falling_snow
Mage
- Aug 9, 2023
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Lol. V card for $1 billion. JkNOOO DON'T STEAL MY BUSINESSS
also thigh pics for 5$ /j
not saying it is a rule and an accurate scale of looks thoYikes, I scored one of the lowest (which would be even lower if two of the requirements weren't having covid 19 and saying "I love you" to basically anybody which includes being forced to say it to family due to social pressures as a kid). I think I know what that insinuates for me...
I know it isn't. Otherwise @Sylveon would be the ugliest which I don't think is true. Maybe they're the hottest user here for all we knownot saying it is a rule and an accurate scale of looks tho
LMAO that's defo not the case; I can tell you that. xDMaybe they're the hottest user here for all we know
Just wanna be clear that I was being sarcastic and I too have tended to only be interested in white people despite being Asian although the first girl I liked was the same kind of Asian as me. In case it wasn't clear already at least.Well that's me lol. Anyways, it's not like I chose to be Asian haha. I honestly wonder why my soul decided to be Asian in this life, and in America of all places. Why not Asian in Asia? It doesn't make any sense to me. The only guy that I want is my crush though, and he just happens to be white. I think my previous crushes were white too lol
Oh lol. I'm of Chinese ancestry as well. I'm also only interested in white people despite being Asian. All of my crushes have been on white guys. I've never liked any Asian guys except for kpop guys haha. I have a feeling that I was European in my past life, probably Western European. I don't know what my soul wanted to be. Maybe it was looking for a changeJust wanna be clear that I was being sarcastic and I too have tended to only be interested in white people despite being Asian although the first girl I liked was the same kind of Asian as me. In case it wasn't clear already at least.
I have a feeling my soul probably wanted to be of Japanese ancestry instead but got lost on its way to earth and ended up being of Chinese ancestry instead.
I bet you a cutie patootie :3Anyone but me. I hate the way I look.
I hate the way I look and I want to dieI bet you a cutie patootie :3
you will always be a cutie patootie in my eyes <3I hate the way I look and I want to die
Based I bet she's cute too!!you will always be a cutie patootie in my eyes <3
Yes@ijustwishtodie Are you single
and ready to mingle? I'll be your girlfriend if you're looking for a Pringle
I agree with you that "looks IS attraction," but I believe I may be an exception to the rule that you cannot be attracted to someone's personality. Of course, I get biologically aroused when I see an attractive person; I do not think it is entirely correct to reduce attraction as a whole only to visual attraction (I suspect sexual in this context).Yes, looks IS attraction. You can not be attracted to someones personality. You literally fall in love with someones looks. It's all biochemical reactions. You see someone who has a well-developed and good-looking face and you immediately becomes attracted to it. That's why love at first sight is actually a real thing.
I believe that as long as you give someone a chance, you will have time to associate a concrete person's looks with the personality they exhibit.They only care about your race until they get to know you personally because of positive and negative biases associated with each race. It's the same as appearance...
When people get to know each other, those biases fade away, and no one will care about your race/looks/etc.
Maybe you should propose a three wayNo he's taken; he has a girlfriend
It might help if the person is already somewhat attractive but if the person was ugly, then I doubt you'd feel any more attracted to her. You might view here as a better person, but attraction-wise I highly doubt it. The thing we look for the most in termes of procreation is good genes (looks) - it's just a harsh reality.I agree with you that "looks IS attraction," but I believe I may be an exception to the rule that you cannot be attracted to someone's personality. Of course, I get biologically aroused when I see an attractive person; I do not think it is entirely correct to reduce attraction as a whole only to visual attraction (I suspect sexual in this context).
Personally, I find myself drawn to certain psychological traits in people I've had the opportunity to get to know. I like ambitious, open, compassionate (empath type?), honest people in general.
I might be subconsciously thinking about it this way. If I were selecting a mate for procreation, I would not only be looking for visual attraction; I would also consider traits that are beneficial for raising children and could potentially be passed down genetically so that my bloodline prospers in the long run.
I'm simply offering my perspective, not suggesting that others should share it.
Alluding to the post I made in this thread before:
I believe that as long as you give someone a chance, you will have time to associate a concrete person's looks with the personality they exhibit.
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But again, if you are talking about "BOOOBA WOOOHOOO SEXOOOOO" then yeah... personality does not matter...
