Who else will be gone as a virgin?

[freedfromvice]

I just think it depends on the person.
People usually say men are visual, but I am sure there are some guys who care more about personality. It's subjective.

I'm a dude and I genuinely care about personality more than looks (to a point). At least when it comes to dating. A physically beautiful woman with a nasty "better-than-you" personality is a major turn off. I would put her lower on my list of people I want to date than a homely girl who's really sweet and likes me a lot. I think a lot of the "men are visual" thing comes from men with porn addictions.

 

[hrsprayqn]

Funny thing is, sex is one of the only things I do that brings me any enjoyment, though it is sadomasochistic and heavily kink related.

Bataille was right when he said that humans strive towards continuity. The total continuous being death, but eroticism can get pretty damn close.

Always talking within legal age of course.
Fuck you btw, you are irrelevant. Hopefully you stay suffering for the reason that has made you come to this forum for as many years as possible.

Lmao, fucking weirdo. "Personality is cope" nah maybe you're just insufferable to be around.

 

[Disappointered]

I believe 14 was the age of consent in canada for many years and it was only under the last conservative gov't that it was raised to 16. I mean...justin trudeau and his dad's clique ARE awesome?...right? He's also friends with a former provincial education minister who pleaded guilty to possessing and distributing child pornography (what would he have gotten if he hadn't pleaded to those charges...).

Anyway. They'll keep fooling most people and things will mysteriously never really improve because the world is made of shit. What are ya gonna do.

I won't die a virgin, thankfully, but I can empathize with those suffering because they will.

 

[toiaistired]

me. 21 F

 

[Sparx]

It's the reason why I'm gonna CTB, there is no reason for me to be alive if I don't have access to sex and affection from young beautiful girls. The frustration I feel everytime I see one in the street is ineffable.

Only death can free me from this curse.

Look into sugar dating if you can afford it.

 

[NHLTradeRumor]

TBH I wish I was a virgin still. My first time was fucking horrible, and I wish it never happened (it was consensual though). Now I'm in a state where no one would want to have sex with me, because even though I'm pretty and supposedly have a great personality, I'm a tr*nny, so no man would ever want to be with me. I pass as a woman quite well, but once people find out that I'm trans, they always look at me... differently, and I hate it.

 

[Domimi]

I have autism + avpd AKA the unfuckable mental illness combo LMAO, so yea there's a good chance (90%+) I'm dying virgin. 21M btw

I know what I should do to get girls. How to take care of myself and my appearance, what type of man I should be and how to act etc. But honestly, sex isn't for me, it kinda grosses me out and just the thought of it makes me nervous. It also seems a bit empty, I don't know exactly how to explain it, but sensory pleasures in general (like food and sex) for me are just empty, it's like they lact something more about them. I fell in love numerous times through the years, but I always got disappointed because everything is just so empty and I don't feel like I can truly connect with the other person, I cannot express love like I want to do. If I could get another chance to live, I would choose a dimension where true immaterial love exists, because I cannot feel it where I am.

Unfortunately I'm still a slave to this disgusting body's desires and I don't want to deal with sexual urges, so I masturbate sometimes, but I'm always ashamed and disgusted after and during the act, to the point that all the pleasure just goes away.

I never even had the curiosity to explore my sexuality because it is such a taboo for me that I don't even know my orientation or my likes, I just know that I have a weird fetish for fire (embarassing af I know).

 

[SuicidalSheep]

go cry about it. Where'd he talk about kids? he's specifically stating he'd stay within the law what's wrong with you, anglo?


i'm not sure how these low lives of women are triggered by what you've posted. Am I missing something? Perhaps it's an attempt at trolling.

You got to be trolling, I really hope you are because if not you're completely messed up and a sick creep. I'd suggest you take a look into the law, then if you're capable of reading and understanding sentences you might figure out that 16 yo is perfectly legal in almost all countries in the world. Any man would prefer a young woman over an old bitter hag (yes I know, shocking )

Go tell that Di Craprio. and besides, what in hell are you even getting at. I mean, there's 38 year old women that are attractive, but they are a rarity
duh no shit, men want someone attractive. you really figured out the obvious, genius. Congrats. ever heard of the saying, women hit the wall? It isn't just a saying ...

maybe take 5 minutes out of your miserable life and look up age of consent and its meaning You shouldn't only not be around teenagers, you shouldn't be around anyone.

