Make A Friend megathread

[coldcontact]

heya,
20M from the US
NEET basement dweller, trying to escape it, whether that'll be re-entering the real world or well, y'know

I try and cope by making ambient music n stuff. got some mental problems like panic disorder, social anxiety, plus other weird issues like visual snow and HPPD

i'm down to talk about whatever or just share music. i make ambient but am into rap, rock, electronic, whatever hits my brain right
if any of you guys also make music or art or whatever i'd love to see! feel free to message :)

 

[z14z]

20M from India, I listen to music a lot and feel free to hmu anytime

Hei!!!

I'm Erika and I am F19. I'm not planning to stay here for much longer as my depression, failures in life, abusive others, severe resentment, trauma and grief is taking over my life, I am hoping in the time I have I'll be able to make a few friends. I like video games, (especially horror ones), movies, shopping, baking, cooking and I like writing. I'm also very morbidly curious, and if that's something you share then we will definitely get on, or if your intrested in talking to me at all, pls send me a dm preferably, otherwise just send me a message <3

Edit: I don't have acsess to dm yet, so conversation will have to do <3

I don't have access to dms either but would love to have a conversation with you and what do you write usually

 

[z14z]

heya,
20M from the US
NEET basement dweller, trying to escape it, whether that'll be re-entering the real world or well, y'know

I try and cope by making ambient music n stuff. got some mental problems like panic disorder, social anxiety, plus other weird issues like visual snow and HPPD

i'm down to talk about whatever or just share music. i make ambient but am into rap, rock, electronic, whatever hits my brain right
if any of you guys also make music or art or whatever i'd love to see! feel free to message :)

I like music too, have you got into dsbm?

 

[bunnybird666]

Hi, I'm 19F from the US.
I'm looking for someone to talk to because I'm pretty lonely. I can be a little awkward sometimes so please excuse that lol.
I mainly like playing games or watching anime in my free time.
I'd love to make some friends so please don't hesitate to reach out :)

 

[bl33ding_heart]

Hii I'm an autistic 18 year old with severe bpd. I'm trying to manage and minimise the symptoms of my disorder. And I'm trying to change myself and my life overall to a better position even though I barely have a will to live. I'd love to have a friendship with someone where we can openly and freely talk about our hardships and motivate each other to be better. I'm really fucking lonely someone be my friend please. :3

 

[littleearthquakes]

Hey all. Posted on here before. As I get sicker and more disabled and depressed and my life is probably not going to go on or be functional all too much longer I'm more and more scared I'll never have a friend again. I'm still hurting over losing someone close and I'm even more sick than I was when that was going on and it took forever to find someone who actually saw any value in my company and what I can still offer so. It feels bleak.

I am kind of picky because sometimes people can make me feel othered or judged around my health stuff or negativity. I see it as realism because my life is objectively fucked. And the world is on fire. But if you think you can maybe handle it feel free to DM. I'm in my late 30s, queer and genderqueer, live in the US. Hobbies I can still do are writing, listening to music, TV, collecting. Very politically left and that matters to me, it's a survival issue.

Prefer folks who have some time to chat not just occasional messages. I can be a little slow to reply at times but I prefer shorter and more frequent contact vs pen pal style these days. I'm horribly lonely and bedbound and a friend would mean so much.

 

[evanescent_eva]

Hi, I'm Eva, and I'm a late-20s transfemme/enby/thing from the US. I've had treatment-resistant depression all my life, and I started feeling suicidal when I was 13. Since then, I've been diagnosed with a comical number of severe mental health conditions (e.g. schizophrenia, cptsd, ptsd from like half a dozen separate events, bpd, osdd...and the list goes on). And to top it all off, last year I became so physically ill (got hit with the cfs / pots / mcas / eds / fibromyalgia combo) that I all-but-stopped being able to leave my bed, let alone work or take care of myself.

All that's to say, I could really use a friend right now. Given the above conditions, I'm pretty limited in terms of what I can do. I spend my days dissociating by playing video games, watching tv/anime/movies, and obsessively reading SaSu. I think I'm just looking for a person to do those things with, together-like? Or even if I could just watch you play video games, even that would mean a lot to me. And also talking about how we're doing and stuff!

I guess shoot me a conversation if you think we might be a good fit? Hope to hear from you soon, and wishing you so much care along your journey.

