
violetdevil
Student
- Oct 15, 2021
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Attractiveness can be really, really subjective though. I won't deny that pretty privilege exists. It absolutely doesBeing attractive can get you a friend, a relationship, a job. Etc. Theres no downside to be attractive. Theres only a downside to being unattractive
Lets be real. Attractiveness is only slightly subjective. Most of it is just objective beauty standards of the current moment. I unrealistically want that. Pretty privilege is underrated. The people who have it don't understand how good they have it. I would give a limb to experience that. Or my voice/soul like some Little Mermaid bullshit. Attractive people don't understand how easy they have itAttractiveness can be really, really subjective though. I won't deny that pretty privilege exists. It absolutely does
Why is that ?Nothing. I think I'd want to die even if I was happy
so yeah, if i were conventionally attractive and able to love myself, i wouldn't want to kill myselfeveryone is arguing about whether being attractive matters and i thought i would add:
while it may be debatable the degree to which attractiveness (in regards to social beauty standards) is important to overall "life success"
you can't debate how being conventionally unattractive makes someone feel shitty about themselves. like sure,
i may be able to have friends, a boyfriend, etc. but i still feel utter disappointment and dread and anger every time i look in the mirror. i hide my appearance from others (wearing a mask), but this isn't because i think they'll judge me and leave me: it's because i hate existing in my body. it doesn't feel like me, im uncomfortable existing like this so i avoid confronting it at all costs. i could give two shits what other people think about me, it's a thing between me and myself not anyone else. getting a partner or friends or whatever doesn't make me feel any happier. i truly just hate hating myself.
i relate to that mentally ill part. if i found someone im 100% sure you will too. my bf knows about most of the crazy mentally ill shit i've done (and continue to do) and yet he loves me like we've been married for 70 years. you just gotta find the right personsomeone who loves me and want to build a family with me. the older I get the more this is slipping away from me. men don't want girls with heavy mental illness issues who have no friends or family. I don't blame them, I'd not want me either.
Yep, I can see why no one wants to date you.Being attractive can get you a friend, a relationship, a job. Etc. Theres no downside to be attractive. Theres only a downside to being unattractive
Same here x2A cure for my chronic disease and I'd never consider suicide.
Haha well that's very nice of you. Totally constructive. Anyone that disagrees with you is undateable lolYep, I can see why no one wants to date you.