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sserafim

sserafim

머리 아프다
Sep 13, 2023
6,952
Hmmm not sure what to say about that. He probably is something special
He is something special. I think that he's probably my soulmate, but I'm not his 😢
Haha, this is a great way to get half the people here to resent me :P

Anyway, most of what I do here is share useful-seeming tips & mindsets, so EVERYONE can become hot. At least: loved, desired, respected. By decent people. One of the easier killers to solve is loneliness/inferiority

In PMs, I struggle with people to escape loneliness & erode abusers' power



Since @sserafim already mentioned this publicly, I can say I've been analyzing her crush. Without her permission, I can't disclose what we've discovered. But I have a effective model that allowed me to correctly predict one of his oddities: an element of his dress



I wish there were high-quality advice here for people's social adventures, with us taking some responsibility for the success of others

Otherwise, the winners of the dating site would predictably be those who already have the easiest time getting dates
Yeah he does. He wears striking clothes, even when we were in high school. He would catch your eye. He's avant-garde
 
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Suicidebydeath

Suicidebydeath

No chances to be happy - dead inside
Nov 25, 2021
3,426
What if my crush is my soulmate? I think that he is

Okay. Let me search for someone that looks like him. I don't want to post his pictures to protect his privacy. I'll give you a description first though.

White (European)
Tall, dark and handsome
10/10
Brown hair, green/blue eyes
Vibe: nerd (I promise this isn't an edit tbh idk what my vibe is)

Anyways, he's super hot and I heard that attractive and successful white guys usually go for white girls, not Asians, so I think that I unfortunately have no chance 😢
Stop describing me, lol. Even the eye colour.

Anyway I'm going to say purely based on aesthetics of personality, that sserafim is as well.

Plus I think you received the most votes for being hot so you're objectively the hottest :)
 
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surroundedbydemons

surroundedbydemons

Student
Mar 6, 2024
172
I am the hottest, but there is always room for improvement. Never stopping the grind until I die.

~~~
I heard that attractive and successful white guys usually go for white girls, not Asians,
(I do not intend to sound racist here...)

I observe that attractive and successful white guys go for girls who provide them with understanding and support, although that is not limited to white guys only. I think the most common couples on campus were white male+asian female (white male: German, Italian, British, Balkan, ...), though asian+asian were also fairly common (these were all people of your age...)

They only care about your race until they get to know you personally because of positive and negative biases associated with each race. It's the same as appearance...
When people get to know each other, those biases fade away, and no one will care about your race/looks/etc. 🙂
 
Suicidebydeath

Suicidebydeath

No chances to be happy - dead inside
Nov 25, 2021
3,426
Ppl who scored high with the innocence test in the off topic section are most likely good looking
True, I kind of agree. I think not everyone, because I scored like 91, literally Devil Child there, and I could've got 100 if the unticked answers weren't about porn, strippers, drugs, theft and dangerous driving. I'm honestly not good looking.

I do think most people would think the same though.
They only care about your race until they get to know you personally because of positive and negative biases associated with each race. It's the same as appearance...
When people get to know each other, those biases fade away, and no one will care about your race/looks/etc.
I agree with you 100% and I think OP has every chance with her crush should he ever become single again.
 
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ijustwishtodie

ijustwishtodie

death will be my ultimate bliss
Oct 29, 2023
2,298
Ppl who scored high with the innocence test in the off topic section are most likely good looking
Yikes, I scored one of the lowest (which would be even lower if two of the requirements weren't having covid 19 and saying "I love you" to basically anybody which includes being forced to say it to family due to social pressures as a kid). I think I know what that insinuates for me...
 
Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
18,772
No, it's me
I don't know how ugly or awkward you think you are but at least you aren't evil and petty enough to have negative hotness going on like me. 😏
What if my crush is my soulmate? I think that he is

Okay. Let me search for someone that looks like him. I don't want to post his pictures to protect his privacy. I'll give you a description first though.

White (European)
Tall, dark and handsome
10/10
Brown hair, green/blue eyes
Vibe: cool, mysterious, edgy, a bit rebellious

Anyways, he's super hot and I heard that attractive and successful white guys usually go for white girls, not Asians, so I think that I unfortunately have no chance 😢
Imagine being Asian and being hopelessly infatuated with a white person hahahahhahaha, couldn't be me. 🫠

I think Asian women have a much higher chance of bagging a white man than the reverse so you have that going for you. When I was in Taiwan there were thousands of white men/Asian female couples and like maybe two Asian male/white female couples there that I saw. There was even a white man at my cousin's wedding even though his wife was also Asian so he was absolutely just there as somebody's husband and he probably spoke better Chinese than me too.
 
ijustwishtodie

ijustwishtodie

death will be my ultimate bliss
Oct 29, 2023
2,298
I don't know how ugly or awkward you think you are but at least you aren't evil and petty enough to have negative hotness going on like me. 😏
I'm not evil and petty but I certainly am ugly and, before you mention it, no, beauty is not in the eye of the beholder and blah blah blah. There actually is a trend of what humans generally think is attractive or not. To say this trend doesn't exist is like saying that most people don't enjoy anything that's sweet in taste. I may not fully grasp what this trend is but I can grasp that I'm an extreme outlier of it. I don't even have any negative hotness. I just don't have anything that's good going for me
 
Oliver

Oliver

Experienced
Feb 28, 2024
237
I'm not evil and petty but I certainly am ugly and, before you mention it, no, beauty is not in the eye of the beholder and blah blah blah. There actually is a trend of what humans generally think is attractive or not. To say this trend doesn't exist is like saying that most people don't enjoy anything that's sweet in taste. I may not fully grasp what this trend is but I can grasp that I'm an extreme outlier of it. I don't even have any negative hotness. I just don't have anything that's good going for me
Yes, looks IS attraction. You can not be attracted to someones personality. You literally fall in love with someones looks. It's all biochemical reactions. You see someone who has a well-developed and good-looking face and you immediately becomes attracted to it. That's why love at first sight is actually a real thing.
 
sserafim

sserafim

머리 아프다
Sep 13, 2023
6,952
Imagine being Asian and being hopelessly infatuated with a white person hahahahhahaha, couldn't be me. 🫠

I think Asian women have a much higher chance of bagging a white man than the reverse so you have that going for you. When I was in Taiwan there were thousands of white men/Asian female couples and like maybe two Asian male/white female couples there that I saw. There was even a white man at my cousin's wedding even though his wife was also Asian so he was absolutely just there as somebody's husband and he probably spoke better Chinese than me too.
Well that's me lol. Anyways, it's not like I chose to be Asian haha. I honestly wonder why my soul decided to be Asian in this life, and in America of all places. Why not Asian in Asia? It doesn't make any sense to me. The only guy that I want is my crush though, and he just happens to be white. I think my previous crushes were white too lol
 
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kilowatt

kilowatt

A gun is the greatest negociator
Sep 9, 2023
310
I find a lot of people attractive here by the way they speak and inform others. Not in a weird way, I just think people good with words are educated and I look up to them.

On the hottest person though, my makeup was pretty damn cute today. I have to take this one for myself for once.
 
sserafim

sserafim

머리 아프다
Sep 13, 2023
6,952
hmmmmm... idk why yall saying @SexyIncél but idk why now i also want to sell my ass.

im def not the hottest, but im the cutest >:3
He's allegedly sexy cuz of his username. If he isn't sexy, then he tricked all of us. You can be the cutest. I would sell myself for money but it's illegal in America 🤣 lmao
 
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