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Life_and_Death
Do what's best for you 🕯️
- Jul 1, 2020
- 6,523
could you maybe wait until your mother is out for the day then send a delayed email to the cops? that way you can do it at home and the cops should be there before youre mother. also i say out for the day but the more time you can get (especially depending on your method) would be best.
Interesting how to send a delayed email? Can one schedule time for sending email?
I don't think there is any way to prevent loved ones from finding us if we do it where others live as well. You could close and lock your bedroom door, and put a note on the door as a heads up. It won't for sure stop her from going in, but at least she would know what happened before entering.
Life_and_Death
Do what's best for you 🕯️
- Jul 1, 2020
- 6,523
i cant find it, and im not sure if it works because i never clicked it. but i swear i saw something about delayed emails admin put in one of the FAQS or something.
MiseryLovesMyCompany
Arcanist
- Oct 8, 2020
- 482
If the door is locked then they'll have to wait for emergency services to open it... Or go berserk and break down the door themselves upon findig the note. Either way, as you said, at least they'll know what to expect. Not that there's any way to truly prepare someone for finding a loved one dead, but it's more than nothing.
You can use gmail (next to the send button, on mobile click on the 3 buttons and the schedule send option will be there), but there are other ways as well.
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The go berserk on the door made me laugh for some morbid reason. I suppose I imagined my apartments useless door locks where you just throw your body on the door moderately hard and it opens.
MiseryLovesMyCompany
Arcanist
- Oct 8, 2020
- 482
I'm glad I could make you laugh.
I see where you are coming from, my cat can push open my bedroom door when it's not locked.
StateOfMind
Liberty or Death
- Apr 30, 2020
- 1,195
I wouldn't worry about this too much.
You want to keep things as simple as possible and not complicate your ctb and risk being "saved".
Apart from that, who cares you'll be dead.
You want to keep things as simple as possible and not complicate your ctb and risk being "saved".
Apart from that, who cares you'll be dead.
Thanks for your comment I don't plan a violent method the email idea is a good one depending on if I can get enough fentanyl and tramadol EG do a proper job .N
As the comments above suggested, the scheduled e-mail to the police is a good idea. (Although they'll force the door and break some stuff unless you leave a spare key hidden outside for them to enter your house "neatly")
I always wonder who will find me when I ctb. Last August I tried to kill myself and the one who found me was my dad. He was so sad that I'm doing my best to keep on living now. Can't leave him alone in this damn world.
I always wonder who will find me when I ctb. Last August I tried to kill myself and the one who found me was my dad. He was so sad that I'm doing my best to keep on living now. Can't leave him alone in this damn world.
I have contemplated this and as bad as it sounds I think maybe my mom should find me. She deserves to hold her daughter one last time. I just don't wabt to put her through that trauma but I'm conflicted thinking what would be worse for her ... finding me or getting a police call I was found dead.
Speaking from the first responder point of view, doing it at home isn't the best option if you don't want your mother to see it. You can always go somewhere secluded like the woods or a river. You can also text 911 (US) and tell them where you are then continue with your attempt so that way we are the only ones who will end up finding you.
