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Unsure and Useless

Unsure and Useless

Drifting Aimlessly without Roots
Feb 7, 2023
253
Haha, no. I've always been the "ugly friend" in groups with how fat I am and my fucked up teeth. Plus, I'm hairy and have zero sense of style.

Although, I'm not significantly affected by it anymore. I've come to terms with the fact that I'm ugly and that won't change unless I'm rich enough to afford surgery and a bunch of makeup.
 
Next-to-Nil

Next-to-Nil

Begrudgingly Everlasting
Mar 2, 2023
238
I definitely am, just, according to the worst possible demographic.
 
CuteThing

CuteThing

i order the same subway every time i go to subway
Mar 22, 2023
69
sometimes i find myself atracting, and sometimes i cant look at the mirror
 
RainyPrimadonna

RainyPrimadonna

Nice to meet you! ツ
Mar 11, 2023
30
So, do you consider yourself good looking. Do you get a lot of attention from the other sex? Do people notice you walking in the streets etc?

Personally, I would say im average. I get some attention, but no use when your mind is so destroyed...
Depends, if I dress nicely and am having a good day I think more positively and I will probably think I look okay. If I'm having a bad day, looking in the mirror makes me feel physically sick and I start gagging and have to look away.
In public I generally can't tell if any attention I get is good or bad. If I sit down somewhere, I will notice people look at me as they walk by, but this triggers me and I feel sick because it then feels like everyone is staring at me and judging me and I must look like some kind of monstrosity because people are staring at me. I generally can't make any judgement on my own appearance, and I wouldn't be able to properly judge others answers if they were to tell me if they think I'm attractive or unattractive.
 
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H.O.Xan

Experienced
Feb 1, 2023
278
i would consider myself, not bragging or anything narcy, but i feel thts also the reason i'm always xpected to smile and look like i'm emjoying myself perfectly 24/7 to keep "the appearance".

TLDR: yes, and i think thts prolly why so much is expected from me
 
Rocinante

Rocinante

My name is Lucifer, please take my hand
Aug 26, 2022
1,061
someone said I look like a white mogger version of this Native American insta model
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once I get genio and rhino I will mog
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StolenLife

StolenLife

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Sep 19, 2022
739
Nope. I already hit the Wall and I'm only 23, and not like I was a beauty even before.
 
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vertigokandy

vertigokandy

Member
May 3, 2023
9
I know it's a weird question.

My other thread "How are you financially" showed fhat majority are under some form of financial stress.

So, do you consider yourself good looking. Do you get a lot of attention from the other sex? Do people notice you walking in the streets etc?

Personally, I would say im average. I get some attention, but no use when your mind is so destroyed...
Okay, so i do not consider myself good looking, i try to boost my self up from time to time but i really think i am not atractive. I don't know how other people see me, i sometimes get compliments when i fancy myself out but i usually get the "oh you are not that bad, you just need to go out more" or sometimes get told how sick i look. I decided to embrace that part and actually enjoy more when i dress down in "homeless" attire as my mother called it.
It's true that the way you carry and dress yourself adds points to attractiveness, but honestly i sometimes don't recognize myself in the mirror
 
PuppyinPain

PuppyinPain

I’m trying to hate you
May 3, 2023
34
I know it's a weird question.

My other thread "How are you financially" showed fhat majority are under some form of financial stress.

So, do you consider yourself good looking. Do you get a lot of attention from the other sex? Do people notice you walking in the streets etc?

Personally, I would say im average. I get some attention, but no use when your mind is so destroyed...
I would personally call myself average but I often get attention from both sexes so I'm unsure if it's my own dysmorphia. I am a bit chubby but only really in my thighs and hips, I see it as a bad thing but I know some may disagree. Personally I do not like my appearance most days (especially as of late) so I would rate myself 5/10. But again that's just my opinion since I've been pursued a few times even while I'm in a relationship.
 
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Heavenbound

Specialist
Apr 11, 2023
304
I do not consider myself good-looking. Also, I am told that I am not good looking, and I can't even get casual sex in a darkroom.
When I was younger, I used to consider myself acceptable, but age has done a number on my body, I've gained weight from all the medications I have to take, and as hard as I try I am unable to loose the weight.
Let me tell you how bad I look... I once tried to hire a sex worker out of sheer frustration, and they turned around and left. What more confirmation do I need?
 
Kinsey

Kinsey

Member
May 8, 2023
16
Yeah, somewhat. But I'm too short/skinny so I'm doomed as a man.
 
iamalreadydead

iamalreadydead

Student
Nov 25, 2022
130
It does actually depend on the day? mostly I feel like disgusting trash, but I've had multiple people tell me otherwise
 
SunflowerBrains

SunflowerBrains

Member
May 7, 2023
67
It depends on the day I guess. Sometimes I feel I'd look better wearing a blanket over my head, covering everything. On other days I think I'm the sexiest thing alive. No in-between.
 
Ameya

Ameya

A nobody
Mar 22, 2021
126
I'm average looking. Let's say I am good looking enough to not get shunned and harassed
 
Housefly

Housefly

Member
May 7, 2023
70
I got hit on by a 30+ year old in the lobby of an out patient mental health ward... So I guess nutters like me. Other than that I don't want to be seen so I dress like the frumpy aunt.
 
Alcoholic Teletubby

Alcoholic Teletubby

Rip in piss
Jan 10, 2022
355
Based on how people have reacted to seeing me—both personally and socially—I do now. That's one of the reasons I want to CTB sooner. While I still have motivation and feel good about myself.

I don't want to get to the point when I'm all wrinkly and weak.
 
𖣴 nadia 𖣴

𖣴 nadia 𖣴

...member...
Dec 15, 2021
252
Yeah, how I look on the outside doesn't reflect how I feel on the inside which makes masking a bit easier ig. But from as far back as I can remember I wanted the ability to become invisible by clicking my fingers because 'pretty privilege' didn't protect me from almost a decade of child sexual abuse, grooming, neglect, violent and unhinged parents, rapists and other things.
 
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gotomrg

gotomrg

Member
Mar 10, 2023
58
hell no. i kinda used to be though. had the potential at least. now i dont even wanna know how i am perceived in the society.
 
sulli

sulli

Student
Jan 25, 2023
197
yeah & people are always getting crushes on me which sounds like a humblebrag but it's just annoying. i had a potential new roommate and i've known her for like a week yet she's obsessed with me to the point i'm not sure about moving in.

if only everyone knew i was a total fucking lunatic before they decide they wanna date me 🥴
 

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