Make A Friend megathread

[kvorumese]

Hi, unspecified age here from Russia. I am AMAB but I have been questioning my gender identity for multiple months, so I use any pronouns.

I am not looking as much for a friend as for somebody to simply be acquainted and on good terms with. I don't go on this site nearly frequently enough to actually properly communicate and overall my attachment style is not understood even by me. If you would like to get to know me better, you can look through my venting threads - in a nutshell, I am avidly waiting for the day that all loose ends are tied and I can finally ingest SN.

I am rather laid back and I have learnt to suppress most of my emotions, so I am not too expressive, but still empathetic and I am a decent listener (although not as good of a responder/supporter... sorry).

If you want to chat with me, please NEVER EVER mention anything related to cutting, veins, arteries and etc. If this is something that you are interested in or take part in, please DNI (not because I hate you, but because this is an extreme visceral fear of mine).

My interests include development (Java, Kotlin and a bit of Python and a tiny slither of Rust), mathematics, gender (genuinely just discussing this topic is very interesting to me because until a couple months ago I had no idea about anything regarding it), suicidal thoughts etc, DevOps.

I don't play any videogames that much, but my favorite ones are Minecraft and Detroit: Become Human.

I belong to some fandoms like Attack on Titan, Death Note, Terror in Resonance and some other animes, and also My Little Pony (I haven't finished it yet though!!! I just started season 1, so no spoilers please).

Some of my favorite bands/artists are The Neighbourhood, Imagine Dragons, Billie Eilish, Charli XCX, NF, Phantogram, Call Me Karizma, grandson, Penelope Scott, 100 gecs, Chappell Roan, Ado, 2hollis, midwxst, Chase Atlantic, Sleeping wolf, Twenty One Pilots, Set It Off, RADWIMPS, Joji, The Weeknd, Panic! At The Disco and some others
I also like Russian music - pyrokinesis, Земфира, Би-2, Noize MC, Монеточка, mzlff, Валентин Стрыкало (Ukrainian band but Russian-language music), Дора, катя милтей, zhanulka (also Ukrainian) and some others.

Overall - I am not looking for anybody actively, but if you feel like we could get along, I think it's worth to try. But again, please note that I am not quick to respond because I don't visit this site even daily, but rather on unplanned occasions.
Have a lovely day ;)

 

[L1feless]

19m from latvia
spend most of my time indoors.
never had any real friends.
interests are videogames, programming (web development), music, movies and tv shows and a few more.
not actively suicidal.
just looking for friends.

 

[murdersuicide]

hihi imma (m20) uni student from the UK. im neurodivergent, don't leave my room much n im not good at holding conversations– but i can try my best c:

im pretty boring with very few hobbies, but i like animanga, maths, games (heavy on rpgmaker/VNs), avant-garde jmovies n surfing da net. i'll talk to anyone 18-30, bmf !! ^w^

 

[welshspider]

Who knows what the world brings, I'm a married 54m, just brought a house, have a man cave in the garden and a very well paid job life should be good, but why then do I always want to die, even now I purposely came to this site for inspiration.
Came across this thread and thought what the hell maybe someone will feel the same way or something close and chat or just say hi.

 

[私はあなたと一緒に飛びます]

Yo. I'm 28 from the Southeast US, generally a somewhat upbeat dude (think of the meme about the class clown making everyone laugh cause he's fuckin dead inside) but also hopeless romantic extrodinaire, cologne collector, and general goofball.

I don't have much in the way of interests, but I'd like to learn how to play Guitar/possibly learn German and hopefully find better uses of my time than just vegging out on Youtube, but I'll try and respond as much as possible, but I don't know how much/often I'll be on here, but I'd love to chat and offer any support that I can,haha.

I mostly (or used to play) Minecraft, Yakuza : Like a Dragon, TXR 2025, Oblivion Remastered. but I'm open to other suggestions and movies/anime.
My preference for Anime is more or less slice of life romance, bleach/naruto type shit, or anything really. Don't really care as long as I'm watching something I suppose.

I do want to say this as well - I can use Telegram, Discord, or here if you'd like to chat. I have Autism, possibly BPD and major issues with self esteem, and at times I can either be super hopeful or super depressed. Depends on how my day is going/general trend of things in my personal life as well.

I'd love to chat with y'all and hopefully make some friends as I really don't talk with much people outside of work (and like one dude from the Telegram chat)

P.S. - My music type pretty much consists of anything from the 80's + Kino + Happy Hardcore. I'm kind of a weird lad.

 

[Nitheful]

22 M from Europe
Shut-in for the past 5+ years
Would like to make non-judgemental friends that have similar interests/lives
My favourite things are: various Videogames (especially MMOs), Animals (cats!!!) and Music

Hey man, I'm 23, from Europe as well and been a shut-in for most my life, although not entirely by my own choice.
I'm a very patient and open-minded person, and if you want, I can be your friend.
Message me if you're interested, can always just chat a bit whenever you feel lonely. :)

 

[candlebøx]

27 y. o.
Male
Engaged
Eastern Europe
I work as a junior attorney in a financial institution. I often watch snuff movies, clips of real life violence and psychological thriller anime. I also find solace while listening to grunge and doom metal bands such as Alice in Chains or Rosary. I wholeheartedly despise living in a modern day society and the idea of parenting as a whole. I'm not a highschool edgelord, but a true efilist undercover, willing to talk to people, who share the same hatred towards expectations of modern society. I can't stand ultra-capitalism, but I'm not a commie either. Also feel free to DM me, if u just wanna talk about medieval history, rpg games or cars.

Who knows what the world brings, I'm a married 54m, just brought a house, have a man cave in the garden and a very well paid job life should be good, but why then do I always want to die, even now I purposely came to this site for inspiration.
Came across this thread and thought what the hell maybe someone will feel the same way or something close and chat or just say hi.