I'm surprised you'd upset anyone with stating the obvious .... I guess women don't want to realize that as they age, they lose most of their value on the dating market, which is their attractiveness. the entitled spoiled women that live life on easy mode in their 20s, grow bitter because what once was isn't anymore. Well many males never had any value to begin with, so it's just fair

If that were the case, why has Chad so much success on the dating market? there's a trend of females rather not being in a relationship at all than being with someone they aren't physically attracted to. There's a huge number of males that are single in their 20s, but not nearly as many women who are. Indicating that those women in their 20s are leeching off of older men who've got money or rotating through a select few high value men

Ignoring all the other things in this post..Ehm, you quoted me..I was against the creepy behavior but the response makes it seem like I'm the one condoning it??? You're also assuming a lot here. I was talking about romeo and juliet laws.

 

[liverhood]

me 36M i had one sexual relationship between the age of 16 and 18 now 36 i know when she broke up with i'd never have sex again how deversating
this is a place where i don't feel loved

wait, so you've had at least one count of sexual intercourse in your life? doesn't that already make you not a virgin?

 

[Georg]

wait, so you've had at least one count of sexual intercourse in your life? doesn't that already make you not a virgin?

technically you are right. He is basically in the same position as I am. I only had one sexual relationship 10 years ago. After such a long time without any romantic interactions you feel like a virgin (again).

 

[Mthom2]

Oh how I wish I was going to die as a virgin. At the age of 47 now, sex grosses me out. It literally makes my stomach upset just thinking about it. If a guy hits on me, my automatic response is repulsion, no matter if he is attractive or not. This is doubly so for same sex situations.

I'm simply repulsed by sex. Think long and hard about the act and what's actually involved.

 

[Caoine01]

I think a lot of the grief that surrounds dying a virgin is a combination never having had genuine intimacy with someone, and feeling inadequate/like there's something wrong in some way because so many people don't want you/reject you or you struggle to put yourself out there, and the way soceity sees and treats virgins. Even in nature it would basically be failure of their programming and an urge that remains unsatisfied, It probably has some natural emotional component

Looking back, I would have liked to have died a virgin. I think SuicidalSheep has outlined the reason for this well.

 

[QueenOfSpades]

Me. I'm 37 and a woman. But it's one of the things I like about myself. We live in a sex-crazed society and I'm glad I have my own set of values. When I was younger I wanted to wait until marriage, but due to my depression and other mental issues my relationship failed. I'm with another man now, but just can't get myself to do it. No desire, it's rather repelling. I guess I've lived as a virgin for so long that I can't imagine to change that now.

 

[Archness]

Ambition and hard working == status and wealth. I'm not being misogynistic btw, it's normal to want to mate with someone succesful. Also, even though personality is undoubtedly essential, it seems that looks carry a little more weight for both sexes, despite what they say outwardly. Something else to consider is that good looking people develop more laid back, confident personalities than those that are ugly, mishaped or short.

Honestly this'll get worse and worse. Strangers see eachother, date, mary, and most likely break up sometime in that process, or afterwards. It's quite strange this has been accepted as "Normal", when it just wasn't for most of human history. People think we're "less shallow" "more deep", etc etc when the opposite is true, with the current system in place nowadays.

That, my autism, my abnormal mind, and too-keen awareness makes it unlikely I'll reach the level of sex and/or a relationship.

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Most likely will die a virgin. Sex in of itself is just fap with a partner (can be quite awkward), it's "everything else" that makes it special.

I might try it out before ctb, but I wouldn't really want to get myself filthy for nothing, you know?

 

[mObinDEc]

Me. 24F and similar to other posts, I have been single-pringle for all my life and kinda like it, kinda don't. I share the same sentiments w/ @littlelady774 , as in it might be best for me to ctb whilst still a virgin instead of taking a 50/50 on fully being vulnerable to someone and them ultimately abandoning me.

Though it is frustrating. I value interpersonal relationships and struggle to make friends and connections. I tend to be too overtly eager when making friends and over compliment which is overwhelming for others, disingenuous, and sometimes creepy. I am a hermit and never leave the home since I work and go to college remotely (changing soon due to taking swimming lessons at my local rec center).

