Make A Friend megathread

[fuyacore]

Who am I? I'm still having a hard time to even describe my real self.

Have you ever had that feeling—like you'd be in danger if people could read your mind? I never express myself in real life. I'm just an abnormality pretending to just barely fit in society who oppose my internal self. There's this constant discomfort—knowing that no matter how I try to interact, they'll never truly understand me. They'll only judge.

Maybe I'm the one who's wrong. Maybe everything in life is my fault. But at least I tried, right? Fulfilling my parents' wishes to exist, to carry on their dreams... My only refuge is the online world—and my girlfriend, who's far away.

I want to connect with people as my true self. I just hope that one day, I'll find a place where I can be accepted.

That's all.

 

[user938838383335]

Who am I? I'm still having a hard time to even describe my real self.

Have you ever had that feeling—like you'd be in danger if people could read your mind? I never express myself in real life. I'm just an abnormality pretending to just barely fit in society who oppose my internal self. There's this constant discomfort—knowing that no matter how I try to interact, they'll never truly understand me. They'll only judge.

Maybe I'm the one who's wrong. Maybe everything in life is my fault. But at least I tried, right? Fulfilling my parents' wishes to exist, to carry on their dreams... My only refuge is the online world—and my girlfriend, who's far away.

I want to connect with people as my true self. I just hope that one day, I'll find a place where I can be accepted.

That's all.

Can't message you, do you have discord?

 

[catlover20]

20M
I was born overseas but grew up in Sweden. I have a passion for gaming and love to play the piano. I enjoy playing a bit of everything, but RPG games are my favorite. Recently, I've been listening to the music from "Clair Obscur: Expedition 33." I also started watching anime again after a long break.

I'm here because I would really like to connect with someone to talk about feelings of loneliness or just have a chat about life in general. I'm open to discussing anything, so please feel free to reach out! Since I'm new to this platform, I'm still figuring out the private messaging features and when those will be accessible to me.

Although I might not see myself as particularly interesting, I would love to meet new people!

 

[painfully]

Im in my 30s, from spain... Since I was a teen I have depression, BPD and autism, and I always been extremely lonely... Never had anyone...

Depression and loneliness hurt so much that I cant deal with this and I have been thinking about suicide since I was 16... I dont think Ill can go much further...

Im so lonely... And it hurts so much...

 

[Playlainin]

I'm a 36 year old male from Australia.

My interests are movies, reading, youtube, photography, random silly internet drama, lots of things. I'm a good listener so if you need someone to talk or rant to I love hearing the tea.

If anyone wants to chat PM me.

 

[rainieday06]

Ello. Im Rainie. 36F. US
Im a big gamer and anime fan. Currently playing Dragon age Veilguard. I am a introvert so I like to stay at home... hate people. I smoke a lot of weed and vibe with myself. Its hot out so I do LOVE swimming or going on walks on the trails by my house.
I have a cat who I love so much. And I have no friends or family so im just looking for a friend.

I was originally diagnosed with PTSD. Then that evolved into Bipolar.... which evolved into BPD not bipolar because I didnt have extreme highs and lows. AuDHD makes sense why my grandma was so concerned with not wanting me to be retarded and me having to have special classes.

But anywho... hiya. PM me if you like to chat

 

[SomeoneHelpMe]

Hello everybody,
I am 21 and female, from Germany.
I would love to find friends, as I barely have any in my life.
I cosplay, do Makeup and am active on many sites like Pokefarm.
Hamsters are my favourite thing in the world.
I have some attempts behind/before me and am a very open person. I also have autism, BPD and some other things.
If you need to vent, or just wanna talk, hit me up :D

 

[painfully]

Hello everybody,
I am 21 and female, from Germany.
I would love to find friends, as I barely have any in my life.
I cosplay, do Makeup and am active on many sites like Pokefarm.
Hamsters are my favourite thing in the world.
I have some attempts behind/before me and am a very open person. I also have autism, BPD and some other things.
If you need to vent, or just wanna talk, hit me up :D

leave the hamster alone!!!

 

[sardonic laugh]

Hello everyone, I'm M19. It would be nice to find a female friend from Russia, or at least just from Eastern Europe. I'm planning on ctb soon, so don't get attached to me. I am interested in metal music, history and literature

 

[ashendreams]

heyyyyyy guess i'll throw my name in here too
24f trans neet loser. dont really go outside ever and dont really have any close friends. autism+adhd. i also have DID so i may not be a very consistent friend. physically disabled as well. i like touhou project and ffxiv and vocaloid and anime sometimes. im really passionate about videogames in general. right now im really into playing old ps2 games. oh and i like baking i guess. also im a communist lol and i care a lot about social justice and stuff. i have like 20 stuffed animals in my room and about as many anime figurines lol. i used to like singing and drawing but i guess i havent done those in a while. i like listening to people ramble about stuff they like. i kinda have trust issues so i may take a while to open up.
especially wanting to talk to anyone who is also trans and/or has DID/OSDD but really anyone's welcome to shoot me a message whenever, dont be shy c:

 

[snooperdooper]

19 trans female, neet. Don't have any friends, and my hobbies are really scattered because I find it hard to enjoy things. I really enjoy all types of horror media and I'm open to many video games (don't find myself buying many though, struggle a lot with trying to find good games). I specifically really like cosmic horror and old internet horror (like obey the walrus and creepy cryptic stuff like that). You don't have to like any of those things, just tired of being lonely. Need somebody who can relate to what I am struggling through.

