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rainwillneverstop

rainwillneverstop

Global Mod | Serious Health Hazard
Jul 12, 2022
165
Make A Friend Megathread

NOTE: Read this thread fully before posting!

It can be hard to find someone who understands, and can relate to suicidal and depressive thoughts.
This thread is to facilitate the possibility of meeting a friend who can understand that, or just to find someone who is on your wavelength.
There is no mandatory format for your post, just give a bit of info of what you are looking for e.g interests etc.


Rules:
By posting in this thread you take full responsibility of your acts. Read the warnings below.
If you want to reply to someone PM them, don't post here.
Don't PM people who did not post here.
Only one (1) post per person, per day. Don't spam.
Do not post personal contact information like email, phone number, kik, discord or similar here.
SaSu is not a dating site; anyone found to be crossing boundaries and/or or forcing/manipulating romantic relationships will be warned and banned
Always respect a no.
If you try to take advantage of anyone on this site, you will be immediately banned and reported to the authorities.


Understand that:
There are many risks involved in trusting a stranger, including but not limited to being lied to, being used for personal gain, being given random or harmful information, differences between you two, blackmail, pranks, and many more. Be sure you truly understand the risks, even for something as simple as getting help from someone or helping someone. We only provide a place to get in touch with others who think like you, you take full responsibility for what happens next.

Please feel free to contact mods with any concerns of problematic behaviour; any issues can be dealt with confidentially and discreetly.
 
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terra.nuvo

terra.nuvo

Student
Feb 15, 2024
168
Hi, I'm terra.nuvo. I'm 23M from US looking for a friend. I'm into watching and reading romance, fantasy, and sci-fi related media. I'm looking for someone who I can talk to, listen to, and get to know better and become real friends with. I know it can be hard to form relationships through text but I'd like to give it a try. I'm pretty shy and reserved but I'd like to get out of my shell a bit. If any of this interests you please feel free to PM me!
 
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1MiserableGuy

1MiserableGuy

Specialist
Dec 30, 2023
365
28M

US

Married, one kid, another on the way

Former professional musician

I dig horror movies, classic books, blues and metal music

I was actively suicidal when I made this account but am not now and haven't been for months. I remain here for the right to die activism

I can be a lot. I have been given warnings about the content of my posts here four different times. You have to have thick skin

Not interested in making close connections to anyone actively suicidal. Nothing against your choice, which I respect, I just don't want to deal with the fallout and loss once you go through with your plans

Open to just about any kind of people and perspectives you can name with the exception of liberals/leftists. Don't even bother if you vote democrat. Everyone else welcome
 
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silentcicada

silentcicada

if you were me, you'd do the same
Aug 2, 2023
116
Hi, I'm Cicada.
22 years old from Florida. I have a brain injury so that affects my memory to an extent.

I like shitty video games, drawing, post hardcore music, and I'm trying to get into anime again. I'm shy but have a bubbly personality once we get closer.
Just looking for a patient friend to goof and hang out with a little. I'm staying alive for my brother so I can't rope anytime soon.

Open to most so feel free to PM!
 
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ForgottenAgain

ForgottenAgain

On the rollercoaster of sadness
Oct 17, 2023
636
Hi, I'm ForgottenAgain, 29F from England. I work as videogame programmer and my hobbies consist of painting, writing, personal finance, fortune telling and playing videogames. I'm trying to get back into anime, looking forward to the next season of Tsurezure Children.

I'm a direct and honest person with a bit dark sense of humour. Not currently looking to ctb so another person on that same wavelength would be good.

I'm quite lonely and would love to meet someone local. If you're a woman in the Midlands and think we have things in common, feel free to PM me.
 
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Aeselle

Aeselle

Student
May 11, 2024
30
Hii I'm Aeselle, 20F from the US
I'm not sure if I have the permissions for PM yet but I just wanted to post beforehand

I'm currently a college student. I enjoy reading webtoons and watching all kinds of cdramas/kdramas, scrolling on tiktok and just chilling in my room, I'm a huge homebody if you can't tell. I'm slow to opening up to people since I've always been extremely introverted so pls have the patience with me ! I promise once you get to know me, I'm rather talkative.

Currently having thoughts to CTB so if that's not something you're comfortable with I totally understand.