I don't even think that the fact that I would be a virgin would devastate me when I leave, it's if I would ever be able to experience mutual like and compassion with someone. Honestly, the sex part scares me because of my warped view of men and porn. I am attracted to men, but I find myself die alittle everytime I hear a man talk about sex, because it usually objectifies the woman and all about "yeah... did you see how big her butt and breast were???". I've struggled with self-worth for the longest, and when I all hear men talk about are boobs, looks, butt, how good does she suck dick, did you screw her, how many times?... It's discouraging because I wouldn't feel comfortable about someone talking explicitly about my body . I would feel like a slab of meat. well- considering the human anatomy I kinda am but anyways

haha, I'm trying not to be too immature about talking about this but I think I failed but awesome discussion topic.

 

[BeachyHeadLastOfUs]

Me. I'm a 30 year old virgin. I've never been in a relationship or touched a woman. I have asked friends out before but always get friend-zoned. I know it's what they want and they can do better, but it makes me feel worthless.

It's the main reason I am going to CTB. Guess I will never know what it feels like to have someone love me.

 

[kindalone]

31 M and I might die as a virgin. It doesn't bother me as much. It used to when I was younger. One of the perks of still living with family is that I am constantly surrounded by loved ones. I feel like a lot of men aren't after the sex itself but everything around it. The intimacy, closeness, the love. I also think a lot of men see it as some sort of validation or prize rather than an enjoyable act. I've heard of men dating women for months only to ghost them after sex. So I feel like a lot of what sex could give me I already sort of have. I don't crave the validation of being desirable, I can have orgasms no problem and I have close relationships already that make me feel loved. Things might change though when my parents die and my sister moves away and I'm truly alone.

 

[toro]

18F me :( anytime ive come close to a sexual encounter i get uncomfortable and weirdly shameful about it lol

 

[neemva]

lol me too

 

[Scacie]

Yea, almost certainly. But I don't really care though, being a virgin never bothered me and it was never one of my reasons. virgin or not, I will still CTB, hopefully very soon

 

[borderline-feline]

This thread is a dumpster fire at this point.

 

[ExistHarm]

no and its part of the problem

This thread is a dumpster fire at this point.

yeah. sex is one of the most insidious things about this existence.

 

[borderline-feline]

no and its part of the problem

yeah. sex is one of the most insidious things about this existence.

I meant the constant shit-slinging from all the people on this thread who need to chill the fuck out and stop arguing.

Sex may be insidious to you, but it's also very important to other people.

 

[ExistHarm]

I meant the constant shit-slinging from all the people on this thread who need to chill the fuck out and stop arguing.

Sex may be insidious to you, but it's also very important to other people.

i guess i meant divisive and dividing and addictive and complex, more than insidious and the shit slinging in the thread is proof

 

[ChildrensITV]

Personality is cope, you only need to be good looking to get girls.
No amount of personality will make you attractive to girls if you are not physically attractive.

based blackpiller.

 

[borderline-feline]

i guess i meant divisive and dividing and addictive and complex, more than insidious and the shit slinging in the thread is proof

I wouldn't say "addictive" per se, but people's views on sex and sexuality absolutely lead to ridiculous arguments, especially if incels are involved.

 

[ChildrensITV]

It's all up in the air but I could! I'm 32, male.

No, it's Status, Looks and Personality, in that order, to acquire sex with women.

Unknown goodlooking guys who kill it on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Match, Pof and even TikTok and IG would disagree with that. If you don't have enough/clear pictures on Tinder and you match with a woman, does she ask:

- "Do you have any more pics?" or
- "Which band are you in?"

 

[Yuki K]

I'm what females consider to be "cute". I don't quite fit into the standard of attractiveness (although I hit the gym and have an okay body, i don't have the perfect body). Even though I'm in my mid-twenties I can't still grow a full beard. I don't think I'm getting laid anytime soon so I'll die a virgin. Too bad

 

[gh0sttx]

not only a virgin but i've never kissed someone, hugged or held hands :')
i really wish someone would love me, want me and care for me. it hurts seeing people my age dating. and me being gay doesn't make situation any better. i feel so left out all the time.

 

[whatevs]

Unknown goodlooking guys who kill it on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Match, Pof and even TikTok and IG would disagree with that. If you don't have enough/clear pictures on Tinder and you match with a woman, does she ask:

- "Do you have any more pics?" or
- "Which band are you in?"

Tinder isn't larger society. Look around outside of dating apps. Yes, in that context Looks is first. In that context only, and when you are 16.