Don't know where you heard that lol. I'm not going to say I'm super attractive or anything, but I'm not unattractive and I'm a reasonably successful white guy in a relationship with an asian woman. It's a preference for many white men. White male asian female is both popular and hated by people who aren't in such a relationship for a reason.I heard that attractive and successful white guys usually go for white girls, not Asians, so I think that I unfortunately have no chance
I'm pretty sure that my crush wanted to procreate with me but unfortunately, I didn't realize it at the time. This is just rubbing salt in the woundIt might help if the person is already somewhat attractive but if the person was ugly, then I doubt you'd feel any more attracted to her. You might view here as a better person, but attraction-wise I highly doubt it. The thing we look for the most in termes of procreation is good genes (looks) - it's just a harsh reality.
His past girlfriends that I know of were Northern European then Turkish. I don't think he's into Asian girlsDon't know where you heard that lol. I'm not going to say I'm super attractive or anything, but I'm not unattractive and I'm a reasonably successful white guy in a relationship with an asian woman. It's a preference for many white men. White male asian female is both popular and hated by people who aren't in such a relationship for a reason.
Most people have a racial preference. It's just an undeniable fact and there is nothing we can really do about it. However, most white guys would rank asian woman quite high on the "attraction-scale", so if you want a white boyfriend, it shouldn't be too much of a problem.I'm pretty sure that my crush wanted to procreate with me but unfortunately, I didn't realize it at the time. This is just rubbing salt in the wound
His past girlfriends that I know of were Northern European then Turkish. I don't think he's into Asian girls
A preference doesn't mean an absolute. You have an pretty idealistic idea of relationships, putting this guy on a pedestal as being absolutely perfect in every way. It's not necessarily a bad thing. These romantic feelings of having a crush are some of the strongest you'll ever feel, even if they're bittersweet, so I wouldn't resent them.I'm pretty sure that my crush wanted to procreate with me but unfortunately, I didn't realize it at the time. This is just rubbing salt in the wound
His past girlfriends that I know of were Northern European then Turkish. I don't think he's into Asian girls
I hate giving this advice because I know it has never helped me when I've received it, but maybe you'd wield it better than I and have more fortune on your side to back it up:His past girlfriends that I know of were Northern European then Turkish. I don't think he's into Asian girls
Me as well (I heard))))this is true information!!!
Well, you are partly right again.The thing we look for the most in termes of procreation is good genes (looks) - it's just a harsh reality.
Personally, I think there are some thresholds for being beautiful in your environment (like culture, social media, college, etc.). The only problem is that if you are below the lower threshold (i.e., ugly), you will most likely be excluded, but if you are above the higher threshold (literal goddess/god), your returns will be marginal at best.
I think a lot of people will adapt to/keep up with a shitty person if the person is extremely attractive. However, some won't of course, so yeah you usually need to be a "good person" etc. to be in a relationship with someone long term, but you are right that there certainly is a threshold in terms of looks which needs to be exceeded - that's just how human nature works, unfortunately.Well, you are partly right again.
Both looks and personality matter. I think you place it higher just because good looks can always be used to put a foot in the door, whereas you cannot do that with your personality.
To put it bluntly: no one will deal with a shitty person for long even if he looks top 0.00001% perfect, literally greek god/goddess with better than zyzz physique.
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More autistic answer:
As long as a person is not below the threshold for being considered objectively unattractive, their looks will only take them so far.
I mentioned a similar idea in my post about objective attractiveness and biases: https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/i-hate-being-ugly.156858/#post-2415562
So this is the thread she was talking about. I expected to be sexual predators, or something, lol.For sure, @FuneralCry is the hottest user here
she is also very happy about this kind of thread. lol
This site really is declining
It's so horrible, what the hell happened to this place, I genuinley feel disgusted by what I've been seeing. Rather than a space for suffering people to vent people are trying to turn it into a dating site, spamming threads with gross content of that nature, it's vile honestly. This place has...sanctioned-suicide.net
For sure, @FuneralCry is the hottest user here
she is also very happy about this kind of thread. lol
This site really is declining
It's so horrible, what the hell happened to this place, I genuinley feel disgusted by what I've been seeing. Rather than a space for suffering people to vent people are trying to turn it into a dating site, spamming threads with gross content of that nature, it's vile honestly. This place has...sanctioned-suicide.net
You can't get his attention again, short of taking all your clothes off in front of him, and even then you would only have his attention short term. Obviously, his feelings for you are not the same as your feelings for him.I'm above average and I got my crush's attention, but he stopped talking to me after he got a girlfriend. How do I get his attention again? I only want his, no one else's