Hit me up if you need someone to talk to !! I'm lowkey desperate for friends 🫡🫠
 
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1MiserableGuy

1MiserableGuy

Specialist
Dec 30, 2023
365
It really says something, but I'm not sure what, that I'm the lone completely ignored poster
 
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Yuki_03

Yuki_03

I really can't take it
Aug 9, 2023
488
Ohhhh, I like how the megathread is going!

Well, I'm Yuki, 20M, with a bit of a more childish personality! I don't usually talk to people my age, but I'm open to anybody! Idk if I will stay here for long, and I sometimes dissapear for some days so you might have to deal with that. I am Spanish with Chinese parents, so I can go with Chinese, Spanish, English, but also a bit of French.

I enjoy Vocaloid music as well as more popular calm music (Laufey, Mitski, Lo-fi in general,…). I also enjoy breakcore, but wouldn't consider myself a fan, I don't listen much. That also applies to k-pop.

I don't play much videogames, but I've got some money in Steam and my PC, so I'd love some recommendations! I also enjoy a bit of anime, as well as a more nerdy side, I enjoy physics, math, and chemistry, so feel free to rant about anything, i really enjoy it!

Well, not much more about me, and feel free to PM me!!!
 
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derpyderpins

derpyderpins

I was wrong
Sep 19, 2023
949
This is a nice thread. I don't have enough free time to commit to gaming sessions or anything, but I want everyone to know I'm generally DM friendly.

If we've already interacted a good bit I probably already consider you something like a friend. Feel free to message me any time for anything.

Even if we haven't spoken, if you want to vent to some one 1 on 1 or maybe follow up on something I've posted that's fine! Sometimes it's easier to talk to one person than post on a public thread. There's nothing you're going to tell me that I'll judge you for. We're all struggling in our own way.
 
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eatantz

eatantz

I luv dolls
Nov 4, 2023
453
Hi, I'm Ant!
I'm from London, female, 18

I have autism, depression, anxiety and possibly bpd. I'm open for any sort of discussion, venting, debating, or just general chatting. I would love friends I don't mind if you're planning to ctb soon or not, I just like talking to new people. I'm currently a student doing work to get into uni. I'm from Moldova/Caribbean

About me:
I like anime, dolls, roblox, hsr, genshin, i like movies, i like nerds and people who have passions in random things, i like art
If anyone just wants to talk about things they like i would love to listen!
I get attached to people and I love deep friendships, but I'm learning to be more casual:ahhha: [its the autism]

cons about me:
I'm not very good with advice but I can listen to your worries/struggles, I can be blunt/honest sometimes comes off as rude, I'm awkward so bare with me.

I have no preference, just someone funny and non judgmental. I have an instant love for people in their 30s and up but I'm not ageist so i don't mind lol
 
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Coconut blue

Coconut blue

Student
May 13, 2024
146
hi
you can call me coconut:)
im 18, female, was born in the US, lived in mainland china for much of my life, but will be starting college in the US this fall
i like reading, movies, fortunetelling, music, etc
cat person, fluent in chinese and english, tiny bit of knowledge of french. id love to learn more languages but dont have the commitment or time lmao
new to the forum, only joined recently but am looking forward to making friends!
 
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$crim

$crim

skincarver
Feb 12, 2023
96
im a lil anxious to share, but heres mine!

im Carmilla, 23 and live in the U.S as well as many others here! im also nonbinary, so pronouns arent too strict with me
im a hobbyist that spends most of their time voice acting, doodling on my pc, sleeping or playing video games
music is also a massive obsession of mine
id love to have a few buddies to bang out some League of Legends or WoW classic with!!

i struggle with typing and talking, so id appreciate patience if you do reach out ♥
 
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ColorlessTrees

ColorlessTrees

Stuck
Jan 4, 2022
250
F, from the US. Prefer PMs, otherwise you can expect to be unintentionally ghosted. I struggle to begin or maintain friendships due to the nature of texting strangers, especially during that dry introductory phase, but if you feel like we could get past that based on the unhinged sales pitch below, or would like to chat in "real time", feel free to message me:

I strive to be a balanced person, though I am lacking in areas, and hold some divisive opinions—importantly, I need someone who is capable of agreeing to disagree.
Aside from that, I tend to take my passion and rambles too far, and I'm melodramatic about the happenings of my life (though, currently a 'disabled'/lazy NEET and follow where impulse takes me) I rarely bond, but when I do, you have my devotion forever, or until you get sick of me and I quietly fuck off.

