Not with me. And not on Sanctioned Suicide. On SaSu it wouldn't be that unlikely to get murdered. But on dating apps.
I could imagine many men dream of sex dates. I am male too. But I am not that enthusiastic about sex dates. I think I am quite inexperienced when it comes to sex. But I have at least some experiece.
I am into dating now since a few years. I think I am quite a niche but when I have a match it fitted better than the matches of a friend who gets more likes. I don't think my outer appearance is the reason though.
There were two women where I thought they were interested in a sex date. One of them told me she was interested in casual dating and she wanted to meet me. She came from a foreign country (Within EU) and she would make a trip to my country and wanted to see me. I have to say she looked really really good and also my type. I was a little bit disappointed when she wrote me she was into casual dating. Personally, I also have to say I had the feeling she might be a bot/had a fake identity. We didn't continue the texting. She didn't write back after I wasn't so pleased when she mentioned casual dating. I asked myself afterwards whether I missed a chance. She looked sort of arrogant and I think I came to the conclusion I had to like a woman in order to have sex with her. And if the sex and chemistry is good why not doing this regularly.
There was another time. I texted with a woman on a app with many horny men. I used this app for serious dating though and women thanked me for that. So I texted with this woman. And then we exchanged pictures. And she sent me a weird picture. It looked like she would have been naked beneath her blanket. I sent this picture to friends. And we were all not fully sure whether the picture was taken for exactly this purpose. It wasn't explicit in any way. But I was slightly unsure how to interpet it.
I didn't go into offense. Lol. The texting ended soon after this exchange wit no apparant reason. And a friend of me had the theory she was disappointed that I didn't start with sexting. Honestly, this theory could be true. I once did sexting with a woman from a dating app. But we knew each other way better, I trusted her more and I thought it becomes something stable between us. There is one difference though. In the latter case the woman was as explicit as one can be about it. In the prior case there was ambiguity and it would have made me so uncomfortable if I made naughty comments or what ever about her pictures when this wasn't actually her intention. I would have hated that. And I didn't conisder her that sympathetic. Also her the fact I still tell this story says something about me. Maybe that I hate crossing borders and that I often struggle with ambiguity in social interactions. But I also wonder whether I missed a chance. But really there are so many stories about sextortion. And sexting is risky. I didn't really like her and this is made it less appealing to me.
I could imagine a sex date when the chemistry would fit. I think other men might have other priorities. There was the autistic, liberal woman. I think she was in an open relationship and I was really confused about her intentions because she never specified the relationship to her favorite person. I had higher trust in her. She was also extremely high gifted. But at the borad game evening I realized she was quite manipulative. I wonder whether it would have become sexual between us if her sociopathic friend didn't verbally assault me. This experience was sort of surreal. This was a woman where I could have imagine friends with benefits until I realized she was phoney. She talked pretty pejoratively about people in my situation at a later time point.
I couldn't really imagine having sex or wanting to have sex with a person I didn't like. I know there is like sex between people that hate each other. I am not sure if this was good for people not that experienced. I think if you have sex with someone (especially if there is an imbalance in experience) you make yourself really vulnerable. I imagine it to be quite fucked up if it turns out the other person makes fun of you for that. Or something like that.
What about you?
I could imagine many men dream of sex dates. I am male too. But I am not that enthusiastic about sex dates. I think I am quite inexperienced when it comes to sex. But I have at least some experiece.
I am into dating now since a few years. I think I am quite a niche but when I have a match it fitted better than the matches of a friend who gets more likes. I don't think my outer appearance is the reason though.
There were two women where I thought they were interested in a sex date. One of them told me she was interested in casual dating and she wanted to meet me. She came from a foreign country (Within EU) and she would make a trip to my country and wanted to see me. I have to say she looked really really good and also my type. I was a little bit disappointed when she wrote me she was into casual dating. Personally, I also have to say I had the feeling she might be a bot/had a fake identity. We didn't continue the texting. She didn't write back after I wasn't so pleased when she mentioned casual dating. I asked myself afterwards whether I missed a chance. She looked sort of arrogant and I think I came to the conclusion I had to like a woman in order to have sex with her. And if the sex and chemistry is good why not doing this regularly.
There was another time. I texted with a woman on a app with many horny men. I used this app for serious dating though and women thanked me for that. So I texted with this woman. And then we exchanged pictures. And she sent me a weird picture. It looked like she would have been naked beneath her blanket. I sent this picture to friends. And we were all not fully sure whether the picture was taken for exactly this purpose. It wasn't explicit in any way. But I was slightly unsure how to interpet it.
I didn't go into offense. Lol. The texting ended soon after this exchange wit no apparant reason. And a friend of me had the theory she was disappointed that I didn't start with sexting. Honestly, this theory could be true. I once did sexting with a woman from a dating app. But we knew each other way better, I trusted her more and I thought it becomes something stable between us. There is one difference though. In the latter case the woman was as explicit as one can be about it. In the prior case there was ambiguity and it would have made me so uncomfortable if I made naughty comments or what ever about her pictures when this wasn't actually her intention. I would have hated that. And I didn't conisder her that sympathetic. Also her the fact I still tell this story says something about me. Maybe that I hate crossing borders and that I often struggle with ambiguity in social interactions. But I also wonder whether I missed a chance. But really there are so many stories about sextortion. And sexting is risky. I didn't really like her and this is made it less appealing to me.
I could imagine a sex date when the chemistry would fit. I think other men might have other priorities. There was the autistic, liberal woman. I think she was in an open relationship and I was really confused about her intentions because she never specified the relationship to her favorite person. I had higher trust in her. She was also extremely high gifted. But at the borad game evening I realized she was quite manipulative. I wonder whether it would have become sexual between us if her sociopathic friend didn't verbally assault me. This experience was sort of surreal. This was a woman where I could have imagine friends with benefits until I realized she was phoney. She talked pretty pejoratively about people in my situation at a later time point.
I couldn't really imagine having sex or wanting to have sex with a person I didn't like. I know there is like sex between people that hate each other. I am not sure if this was good for people not that experienced. I think if you have sex with someone (especially if there is an imbalance in experience) you make yourself really vulnerable. I imagine it to be quite fucked up if it turns out the other person makes fun of you for that. Or something like that.
What about you?
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