I find your case honestly fascinating. Maybe we could talk

 

[tylerdurden1]

Make A Friend Megathread

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hey

21m from india. been struggling with suicidal thoughts for a long time. emotionally burnt out, socially anxious, and mostly just numb these days. i grew up with a lot of trauma, alcoholic father, financial stress, childhood i never really got to live. i work in a job i hate to support my mom, and some days it feels like that's the only reason i'm still here. im planning to ctb by the end of the month.

i don't really have anyone i can talk to without filtering myself. just looking for someone who gets it, who doesn't mind if the conversation is heavy or messy or quiet. i try to be kind. i write sometimes. i like music, psychology, and overthinking everything.

if anything about this resonates, feel free to reach out in pms.

sending love

 

[unsaiddes]

Hi, I'm 25F from the eastern US. Very nerdy, very left leaning, very lonely and trying to be less miserable. I'm diagnosed autistic and have various mental health issues as well. I love to rant about my interests (YouTube, video games especially RPGs, all types of music, animals, fanfiction, 90s-2000s nostalgia and collections, etc.) but I also think I'm a good listener so I'd like to hear about the things you like too. I also think my advice is pretty decent if you need to vent.

I'd prefer to talk to people in their 20s-30s, and talk on either SaSu or Discord.

Also, please don't be an undercover cop or something. That would be kinda lame.

 

[ultradespair]

22 M from Europe
Shut-in for the past 5+ years
Would like to make non-judgemental friends that have similar interests/lives
My favourite things are: various Videogames (especially MMOs), Animals (cats!!!) and Music
Id love to hear about your hyperfixations/interests!
Please be 20 years old atleast

 

[私はあなたと一緒に飛びます]

Hi, I'm 25F from the eastern US. Very nerdy, very left leaning, very lonely and trying to be less miserable. I'm diagnosed autistic and have various mental health issues as well. I love to rant about my interests (YouTube, video games especially RPGs, all types of music, animals, fanfiction, 90s-2000s nostalgia and collections, etc.) but I also think I'm a good listener so I'd like to hear about the things you like too. I also think my advice is pretty decent if you need to vent.

I'd prefer to talk to people in their 20s-30s, and talk on either SaSu or Discord.

Also, please don't be an undercover cop or something. That would be kinda lame.

Yo. I've been looking to chat with someone about video games for a while, as I pretty much have very few people in my life I can talk to about my hobbies without sounding like a turbo nerd or the like. You play the new Oblivion Remastered by any chance? First time in a while I can say I was smiling like an idiot whilst watching the opening, heh.

But seriously though, I have a tendency to talk people's heads off and also tend to show random ass shit I find interesting/might brighten someone's day a lot, so if this bothers you...my apologies! Anyhow, mind if I shoot you a DM later or would you rather talk here in this thread?

p.s. also apologies for my need to over-explain/apologize for things as well

 

[livefastdieyoung]

Hi, I'm 18F from Australia.

I have two cats and I love animals. I've never had any real hobbies and my depression has gotten to the point I don't enjoy many things anymore.

I love watching movies and listening to music. I enjoy getting drunk or any drug that makes me not sober. I'm an upper girl so I love MDMA, but I don't like weed.

Things have just been getting worse and worse for me and I didn't think I'd even make it this far, probably due to the fact I was too scared of pain and never had a reliable method plus extremely awful strict parents.

This feels weird to post. I just made an account yesterday and that's when I found this website.

If anyone wants to be friends then yeah hmu not really sure how the page fully works yet but I'd enjoy having someone to speak to.

I enjoy talking about anything, and I'm also an atheist.

That's all !

 

[Eternal Disaster]

18 F
I never had friends because I was introvert. Life has fallen apart due to severe depression and anxiety. I have lost contact with almost everyone. I am a very emotionally dependent person kind of clingy .
All the interests are over except poetry and that too not pro-life.
I love Turkish historical series.
Will only contact through SaSu.
People don't like talking to me because I am boring or probably not interesting.

 

[Slimprofessional010]

Hi, my name is Jacob, I am looking for people who would like to talk and to get to know me. I'm 19, male and 6 foot 2. I like to watch YouTube and just chill out and go outside. I am depressed and have problems with S******* ideations but I like to think on the positive side most of the time. Right now I'm going through a really bad time. I just want to make friends and chill. I also like reading, biking and trying new things. I look forward to getting to know you. Feel free to PM me.

 

[fedup1982]

Hi, I'm Jay, I'm 41, male, in a relationship, UK. Looking for a WhatsApp/Signal texting buddy, age 31-46, any sex, preferably in the UK or at least Europe too.

My interests are DJing, sci fi mainly star trek, programming, physics, talking about philosophy, music like trance or hard house but I'll try anything. I'm happy to listen to vents if it helps.

Sometimes I'm a bit shy about what to talk to so we'll probably get on better if you're the sort of person to just saying what's on your mind.

My only really firm request is please don't put me in the position of having to alert emergency services if you're planning a CBT attempt. I don't want to have to deal with a soured friendship by calling them if you're attempting or otherwise potentially face a prison sentence for not doing so!!

 

[Slimprofessional010]

18 F
I never had friends because I was introvert. Life has fallen apart due to severe depression and anxiety. I have lost contact with almost everyone. I am a very emotionally dependent person kind of clingy .
All the interests are over except poetry and that too not pro-life.
I love Turkish historical series.
Will only contact through SaSu.
People don't like talking to me because I am boring or probably not interesting.

Hello, I don't know if you can private chat, but if not that's okay. I would be interested in being your friend if that's okay.