 

[yuppieflu]

Hi, 23M from Russia

In my youth I was fond of philosophy, religion, poetry, now my interest in it has dried up, but I remained a romantic dreamer and remember many interesting passages.

At School I didn't socialize with anyone, at University I studied to be a translator-linguist and compensated for the lack of socialization by having my fair share of questionable hangouts. For the first time there I encountered heartbreak, which greatly affected me and shaped me in many ways, then I discovered bad habits and was discouraged for a long time, after graduation I even spent time in the nuthouse.

I had a bright streak after I got out! I quit all bad habits, went to Straight Edge! I don't work, I live with my parents. In a good mood, I pursued my interests: fitness, healthy lifestyle, proper nutrition, jogging and boxing. I spend a lot of time on the computer: role-playing games, boardgames, novels. In terms of creativity I liked to do humor, memes, different design in photoshop, video editing, led YouTube channel.

I don't want to pretend to be something I'm not. Right now I'm clearly not on the rebound, I've been cheated on and abandoned. It's had quite a negative effect on me. I would like to find someone to talk to in voice calls and play Dota 2 together if possible. I can also download Counter-Strike. To be honest I'm too lazy to download more complicated games, I get easily forgotten and waste hours in these ones and that's what i want to do. I'm from Russia and the lack of regular practice makes me not the most fluid english speaker, but I would be happy to practice speaking with a native

 

[terrafern]

Hello everybody,
I am 21 and female, from Germany.
I would love to find friends, as I barely have any in my life.
I cosplay, do Makeup and am active on many sites like Pokefarm.
Hamsters are my favourite thing in the world.
I have some attempts behind/before me and am a very open person. I also have autism, BPD and some other things.
If you need to vent, or just wanna talk, hit me up :D

Hi! I don't think I can send messages yet. Would you mind sending me one (if possible)? :p

 

[ElTopo]

24M from Italy

I have a pretty normal life, I work at a factory, have an apartment and live alone. I mainly play videogames, go the the gym and listen to music. Did martial arts for a lot of time, and I also used to read a lot, both fictional and philosophy, I'm very interested in politics, spirituality, religion and such.

I'd like to find someone to play some games with maybe, or even just a group for a discord server.

I'm also trying to get a bit into art but it's hard with not much time.

 

[CookieNiji]

Hey

I'm Cookie, 30M living in France, enjoying music, anime, games, motorsports ... Going through a hard time, I'm looking for some friends to talk with
I'm very often on Discord, typing so if you wanna share, vent, chill talk, play games ... feel free to ask for my tag ^^

I also love Stitch, a bit into drawing, playing Mmorpgs and LoL

 

[SomeoneHelpMe]

Hi! I don't think I can send messages yet. Would you mind sending me one (if possible)? :p

If will send you one as soon as it is possible :D

 

[5_5]

Hello, im an 18yo guy from Argentina.

yo igual :) jamás pensé encontrar a alguien de arg por acá

 

[ADHD]

Hey, 21M from France.

I am in bad state rn with a severe ADHD that affect me badly since 1year.
I don't socialize a lot IRL right now and I feel really lonely and not helped.
I can speak French, English and some Italian.

I want someone to talk to about everything and maybe play games, so if you are intrested you can PM me.

 

[Ch4in3dcr0w]

Haiiyo, 18M from Poland.
I have been diagnosed with aspergers (autism) and have been "depressed" for a very long time so long i cant remember myself even if 18 years doesnt sound that long.Im still in school in the future i want to do something related to computers the best case would be programming.
I love any all games no matter the genre (if u tell me to play horror i will shit myself) and i like motorsports (i even have a simrig)
If u want to talk, recommend me some books (last one i readed was no longer human 2 years ago) or play games feel free to DM me

 

[sakakap]

Hi, I'm 21F from the UK.

Currently a NEET but supposed to go back to uni in a few months.
I enjoy baking, fashion, manga, chill gaming and can talk about any random stuff in general. I also have ADHD and anxiety which has been pretty bad lately but would like to find some friends to talk to (and maybe to game with?).
I'm new so can't send any DMs but feel free to send one :)

If you go to your privacy settings here there should be an option to allow people to start conversations with you. You have to set "Start conversations with you" to Members only :)

i think lol

 

[hikaru13]

Helloo!

