IsThisTheEnd?
Mange
- Aug 6, 2020
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shrink asked me what would make you happy but I honestly have no idea anymore, I honestly can't answer that question.
So....What would make you happy?
So....What would make you happy?
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Same. Atm I don't have and it affects me.Being loved helps me feel better, having someone who cares about you. Hope you have someone That cares about you. A big hug.
All I want is to wake up 3 years in the past so I could avoid my physical problems. I'd stop exercising so I could avoid my chronic tendinitis, I'd stop listening to things so loud and that would stop my tinnitus, hyperacusis and visual snow. The only other thing that would make me happy is if in a few years these drugs that are being worked on cure or at least partially cure some of my issues. It's so far away and it's just a maybe though.shrink asked me what would make you happy but I honestly have no idea anymore, I honestly can't answer that question.
So....What would make you happy?
I know it's real. I had it, even for a bit after my depression set in. For me it used to be self image and when I got that under control I felt happy nearly all the time. I didn't do any dopamine seeking activities I just felt good.what . would . make . me . happy ?
happiness is by it's very nature illusionary. it is impermanent, fleeting even.
all emotions are transient.
trying to hunt happiness or hold onto it is the ironic paradox that makes us miserable...
what is happiness anyway ?
- please help me understand it...?!
I know it's real. I had it, even for a bit after my depression set in. For me it used to be self image and when I got that under control I felt happy nearly all the time. I didn't do any dopamine seeking activities I just felt good.what . would . make . me . happy ?
happiness is by it's very nature illusionary. it is impermanent, fleeting even.
all emotions are transient.
trying to hunt happiness or hold onto it is the ironic paradox that makes us miserable...
what is happiness anyway ?
- please help me understand it...?!
Have you used any particular methods or good reading materials/authors for stuff like this? It's something I've been reading a lot about recentlyApart from that, I found that letting go of the outcome and desires has been really helpful. I'm trying to stop being so immersed in life, and I just observe it. I observe my emotions, whether they are good or bad, don't place judgement and try to let go. It takes practice and skill. Lately, though, I had some moments of calm and peace and I felt really happy. It's like when your mind clears and you just feel ~good~ for no reason at all. I think it's important to not chase this feeling.
Just the basics. The Dhammapada got recommended on youtube to me recently so I gave it a listen. Alan Watts is pretty popular:Have you used any particular methods or good reading materials/authors for stuff like this? It's something I've been reading a lot about recently
Have you used any particular methods or good reading materials/authors for stuff like this? It's something I've been reading a lot about recently
Just the basics. The Dhammapada got recommended on youtube to me recently so I gave it a listen. Alan Watts is pretty popular:
I also like to just google stuff and read whatever comes up, but I haven't found "the book", you know what I mean? What about you? What type of stuff have you been reading?
Just the basics. The Dhammapada got recommended on youtube to me recently so I gave it a listen. Alan Watts is pretty popular:
I also like to just google stuff and read whatever comes up, but I haven't found "the book", you know what I mean? What about you? What type of stuff have you been reading?
Thanks both for your recommendations. I'm nearing the end of a book called Waking Up by Sam Harris. He's an atheist but it's about meditation/being present and takes a lot from Buddhist teachings about the conscience etc.Sorry to barge in, but a while ago I found a book/guide with very good ratings. It takes some real commitment, so I left it aside, but it might be y'all thing:
Amazon product ASIN 1501156985
EDIT: I noticed the Brave browser breaks the Amazon gadget/thing. If it happens over there, the title is The Mind Illuminated.
Well I have wondered if being in a coma would be nice, but how could I tell.sleep more, i'm already oversleeping but that is the idea. Life sucks, i need to escape as much as possible. If i'm awake, then i'm streaming dark/depressing movies & tv shows :(
What are your strengths, if you don't mind me asking?Living in a society where my strengths are needed and my weaknesses are irrelevant--unlike the complete opposite, which is the case.
Bent penis (can reach around corners), ability to activate incel-rage and enter berserkergang, can eat/drink things that are not tasty without complaining, pretty good at Mario Kart, 75 IQ (good for communicating with children, haven't actually gotten it tested so I'm estimating).What are your strengths, if you don't mind me asking?