You must be able to tolerate high levels of childishness and cringe, for my hobbies are the very definition of nerdy: I live and die by fandom; reading and writing fic is my main hobby. As for books, I love both romance & horror, occasionally literary or nonfiction.
Beyond that, I have a growing collection of fashion dolls, an obsession with 80's alternative music, and a decade long love of the Harvest Moon/Rune Factory games alongside a few others. I'm well versed in 90s cartoons/whatever other niche thing catches my fancy that I haven't listed here—I'll top it off with pointless and arrogant philosophizing on topics far past my intelligence.

Not 'actively' suicidal at the moment, so I'd prefer someone equally as in limbo or on the path to recovery, but it's not a rule. Someone wordy who likes to talk a lot, about themselves or the world, is a bonus. I can cope with any topic and amount of venting; in fact, I prefer listening even if I lack the social skills to show it.

If you've read this far, I commend you for your attention span. I've been thorough though not eloquent.
 
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tychai

tychai

ehehe
Apr 30, 2024
27
22 M, from Australia. I like playing a few instruments, reading, Pokemon plus well a bunch of other games/media, and singing. I like meeting new people, making genuine connections is nice! Otherwise uhh have a sweetheart of a cat and love seeing people's interests and being introduced to stuff like new hobbies or media. I guess that's me in a bite sized chunk, I dunno haha.
 
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bearbrikk

bearbrikk

Listen to the voice in your head
May 2, 2024
117
Hello! I am Florence. 20M and from Holland.
I am absolutely terrified to post on here but it is worth a try.
I am here to vent about my life but also very interested in your story. I love to learn and listen. One thing I got from my mom is that I never ever judge anyone for who they are or what they choose to do. So I am definitely a safe space.
It has been 5 years since I had a friend. I know that sounds pathetic but I have Autism and severe bpd so it explains it a bit. I have a hard time making friends because I care too much too fast so I am learning to balance it out.
Please feel free to talk to me or vent.
Oh and I am very passionate about learning so I am learning Mandrin and Spanish. And I play violin and guitar.
 
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dogbreath

dogbreath

Youre not even in the hole, are you?
Feb 13, 2023
116
Hiiii, u can just refer to me as DB.... I'm 21, nonbinary, and from the US. Have a lot of social anxiety so pls be patient with me 😭 just looking for someone to talk to since I'm lonely

be warned that while I am trying to Recover, I am also planning to die if things don't get better ⚠️⚠️⚠️

Some things about me!!!
I'm an artist (mostly do digital art)
obsessed with solar opposites + rick and morty
Recently been watching pokémon and also been playing emerald on an emulator on my laptop and have also been playing minecraft (I love consuming media if u can't tell lol)
Currently in college cause idk what to do with my life.

But yah that's all!🙂👍
 
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real human being

real human being

full of broken thoughts
Jan 28, 2022
202
Hi, I'm 21M from Israel.

I don't have a lot of interests. It's hard for me to maintain any kind of hobby because I have low energy and motivation. Even basic every day things things can be difficult for me. I like to watch movies sometimes and log them on letterboxd (or an anime or tv show from time to time). I play a bit of chess. I also like some music, no specific genre but I can share my playlists. I'm also into technology, I guess. Recently I've been spending a lot of time in the chat and the forums here on sasu. I waste way too much time mindlessly watching videos on youtube. Frequently I just do nothing.

I am very mentally ill, though my exact illnesses will depend on which psychiatrist you ask, from my experience. Severe anxiety and depression are the big two that are really making my life hell, and have made my life hell since a young age. I have trauma from childhood. I am constantly stressed and often feel bad from the moment I wake up till the moment I go to sleep more or less. Despite all of that, I am trying to to live, and improve my life, though I don't know how much success I'm ever gonna have with that. At least for now, I don't plan to CTB, but I think about it every day.

I am very lonely, as the only people I regularly talk to are my parents, who I have a difficult relationship with. It would be nice to have someone to talk to and get to know, whose experiences are similar to mine.
 
