Does anyone wonder what you would do if you would meet the 10 year old you?

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[GeorgeJL]

Yeah I would give my younger self a bible. LOL just kidding.

But no I would explain how life works to my younger self. That is what I would do. Oh and tell him the winning lottery numbers. LOL

 

[throwaway777]

i would kill her immediately

 

[Psilo]

Nothing.

I wasn't that way at 10, just full of juvenile stupid hope.

 

[Numbtopain97]

Don't let your parents map out your future for you. It's your life, not theirs

 

[Maravillosa]

I would tell my 10-year-old self not to be alone in the same house with her father, especially when he has been drinking. If Mom goes out, try to go with her or go to a friend's house. I would tell her to learn how to do housework fairly well and to try to learn how to like doing it. I would strongly advise her to tell parents, teachers, and other adults that she is being bullied at school. I would tell her to get private tutoring in math so that she can get over her fear of math and learn how to like it: being comfortable with math and competent at doing it will open horizons and careers to her that otherwise would be closed to her and constrain her life. I would also tell her to write, write, write as much as she can. I would tell her to find a way to regularly attend Alateen meetings after she turns 13. Oh yes, and I would tell her that going to Mass every Sunday is quite important: Jesus Himself is contained in the bread and wine that the priest consecrates, and it is a sin to deliberately miss Sunday Mass. I would tell her to pray that her parents and brothers come to church with her.

 

[GinaIsReady]

I think I would have to take her life.

 

[Antinous]

I remember the 10 year old me: doing my best to trust the adults in my life, believing what they told me. I would give anything to have the opportunity to have a heart to heart talk with that ten year old kid; he was at a crucial point when he could still make a fulfilling life instead of trashing a life. I'd tell him to never, ever, ever listen to any religious person: parent, nun, priest, sibling, acquaintance, anybody. I'd point out to him that the more "religious" they are, the bigger the liar they are; the more "religious" they are, the more hypocritical they are. I'd tell him: (1) Encourage and cultivate your curiosity; never let anyone discourage it. (2) Be skeptical and build your world view (your narrative) only on those ideas that pass the test of experiment, careful observation, and scientific peer review. (3) Follow the evidence wherever it leads. (4) Be comfortable with uncertainty; it is the hallmark of growth and understanding. (5) Question everything; nullius in verba.

 

[Empty Smile]

Tell me to ctb now, there's nothing 39 years ahead of you, nor was there anything in between those years, just an empty space.

 

[Life sucks]

The 10 years old isn't me. I'm a different person
I'm disassociated from my childhood and don't feel its me, the story is long. But I think nothing would change as its being deterministic. I was abused and I had zero control on the life. What would I say, I don't know. I had no choices

 

[_NoName_]

I'd tell him to stop being ashamed and alert the schools management and/or the workplaces bosses whenever he gets bullied or threatened.

 

[h0wd1rtygurlsST4Yc1n]

i'd give them a hug because my life was hard then......but i didn't feel suicidal. some times i miss when i was younger and more innocent to things.

 

[dhk96]

She was already depressed at that age so I'd kill her if it meant I could disappear too.

 

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[Ko9]

I have 3 predictions, 1: We both get super scared of each other. 2: We get super angry at each other. 3: We both cry together for 11 hours.

 

[andy69]

I would tell: don't have any dreams and don't waste your time in studying.

Me too. Never go to college. If you do, NEVER take the advice of a professor.

 

[21Neberg]

I'd tell him to learn to stand up for himself and start building self esteem because the bullying was setting him up for a young death.

 

[Kjo]

Me too.

I would shoot her, before she got raped, betrayed, abused, neglected and abandoned. Before she had to live her life 100% alone forever. A life of unceasing pain and torment.

It's the only merciful thing to do.

This.

 

[ScorpiusDragon]

I'd tell her:
"Stop trying to listen to your parents. They will turn you into a robot with no soul. Fight back. If they hit you, don't be afraid. Hit them back, call the police. Don't listen to them when they warn you not to tell the outside world how you got those cuts and bruises."

 

[Final Escape]

I would pretty much have to step in and become the parent I unfortunately never had. Tell her all the stuff she needs to know to avoid the disasters that await due to not having been taught accurately about anything that actually matters. Straighten out the worldview.

 

[Donewith_]

I would support and stand by her side..just let her know i am there for her.
And i would make her move out as soon as possible to a good place.

 

[seekingoblivion]

I would pretty much have to step in and become the parent I unfortunately never had. Tell her all the stuff she needs to know to avoid the disasters that await due to not having been taught accurately about anything that actually matters. Straighten out the worldview.

Yeah this. If I couldn't be my own parent then I'd just have to end my young life.

 

[AtomicNewt]

Say: Stay in school, don't do drugs, keep your knickers on

 

[Dead Horse]

In 3 years she will ask you to kiss her. Don't be a pussy. Do it! It'll probably be your last chance to kiss someone. Also, at university, don't let your laziness-depression hold you back. It will make matters even worse.

 

[GrantMyWish]

Buy bitcoin..

 

[Wayfaerer]

One minute would be all that I'd need to save my life.

 

[AtomicNewt]

One minute would be all that I'd need to save my life.
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What would you say or do in that minute?

 

[Wayfaerer]

I'd tell myself the following: 1.) That my parents are not nearly as wise as I thought. Further, I'd also add how much they had screwed me over permanently in several ways but not to let it get to me 2.) Do not quit skateboarding, even when you relocate for the nth time and no longer have any friends. 3.) NEVER take SSRI medication. 4.) Take good care of your personal hygiene 5.) Do not drink soda 6.) Do not watch pornography. 7.) Do not become political

I think that about sums it all up.

In 3 years she will ask you to kiss her. Don't be a pussy. Do it! It'll probably be your last chance to kiss someone. Also, at university, don't let your laziness-depression hold you back. It will make matters even worse.

Man can I sympathize with this... I actually was 10 when I had that opportunity but I really didn't have the hots for her. Almost two decades later and that is the closest I've ever gotten. She was kind of cute, though, but I preferred the blondes (and redheads!)

 

[Black_Knight]

We'd probably play pokemon cards together and play imaginary games in the woods
I think we could get along really well
I know ten year old me would be scrutinizing the shit out of me (especially my weight lol), and I'd probably be scrutinizing them a lot more than I would any other ten year old too, which does frighten me a little bit, and I know that ten year old me would be delighted over the weirdness of an older version of them fearing their judgment
I don't think I'd tell ten year old me what to do or how to behave or what the future will be like
They wouldn't listen anyway, we'd just try to have fun together

 

[EmptySteph62]

I would tell her that what she's feeling is more than just fear and that she should get help for it as soon as possible instead of waiting until things get really bad. I would tell her to forget about the bullies and switch schools because in 3 years none of it will matter anyway. I'd tell her to look for a new best friend and not limit herself to only a couple of friends because if one of them leaves she'll be very lonely.
If I could go back in time and talk to myself at 10 I think I would be able to change a lot about how severe my depression is, or in the very least delay it a while. I don't think I could change my anxiety but I could tell myself to get help for it sooner and learn to control it before it gets so serious.
I would also tell her to take up hockey because why not.