callme

callme

I'm a loose cannon - I bang all the time.
Aug 15, 2021
1,210
Passing off as asexual to come to terms with being a total loser to find a platonic and emotional relationship like some say to incels doesn't work either. Even when somebody likes you for what you are, excluding looks, they still would never fall for you if you are deadbeat, without a job, education, savings or anything.

The fatter I get, which is a lot, the more I wonder why pray tell do they say the word overweight? Such an outdated word, like neoliberalism, or pager . Just isn't relevant. What is overweight in front of obese?

Even if my dream to be with somebody somehow happened, they wouldn't have their half of the bed, but their third of the bed.
 
Brianiskillingme

Brianiskillingme

Slowly Dying Inside
Jan 18, 2022
148
Yeah I am very pretty, however once people see my BPD in action they dont see me, only that.
Yeah. I worked as a model and a Hooter's waitress for about 3 years before my mental health spiraled to the point where I couldn't function properly anymore. So, here I am on SS :))
Pretty much my story.
 
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lessonlearned

lessonlearned

Member
May 23, 2022
86
I know it's a weird question.

My other thread "How are you financially" showed fhat majority are under some form of financial stress.

So, do you consider yourself good looking. Do you get a lot of attention from the other sex? Do people notice you walking in the streets etc?

Personally, I would say im average. I get some attention, but no use when your mind is so destroyed...
"Do you get a lot of attention from the other sex?" rarely and if i do its probably out of pity
 
HadItAll

HadItAll

Autoimmune Diseases Since the Age of 24
Feb 20, 2023
259
I used to be very good looking before my illness, I had alot of female attention, quite a few girlfriends, etc.

My illness has caused me to gain some weight and it shows on my face, unfortunately.
 
Source Energy

Source Energy

I want to be where people areN'T...
Jan 23, 2023
690
Pretty. I get tons of attention and compliments. This hasn't saved me from unrequited love and the horrors of heartbreak and loneliness. At most, it serves as a mild consolation but not enough.
 
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lionetta12

Just a random person
Aug 5, 2022
1,066
I know it's a weird question.

My other thread "How are you financially" showed fhat majority are under some form of financial stress.

So, do you consider yourself good looking. Do you get a lot of attention from the other sex? Do people notice you walking in the streets etc?

Personally, I would say im average. I get some attention, but no use when your mind is so destroyed...
I think I’m slightly above average based on my own views of me and what feedback I’ve had from everyone I know and their ratings of me too. Not perfect by any means but good enough and that’s good enough for me I guess.
 
BroodingBleu

BroodingBleu

MtF
Feb 16, 2023
88
This might start off as seemingly narcissistic but bare with me;

I’ve been told my whole life by others that I was handsome and attractive, in school a couple girls asked me to the dances and stuff. Today, the women I work with that know I’m transitioning even comment that they would have dated me as a guy.

The unfortunate fact is that, even if I made peace with my looks and found myself to be as attractive as others say, it will never be how I feel. I might be an attractive guy, but fuck am I a very ugly woman.
 
grandeur.egg

grandeur.egg

"You used to shine so brilliantly.."
Feb 19, 2023
9
Yes, however this often affects me negatively because of my personality disorder. My whole worth was once centered around how attractive i could make myself and how great of a person i could make myself appear to be to break the stereotypes of the mean egotistical attractive people... one self awareness journey later and here i am lol
 
resolutory

resolutory

Experienced
Sep 13, 2022
262
I think so. Probably not massively, but certainly not bad. My main problems relationship-wise are social/mental issues.
 
GasMonkey

GasMonkey

Nitrogen Master Race
May 15, 2022
1,597
Nah.
If I were good looking I wouldn't be on this forum. xd
 
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dgdgtth

dgdgtth

Dear god, dear god, twinkle twinkle hoy.
Feb 23, 2023
11
Objectively, yes, and by objectively I mean if you were to make a list with most conventionally attractive physical traits, I would cover more than 2/3 of it. That doesn’t mean I personally find myself attractive. I find myself very unappealing, like my features are prettier by themselves than my whole body in total, and I think there are factors to attractiveness (personality, gestures) that I definitely do not have.
The fact that I have an ED doesn’t help at all. I never know if I’m perceiving my body as it truly is, so I always end up thinking I’m hideous even though I know that, objetively, I’m probably the opposite.
I really hope this doesn’t come out as self absorbed as it sounds in my mind.
 
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KobK

Member
Jul 29, 2022
50
Nah man, I'm ugly as fuck.
I can list 8 things that are undesirable about my face alone.
 