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kogareteru

kogareteru

Member
May 15, 2024
7
i'm tari, 18, from turkey.
i am interested in lots of things but i mainly like chillhop, literature, philosophy, skateboarding, programming. don't hesitate to pm me, especially if you're turkish.
 
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anne neum

anne neum

Member
Sep 12, 2023
26
I m Anne and I'm 27. I live in Siberia. I am non binary person interested in just about everything. I'm also severely depressed. I play computer games to ease the pain, ttrpgs. I guess I am a bit of a nerd.
I love cats. U may totally pm me if you want to talk about something that you're excited about I'll try to get you
 
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LilyLaroux2000

LilyLaroux2000

fairy
May 5, 2024
8
Hi :D Im Lily. Im 18 years old and I love to create! I create with anything, paints, camera, yarn, flour. So I have many hobbies yay.

Im looking for a friend that would help me understand this place more or just a normal friend. I joined a year ago but they deleted my account because I used a different wifi which is strange but okay. So I rejoined not long ago and Im kinda new? I would appreciate any kind of help. Thank you for reading this!
 
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Praestat_Mori

Mori praestat, quam haec pati!
May 21, 2023
9,551
Hi :D Im Lily. Im 18 years old and I love to create! I create with anything, paints, camera, yarn, flour. So I have many hobbies yay.

Im looking for a friend that would help me understand this place more or just a normal friend. I joined a year ago but they deleted my account because I used a different wifi which is strange but okay. So I rejoined not long ago and Im kinda new? I would appreciate any kind of help. Thank you for reading this!
Welcome to the forum. You need a few more posts, then you have access to chat and PM.
 
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LilysAngel

LilysAngel

Specialist
Apr 30, 2024
369
Hello! I am Lily. I won't be around too much longer, but I would love to meet someone to talk to until the time comes.

Some labels that have stuck: pansexual, polyamorous, switch, female, American, BPD, OCD, ADD

I play a lot of magic the gathering. No, I do not play (insert game name here). Mtg is literally it lol.

I am a BIG fan of horror movies. I enjoy the really out of pocket ones.

Bdsm is basically my entire life. I am very active in this community. Very well educated.

Love cats.

I have a strange obsession with sharks.


If you're under 21 pls don't message me. If your introduction message is creepy, I will immediately "ignore" you.
 
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lovedread

lovedread

Tyra Banks screaming “LEARN SOMETHING FROM THIS.”
Jan 2, 2020
189
welll here goes
hey yall, im lovedread. im a girl she/her and i live in the united states. currently in that limbo stage of life...im not in college rn but id like to try to go. i really just have severe major depression, gad, adhd, and an ed i dont rly like talking abt but eh.

my interests include --> womens gymnastics, i like watching tv shows, my favs rn are probably POSE(havent finished), Yellowjackets(pfp), Severance, RPDR, Barry, im forgetting some right now but yeah. i also like playing roblox. sometimes minecraft too but ive hardly played. in the future i wanna learn how to sow clothes. i want to learn about socialism. i want to learn abt queer and black history cuz im pretty ignorant when it comes to things rn. i dont know what i want to study in college but itll probably be anthropology or history.

im a major rnb fan. i really like music. i have a cat but i dont really take care of her, i live with my mom and she does. favorite artist is mariah carey

i live in the US but my family is from the carribbean(idk how 2 spell). my posts on here are extremely extremely unhinged so...yeah. u can get 2 know me thru pms. i like talking to people. im on the younger side ig? dont feel comfy w sharing my age, but im def old enough to be on the site, so if youre uncomfortable talking w younger ppl then lmk what ur boundaries look like so i can know whether or not to engage.

cant think of much else to mention so im ending it here...feel free to reach out
 
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DeIetedUser4739

Guest
Apr 21, 2024
392
Hi, I'm from Australia and I have too much fear I'll survive an attempt atm so I'm trying to do other stuff to take my mind off things for a while.

I used to like playing games like Fortnite & Valorant so could maybe get back into them.

I also really want to try psychedelics like psilocybin to see if they can fix my depression. If you know how to buy it online and could tell me how it'd be greatly appreciated.

