for multiple times and I did do nothing! And now I noticed that she isn't looking at all anymore and she is doing her exercises on the other side of the gym with a female friend. I feels like she is even avoiding eye contact.
So basically I didn't do anything and that's basically how every social opportunity in life goes for me. I feel like a pathetic idiot, hate myself and my mood is rock bottom again. And that's why I'm back here... I was doubting if I should post this in the recovery section, but I guess there is no (simple) solution to my anxiety. So I think my destiny is ctb... I'm still open to suggestions though. Maybe I'll be patient and give it to the end of the year, but I can't deal with this for long.