 

[nooneyouknow]

hello!! 19NB and queer generally
I'm in the US and going into the trades, I like mitski, kimya and a lot of variety music. I draw and watch the same like 3 TV shows
I suck at responding sometimes so sorry if I seem to ghost you or don't respond but know I dont expect a fast response either if that's reassuring.
I am #1 bedrotter lmao

no pref for age range,

 

[RunDown]

I'm a 35 M from FL. I've had chronic illness for most of my adult life. I'm educated although I'm too sick to work. I'm a communist living with his conservative Christian family ;) I need leftist comrades to keep me sane while I figure out my exit plan. Im tired of feeling alone. Thanks for reading.

 

[Haibane-renmei-reki]

24 years old N.E.E.T/Hikikomori from Morocco here, Interested in Anime and lately i have been getting into the Occult/paranormal even thought I consider my self to be a total Materialist/Empiricist but it's an interesting topic and i am honestly very open minded to the possibility of it being real, i consider myself to be very a talkative and friendly person who you can talk to about a crazy wide range of topics, I 'm okay with people from all different ethnic backgrounds as well as sexes/orientations, also i don't play any multiplayer games so don't expect me to play anything with you
but yes we can be friends if you wish am more active on discord you can DM me there my tag's: 17cure

 

[possessed]

Hi ~ I'm 22M, living in the UK, moved here few years ago.

Really would like to meet some friends that I could meet in real life. I could travel anywhere within the country.

I like reading, making music, watch football and movies / TV shows...........

Feel free to DM me through "conversations" or "chat" ~

 

[exciccil]

20M from the states. I love all things plants and music when I'm not thinking about how my life is awful. It just feels useless to be proud in these things. I'm lost in life with no friends, so I figure this is the one place I can make them. I have no car because I have no license, and without a license I can't get a job easily. I fucking hate it. There's so many things to worry about being an adult.

 

[letmeseethedeath]

29 Italy

 

[bugisahuman]

hi!!! late teens f, eastern us, desperate for another 'messed up' person to talk to. if ur lonely please let me yap to you about my hyperfixations pleasepleaseplease i will love you so much

 

[MyDeath88]

20F(?) From Belgium, have been anhedonic for most of my life so maintaining interests is pretty hard, but I'm into western animation, reading and writing, and especially Deltarune. Currently in med school because I wanted to feel useful to society, don't really like it but am in too deep to quit now. I'm very left leaning but don't have any strong political affiliation as I feel the current iteration of global society is irreversibly heading towards collapse and barbarism. Brainfog has permanently shrouded my mind since 2023 and the days are just blending together. Really don't know what I want out of this, or life in general. Might cbt later this summer, somewhere in September. Sorry if this is incoherent.

 

[finalgoodbye:(]

hi!!! late teens f, eastern us, desperate for another 'messed up' person to talk to. if ur lonely please let me yap to you about my hyperfixations pleasepleaseplease i will love you so much

hey I'm also 19M, you can dm me if you want

 

[kitkat9234]

41F here from Upstate NY. Looking for someone to talk to.

 

[hatchedonyx]

Mid 20s (f), living in Denmark. Suffered with consistent MH issues since around 9 years old.
Dealt with a lot of loss in my life to the point I am the last remaining person within my family, so sort of raw dogging life alone right now.

I work in video games & anime publishing - I'm lucky to have a job that also consists of my main interests. I love farming games, LoL, WoW, & so many more tbh. I also collect Pokemon cards!
I love riding my motorcycle, it's a good escape for me.

Diagnosed with OCD & bipolar type 1. Common for me to be in mixed states more than one or the other.

Would love to just have someone likeminded to speak with. I recently just got out of the psych ward and on trial with different medications right now, so a bit out of it if I'm honest.

Politically I am very left leaning. I don't mind speaking with people who have different views (so long as you're not racist or homophobic), but just incase it puts you off.

Please do not contact me if you are under 21 - thank you!

 

[TheShadowQueen]

22 Trans female here from NYC

I'm just tired of being alone I lost all my friends because of me being trans. Im neurodivergent and can be shy at first. I love anime, games, music, and raving.

I'd preferably like to talk to other women and queer people. Also looking for a rave buddy I'm tired of going alone it's boring (Not that I don't enjoy myself still) and as I've started to dress more feminine it's become dangerous for me.

Anyways if anyone would like to talk just pm me I crave social interaction :3

 

[istherehope]

Hi, I'm a 24F from France, I love philosophy, politics, music (rock/alternative), art, having deep conversations about life (:
Let's chat !

 

[Unseelie]

Hiiii! I'm Seelie! Im 23 and trans! I like midwest emo, ttrpgs, videogames, books, anime, all sorts of nerdy shit! Im a leftist, so rightoids need not apply. Please come chat with me! I can be a good friend :3

 

[throwaway123]

Hii, I'm M24 from Germany, would love to chat. I like meditation, politics, philosophy, deep conversations about life, netflix(lol), and anime like solo leveling, im open to talk about everything and anything, just message me or like my post if you're interested.