Thanks
 
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unnecessary

unnecessary

Das Leben macht ohne Musik keinen Sinn
Apr 25, 2024
89
Hi, I'm 26.I live in Brazil,I like reading, listening to music, I like "trying" to learn a language, I'm currently trying to learn german as a hobby and to de-stress my mind from obscure thoughts, if anyone is interested in chatting in this language send me a PM, but we can talk at English, portuguese and spanish too. I like reading about philosophy and history, I like anime and manga, I'm constantly looking for new ones. I think my photo of Itachi says a lot about how much I like anime lol.I like to play games much,mainly, Lol, Valorant and Genshin Impact.Well, I guess thats it.
 
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goodoldnoname923

goodoldnoname923

Wanting to find peace
Mar 28, 2024
835
hello there i decided to write this post in hopes of making a few friends for me Loneliness has been a bitch for me my whole life yet alone these last few weeks so a good friend or 2 definitely couldn't do me any harm

😅 my heads been a mess these last few months since the departure of my very special friend and ever since then i've wanted to strongly CTB especially upon reflection on myself my relationships and life as a whole as only cemented that want, however i've gotten to a stage were i've partially accepted I'm not fully ready and may not occur anytime soon

I don't want to be alone but i don't really wanna get attached or connect with anyone while i'm thinking about CTB'ing for muiltple reasons

For that reason i've slowly became emotionally and psychically distant from everyone really basically shutting myself off emotionally and it's been hard for me to get myself back out there,not only because "what's the point" but also from the emotional trauma of the event and not just wanting to get close to anyone again but at the same time i crave that emotional intimacy i have always struggled with due to my issues, but yea making i feel making friends here would be easier for me for me as i dont have to pretend i'm fine and people will know there is a chance i may not be around long

I suffer with autism, depression and anxiety i even believe there is a high likelyhood i could have bpd,granted there is many other things i could have though so

As alluded to previously I do prefer deeper connections as opposed to superficial ones although they seem very difficult to form especially with me due to poor social skills then to maintain them due to emotional issues,but i can also get attached easily so thats just a warning rn ^^'

Some examples for things I enjoy are video games,anime,music and singing used to cook but not as much now partial to abit of traveling like my football and f1 not as much as i used to but still enjoy among other hobbies and interests that escape me at this current moment

I guess i should also mention i do have a admitted preference to calling as i feel i can be more at myself than i can via text but i'm aware thats not everyones cup of tea

But yea if you would wish to speak to me or get to know me don't hesitate to hmu we can continue to speak here or move to other socials if you'd prefer i'm fine with whatever ^^
 
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eaturdirt

eaturdirt

Loneliness consumes me
Apr 14, 2024
88
Hi! I'm 18F and you can call me dirt for now :) I have autism and very possibly also bpd. I'm focused on recovery at the moment but if things don't get better ctb will be an option for me so just letting everyone know. I'm quite lonely and I'd like to make some friends I can talk to about all kinds of things. I really like anything horror, all kinds of art (I make art myself), experimenting with clothing, crocheting, dogs (honestly all kinds of animals) and listening and helping others. I love to watch movies and I like to read as well.

We don't have to have anything in common because I'd like to make connections with everyone! I'm mainly just looking for a friend or a recovery partner, we could update and support each other on big or little milestones maybe? My advice is not always very good but I'll try to listen to you and support you where I can :)

Just shoot me a message! I respond to everyone.
 
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Spectre

Spectre

I'm looking for a man in finance, trust fund, 6'5
Nov 27, 2023
178
23M Canada

You should be so lucky as to have me as a friend but you are willing to try.
 
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sadlyexisting

sadlyexisting

All the thoughts in my head say I‘d rather be dead
Jun 26, 2023
98
Hi!! I am 20F from Germany.

I am very determined to ctb and don't really see any point to recovery. I don't have a ctb date, since I am mostly deciding it spontaneously.

Otherwise I'd say I am a pretty chill person, I mostly spend my time watching YouTube or playing various video games. So it'd be good if you play some games, so we could play them together some time.
I am very interested in horror and paranormal things too, and watch horror movies from time to time.

I'd say I am a pretty good listener, even though I have problems communicating my emotions, I try my best to be there for everyone and comfort them.

Age and gender doesn't matter, so just sent me a message. I respond to basically everyone!
 
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