Would you consider yourself good looking?

[user_name_here]

On a scale of 1-10 I need a new fucking scale

 

[callme]

Passing off as asexual to come to terms with being a total loser to find a platonic and emotional relationship like some say to incels doesn't work either. Even when somebody likes you for what you are, excluding looks, they still would never fall for you if you are deadbeat, without a job, education, savings or anything.

The fatter I get, which is a lot, the more I wonder why pray tell do they say the word overweight? Such an outdated word, like neoliberalism, or pager . Just isn't relevant. What is overweight in front of obese?

Even if my dream to be with somebody somehow happened, they wouldn't have their half of the bed, but their third of the bed.

 

[dandan]

I'm good looking and its so cool! Lucky I guess

 

[WhatPowerIs]

Absolutely not.

 

[Brianiskillingme]

Yeah I am very pretty, however once people see my BPD in action they dont see me, only that.

Yeah. I worked as a model and a Hooter's waitress for about 3 years before my mental health spiraled to the point where I couldn't function properly anymore. So, here I am on SS

Pretty much my story.

 

[lessonlearned]

I know it's a weird question.

My other thread "How are you financially" showed fhat majority are under some form of financial stress.

So, do you consider yourself good looking. Do you get a lot of attention from the other sex? Do people notice you walking in the streets etc?

Personally, I would say im average. I get some attention, but no use when your mind is so destroyed...

"Do you get a lot of attention from the other sex?" rarely and if i do its probably out of pity

 

[HadItAll]

I used to be very good looking before my illness, I had alot of female attention, quite a few girlfriends, etc.

My illness has caused me to gain some weight and it shows on my face, unfortunately.

 

[Source Energy]

Pretty. I get tons of attention and compliments. This hasn't saved me from unrequited love and the horrors of heartbreak and loneliness. At most, it serves as a mild consolation but not enough.

 

[lionetta12]

I know it's a weird question.

My other thread "How are you financially" showed fhat majority are under some form of financial stress.

So, do you consider yourself good looking. Do you get a lot of attention from the other sex? Do people notice you walking in the streets etc?

Personally, I would say im average. I get some attention, but no use when your mind is so destroyed...

I think I'm slightly above average based on my own views of me and what feedback I've had from everyone I know and their ratings of me too. Not perfect by any means but good enough and that's good enough for me I guess.

 

[Forever Sleep]

No. Not good looking at all. I don't even try anymore.

 

[Tesha]

I think a long walk off a ten storey building would definitely improve my looks.

 

[BroodingBleu]

This might start off as seemingly narcissistic but bare with me;

I've been told my whole life by others that I was handsome and attractive, in school a couple girls asked me to the dances and stuff. Today, the women I work with that know I'm transitioning even comment that they would have dated me as a guy.

The unfortunate fact is that, even if I made peace with my looks and found myself to be as attractive as others say, it will never be how I feel. I might be an attractive guy, but fuck am I a very ugly woman.

 

[grandeur.egg]

Yes, however this often affects me negatively because of my personality disorder. My whole worth was once centered around how attractive i could make myself and how great of a person i could make myself appear to be to break the stereotypes of the mean egotistical attractive people... one self awareness journey later and here i am lol

 

[resolutory]

I think so. Probably not massively, but certainly not bad. My main problems relationship-wise are social/mental issues.

 

[GasMonkey]

Nah.
If I were good looking I wouldn't be on this forum. xd

 

[Rocinante]

I'm the best looking

AI mistakes my face for Tom Cruise

no gf for Tom Cruise lookalike face @TRUE_CEL

looksmax.org

 

[dgdgtth]

Objectively, yes, and by objectively I mean if you were to make a list with most conventionally attractive physical traits, I would cover more than 2/3 of it. That doesn't mean I personally find myself attractive. I find myself very unappealing, like my features are prettier by themselves than my whole body in total, and I think there are factors to attractiveness (personality, gestures) that I definitely do not have.
The fact that I have an ED doesn't help at all. I never know if I'm perceiving my body as it truly is, so I always end up thinking I'm hideous even though I know that, objetively, I'm probably the opposite.
I really hope this doesn't come out as self absorbed as it sounds in my mind.