 

[painfully]

Mid 20s (f), living in Denmark. Suffered with consistent MH issues since around 9 years old.
Dealt with a lot of loss in my life to the point I am the last remaining person within my family, so sort of raw dogging life alone right now.

I work in video games & anime publishing - I'm lucky to have a job that also consists of my main interests. I love farming games, LoL, WoW, & so many more tbh. I also collect Pokemon cards!
I love riding my motorcycle, it's a good escape for me.

Diagnosed with OCD & bipolar type 1. Common for me to be in mixed states more than one or the other.

Would love to just have someone likeminded to speak with. I recently just got out of the psych ward and on trial with different medications right now, so a bit out of it if I'm honest.

Politically I am very left leaning. I don't mind speaking with people who have different views (so long as you're not racist or homophobic), but just incase it puts you off.

Please do not contact me if you are under 21 - thank you!

Need 5 messages to be able to send and receive pm

 

[ijbolijbol8979]

hi !!
I'm 19F from the us.
I like anime and video games but I mostly spend my time on overwatch (love hate relationship tbh)
please pm me if u wanna chat :)

 

[prettysurethistime]

33. Female. UK.

I am looking for friends. Really struggling but idk, I still have some potential to make friends and recover. So if you're in recovery and want a friend then I'm open. Unless you think we have a lot in common, anyone not in recovery isn't very good for me. Sorry.

I like reading, I'm interested in getting into woodwork, furniture restoration. Music. Coding. Lots of random topics tbh. Comedy is the love of my life. And my cat, Woodhouse. She is life.

 

[Coconut7]

36F, USA

Life feels pretty hopeless right now. I'm hoping there is still hope to be found (if that makes sense), but I also accept there may not be anymore.

Love video games, hiking, and animals. Horror, historical drama, true crime.

 

[AStoneTurnedAlone.]

Hey I'm 25M from the UK
I have essentially no online friends and no irl friends so I'm super lonely all the time but it's hard to meet new people or to talk to ever online at all when you have anxiety.

Some of my interests or hobbies I guess are visual novels, nightcore, gym/fitness and rhythm games (kinda)

I don't have really anything worthwhile to offer other than someone to talk to through text or voice or whatever you want to I have pretty much all the free time in the world because I just stay inside all day.

 

[DeusVult]

Gloomy boy with his head always in the stars, thinking about life & death. Enjoy japanese culture, books, art, videogames. Lonely but enjoying solitude. Maybe autistic, not sure. Would love to make a friend.

 

[hopeifindmyself]

hello, dbh here. 28m.

i'm your standard nerd, i like video games (fighting games in particular), animation and board games/ttrpgs. i'm also extremely into western esotericism, occultism, the paranormal/supernatural and astronomy/cosmology. if i could see just one thing before i die it would be a tough choice between evidence of the paranormal or seeing a star go supernova. i also smoke a ton of weed and do shrooms as often as i can. i've been dealing with mdd since i was around 16yo and have recently been diagnosed with bpd and adhd. for the last couple of years i've been going to therapy, seeing a psychiatrist and taking antidepressants/mood stabilizers.

i've recently started to seriously plan for my suicide and i'm hoping to follow through on it before the year ends. there are a ton of things i'd like to do before i die, but just being able to socialize with other people think and feel who the way i do would be more than enough to make me a little happy before i go. if you're down to play games, watch movies together or just chat and chill hmu.

Hey I can relate to this. Dm please

 

[Seaghost]

German, 42m, my mind is always switching between 16 and 80 :].
Having real life friends between 22 and 71 but you now talking about suicide can be really difficult and that can boost loneliness. I'm sure you all kniw what mean xD.

Music: Regular I'm mostly into like rock/hardrock/bombast rock (for example Def Leppard, Jim.Steinman, Cinderella etc) or Musicals, Classic, sometimes (not the cliche aggro stuff) Rap, folk, film music.

I can be a clown and also completely quiet and deep talk ready.
At the moment I'm very into darkness and try to preperate my last steps.

A note at the end: It can happen I won't answering a long time especially if the postings in Dms getting bigger and bigger.
The my brain is overwhelmed and not able to answer in a competent way and that brings my mind under huge pressure. So it's not a bad will from my side but it could help not to make book-like seized DMs - from both sides ;).

Btw. If I'm realizing someone ist just searching for attention or other stuff. I'm closing the conversation immediately.