I'm hikaru and I'm currently 19F

This place has been my haven after being diagnosed with Dysthymia. I've been doing better now and I wanna make new friends again! I love to paint, write, and read books. I'm also an avid fan of a lot of musical groups, specifically classical musicians.

Feel free to reach out anytime in my dms!!

 

[digitalblackhole]

hello, dbh here. 28m.

i'm your standard nerd, i like video games (fighting games in particular), animation and board games/ttrpgs. i'm also extremely into western esotericism, occultism, the paranormal/supernatural and astronomy/cosmology. if i could see just one thing before i die it would be a tough choice between evidence of the paranormal or seeing a star go supernova. i also smoke a ton of weed and do shrooms as often as i can. i've been dealing with mdd since i was around 16yo and have recently been diagnosed with bpd and adhd. for the last couple of years i've been going to therapy, seeing a psychiatrist and taking antidepressants/mood stabilizers.

i've recently started to seriously plan for my suicide and i'm hoping to follow through on it before the year ends. there are a ton of things i'd like to do before i die, but just being able to socialize with other people think and feel who the way i do would be more than enough to make me a little happy before i go. if you're down to play games, watch movies together or just chat and chill hmu.

 

[Bad Karma]

im not here to make friends, im here to fry rice
23f

 

[nattns]

Hey!, my name is Nattns (21M). I'm studying Games Art & Design in UK so I have a big passion for videogames, I love anime and films, I also learning how to play the bass and chess. I'm mainly on SS to fight my Social Anxiety, so I'm trying my best to open myself to new people. I don't use SS too often, so feel free to DM me your Discord.

Have a nice day everyone:)

 

[SchizoPolyGymnast]

I'm SchizoGymnast, or Jo, if you prefer. I'm living with a brain defect on top of severe mental illness. I'm a gymnast, cat lover, artist, and religious geek. I'm passionate about politics, law, science and social justice. If you ask me what the purpose of my life is, it is to be a work of art and an act of love.

 

[33K1LLM3]

Hei!!!

I'm F19. I'm not planning to stay here for much longer as my depression, failures in life, abusive others, severe resentment, trauma and grief is taking over my life, I am hoping in the time I have I'll be able to make a few friends. I like video games, (especially horror ones), movies, shopping, baking, cooking and I like writing. I'm also very morbidly curious, and if that's something you share then we will definitely get on, or if your intrested in talking to me at all, pls send me a dm preferably, otherwise just send me a message <3

Edit: I don't have acsess to dm yet, so conversation will have to do <3

 

[user938838383335]

POLAND, anyone? I'm.a highly sensitive woman in my 20s, i just want love and comfort and someone to hang out with forever, someone who accepts me and all things close to my heart, all of my darkness etc. and loves me and we are free in life etc. but I'm not interested in romantic (sexual) relationships and lack of them is not the cause of my loneliness.

 

[Helvetic]

Hi! I'm Helvetic 23M from America.
I can speak in Spanish and English (Would like to learn Russian or Japanese in the future too ^^).
I like:
-Listening to Music of any kind (Though preferably Pop, Jpop, Rpop and OSTs from movies, animes and videogames).
-Watching anime or other series (Not often though).
-Downloading memes and fanarts from the series and videogames I like (Actually I get more into the fandoms than the actual series or videogames ajaja).
I used to play a lot 5 years ago, like GTA SAMP, StarCraft, C&C series, Doom, but not anymore.
Anyways, I am willing to try to get into the things you like in order to get along better, support each other, share conversations and be friends (Sorry if I am awkward when talking, haven't had a proper chat in years).

 

[coldcontact]

heya,
20M from the US
NEET basement dweller, trying to escape it, whether that'll be re-entering the real world or well, y'know

I try and cope by making ambient music n stuff. got some mental problems like panic disorder, social anxiety, plus other weird issues like visual snow and HPPD

i'm down to talk about whatever or just share music. i make ambient but am into rap, rock, electronic, whatever hits my brain right
if any of you guys also make music or art or whatever i'd love to see! feel free to message :)

 

[z14z]

20M from India, I listen to music a lot and feel free to hmu anytime

Hei!!!

I'm Erika and I am F19. I'm not planning to stay here for much longer as my depression, failures in life, abusive others, severe resentment, trauma and grief is taking over my life, I am hoping in the time I have I'll be able to make a few friends. I like video games, (especially horror ones), movies, shopping, baking, cooking and I like writing. I'm also very morbidly curious, and if that's something you share then we will definitely get on, or if your intrested in talking to me at all, pls send me a dm preferably, otherwise just send me a message <3

Edit: I don't have acsess to dm yet, so conversation will have to do <3

I don't have access to dms either but would love to have a conversation with you and what do you write usually