Ambivalent1
Tread softly for you tread on my dreams
- Apr 17, 2023
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Because they're masochists. They secretly love the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune.
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I think that's what they do in China too. Chinese people are very self-interested and ambitious, and they look to tear other people down. Chinese parents compare their kids' achievements and want their kid to be the best and outshine others. Everything is a competitionyea kinda. what i see in india is, everyone pull each other down. they persevere so much and dedicate their life to ruin others.
too bad. i gave up thinking about these at this pointI think that's what they do in China too. Chinese people are very self-interested, and they look to tear other people down. Chinese parents compare their kids' achievements and want their kid to be the best and outshine others. Everything is a competition
Lol same. I gave up because nothing matters in the end anywaystoo bad. i gave up thinking about these at this point
"But in the end, it doesn't even matter." Lead singer of Linkin Park who eventually killed himself.Lol same. I gave up because nothing matters in the end anyways
agreed. funny thing is ppl who i think would make good parents are deciding not to have kids. talking about indiai wonder that too and it puzzles me. for example, in india, evil normies breed to have kids as a backup plan for old age. surprisingly civilizable people and empathetic people are very low in number. it now seems to me that humans are not same. i think there are unbelievably different minds among us and we think all of us are same.
yes. its also happening worldwide. its so unfairagreed. funny thing is ppl who i think would make good parents are deciding not to have kids. talking about india
yeah it was already happening worldwide but now its happening in india too.yes. its also happening worldwide. its so unfair
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"But in the end, it doesn't even matter." Lead singer of Linkin Park who eventually killed himself.
It's not like you choose to be suicidal though, but yeah it does suck!Because the pain of being suicidal is worse? I'm surprised how many times it's been said, and people keeps asking. Dying is hard, painful and makes you go through a battle against guilt, extreme depression, survival panic...
I've heard about it. Why do you think that this system was implemented? Why is someone's identity tied to their birthplace? I heard that you could change your Hukou as well, but what is the purpose of Hukou in general? An identification system? My mom was talking about how her Chinese colleagues are applying/registering for Hukous for their American kids, and she was sad that she didn't do that for me as well. I had this Chinese travel document thing, but had to give it up once I reached 18.
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The most honest answer is this. They don't know any better. It's the definition of oppression. They are so oppressed they don't even know better.Once I watched this TV programme about these poor people in China who had to find work in a city away from their hometown. They had to work in grueling conditions just to put food on the table for their families. I remember that I asked my mom "why don't they just ctb? Why do they toil away in such awful circumstances?" She stared at me in shock for even thinking that.