SushiiTone

SushiiTone

Here for a fun time not a long time
Feb 21, 2023
7
I think I'm pretty leaning more into cute.
Nothing breathtaking or show stopping.

Despite being aware of this I am quite happy with my looks overall.
 
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missingpeace

Arcanist
Feb 4, 2023
434
Yes, I would say I'm pretty, but now since my issues I don't go out that much and don't really welcome much male attention. What's the point? I don't feel like me anyway.
 
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Lost in a Dream

Lost in a Dream

He/him - Metal head
Feb 22, 2020
1,462
No, I wouldn't, but being ugly doesn't bother me all that much. It's probably a good thing anyway.
 
Envixit0

Envixit0

Still cleaning up the viruses you had left
Feb 6, 2023
114
I look average. I don't really try to look good.
 
rest in peace

rest in peace

Member
Feb 23, 2023
41
I know it's a weird question.

My other thread "How are you financially" showed fhat majority are under some form of financial stress.

So, do you consider yourself good looking. Do you get a lot of attention from the other sex? Do people notice you walking in the streets etc?

Personally, I would say im average. I get some attention, but no use when your mind is so destroyed...
no. if i was good looking, i would be loved and cared for. i also would not have been bullied and abused to the degree i was
 
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frog_prince

Member
Feb 8, 2023
23
I was because I had muscles but not anymore.. now im fat, man boob, big head, receding hairline and more..
 
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imcadt99

imcadt99

Member
Feb 23, 2023
50
I wouldn't say my face itself is particularly attractive, it's average or even slightly below average if anything, though my height could definitely be considered an attractive attribute at 6'3". While I've had women/men who have been attracted to me (I guess I would consider myself bi under the right circumstances), I haven't felt socially competent enough to pursue a relationship with anyone. I definitely don't conform to conventional male attractiveness/beauty and I isolate myself so much I'm not even sure I'd receive the same attention anymore especially given my newfound social handicaps. Honestly I'm dumbfounded that I've even encountered interested girls, given their higher standards, not that I encounter people much anymore since I'm isolating myself.
 
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Georg

Georg

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Feb 25, 2023
226
No, I am ugly. If I was at least average looking I wouldnt kill myself
 
justkenisfine

justkenisfine

Life is like a hurricane, here in Duckburg
Feb 13, 2023
13
Always felt i was the worst looking person on earth, which like, statistically can't be true but still. I think im pretty ugly. Managed to get a partner who came onto me first and tells me all the time how attractive I am, but damn I cannot get myself to believe it
Its a weird answer.
I have a hard time getting a girl. Idk if I just come across wrong or something. But with girls it difficult. Girls who have no interest in dating me say im cute.
To get a guy, they love me. Go to gay bar, get drunk for free. I dont have to try.
My perception of myself though. I'd go with a yes.
Yeah, I'm queer and I've noticed how vastly different gay vs straight attraction to men is and how different lesbian vs straight attraction to men is. Wild. I consider myself a "lesbian" because I like women but Im not a man exactly, and even some straight dude will talk about a woman like she's the fucking hottest person on Earth and I'll b like "meh" and then see an average looking girl but with a hot fashion sense and be incredibly attracted to her. Shit's kinda interesting to me
 
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BornTheWrongSex

BornTheWrongSex

I have no empathy for privileged people.
Apr 19, 2022
2,296
Not really, no. I have never been actively pursued by women. I somehow got lucky with a fluke relationship back in 2014, but it's been all downhill ever since it ended. I lost close to 100 lbs in a year back in 2019 in an attempt to attract a relationship, but that did not work. Either because anyone could sense my social awkwardness, or my looks didn't appeal to anyone. Not that it really matters, though. I wouldn't think of myself as attractive no matter what standard I reached in the eyes of women. I just don't think of the male sex as being attractive, but it's probably my pro female bias talking.

I wish I was an attractive woman, though. Heck, I'd settle for being an average looking or below average one *sigh*

(Do note that I am gender dysphoric AMAB and wish I was born the opposite sex)
 
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Unsure and Useless

Unsure and Useless

Drifting Aimlessly without Roots
Feb 7, 2023
170
Haha, no. I’ve always been the “ugly friend” in groups with how fat I am and my fucked up teeth. Plus, I’m hairy and have zero sense of style.

Although, I’m not significantly affected by it anymore. I’ve come to terms with the fact that I’m ugly and that won’t change unless I’m rich enough to afford surgery and a bunch of makeup.