 

[Anon1337]

Average.

 

[Whistea]

Nah man, I'm ugly as fuck.
I can list 8 things that are undesirable about my face alone.

 

[Beeko]

I think I'm pretty leaning more into cute.
Nothing breathtaking or show stopping.

Despite being aware of this I am quite happy with my looks overall.

 

[missingpeace]

Yes, I would say I'm pretty, but now since my issues I don't go out that much and don't really welcome much male attention. What's the point? I don't feel like me anyway.

 

[Lost in a Dream]

No, I wouldn't, but being ugly doesn't bother me all that much. It's probably a good thing anyway.

 

[LunaXCBN]

I look average. I don't really try to look good.

 

[rest in peace]

I know it's a weird question.

My other thread "How are you financially" showed fhat majority are under some form of financial stress.

So, do you consider yourself good looking. Do you get a lot of attention from the other sex? Do people notice you walking in the streets etc?

Personally, I would say im average. I get some attention, but no use when your mind is so destroyed...

no. if i was good looking, i would be loved and cared for. i also would not have been bullied and abused to the degree i was

 

[LaVieEnRose]

Nope.

 

[frog_prince]

I was because I had muscles but not anymore.. now im fat, man boob, big head, receding hairline and more..

 

[imcadt99]

I wouldn't say my face itself is particularly attractive, it's average or even slightly below average if anything, though my height could definitely be considered an attractive attribute at 6'3". While I've had women/men who have been attracted to me (I guess I would consider myself bi under the right circumstances), I haven't felt socially competent enough to pursue a relationship with anyone. I definitely don't conform to conventional male attractiveness/beauty and I isolate myself so much I'm not even sure I'd receive the same attention anymore especially given my newfound social handicaps. Honestly I'm dumbfounded that I've even encountered interested girls, given their higher standards, not that I encounter people much anymore since I'm isolating myself.

 

[Georg]

No, I am ugly. If I was at least average looking I wouldnt kill myself

 

[justkenisfine]

Always felt i was the worst looking person on earth, which like, statistically can't be true but still. I think im pretty ugly. Managed to get a partner who came onto me first and tells me all the time how attractive I am, but damn I cannot get myself to believe it

Its a weird answer.
I have a hard time getting a girl. Idk if I just come across wrong or something. But with girls it difficult. Girls who have no interest in dating me say im cute.
To get a guy, they love me. Go to gay bar, get drunk for free. I dont have to try.
My perception of myself though. I'd go with a yes.

Yeah, I'm queer and I've noticed how vastly different gay vs straight attraction to men is and how different lesbian vs straight attraction to men is. Wild. I consider myself a "lesbian" because I like women but Im not a man exactly, and even some straight dude will talk about a woman like she's the fucking hottest person on Earth and I'll b like "meh" and then see an average looking girl but with a hot fashion sense and be incredibly attracted to her. Shit's kinda interesting to me

 

[WorthlessTrash]

Not really, no. I have never been actively pursued by women. I somehow got lucky with a fluke relationship back in 2014, but it's been all downhill ever since it ended. I lost close to 100 lbs in a year back in 2019 in an attempt to attract a relationship, but that did not work. Either because anyone could sense my social awkwardness, or my looks didn't appeal to anyone. Not that it really matters, though. I wouldn't think of myself as attractive no matter what standard I reached in the eyes of women. I just don't think of the male sex as being attractive, but it's probably my pro female bias talking.

I wish I was an attractive woman, though. Heck, I'd settle for being an average looking or below average one *sigh*

(Do note that I am gender dysphoric AMAB and wish I was born the opposite sex)