I've not been on one for ages.
I might have go though. I'm just gonna put "I hope you need sex really bad, because really bad sex is my specialty.", and then await the rush.
That's p much how I fess I hadn't gone in a long time anf started using them again
Tbf you don't need to be saying that you're down to fuck half the time because it's so full of people(usually cis dudes) that are ready to ask you if you're down lol, at least that's been my expeirence
But also some groups get more fetishized attention than others. My ex would get so many more chasers flocking to her because she's a trans women
You just kinda make do with whatever website you use I guess, you'll find something cool
I've tried dating websites, but I'm not personally a fan of them. It's like the two people who matched up with each other are forcing a connection. I like when I just meet people and a connection naturally occurs.
This is real! I just don't go to events like that to really meet people face to face. I've been so tired of being cooped up and only going out when I work and also tired of not being able to have intimacy so dating apps have been okay for me like that, I don't use them to actually find something long term in terms of relationships tho
Never tried to, i met most people who ever loves from games.
This is kinda similar to what I said above except it's just that I don't really play games much, I wish I could meet peeps like that tho!
ive never used a dating app or dated someone in my life
Im sorry :(
It's not something you need to have if you're not wanting one but I don't think you're in a position to be out of the ring permanently! Although I know I don't know anything about your stuff and I'm sorry if it's intruding :(
I send you best wishes and kindess
In the early 2000s dating sites were still passable. By which I mean there were actual women on them who wanted to actually meet men. Aside from one fix-up from someone at work, the only dates I ever had were from matchmaking websites in the late 1995 and early 2000s. Dates didn't go well, sometimes I knew why sometimes I didn't... but at least the women showed up.
Anytime I've tried since then, I either get no matches at all... or I match with people running some kind of scam, usually bitcoin or gold. It's crazy, Like a while back I was on Tinder just to see what I could see... and I lost count of the number of "women" who matched and had the exact same story. They were from another country, had come here by way of an uncle or grandfather to start their own "beauty business" and were also into bitcoin and gold and wanted to discuss investments. Just for fun I completely short-circuited one because they mentioned the "beauty business" so I immediately went into a spiel about my investments and "she" lit up like a Christmas tree. I then started copy/pasting from another match who was trying to sell me on something and let them talk to each other basically until I got bored and they had no idea I was doing it.
That is super crazy fr. I haven't had any encounters like that but then, I'm a transmasc 24 year old who has their job listed as fast food so, prolly not an ideal target for a scam like that
I am sorry that's been your experience tho, I think just some websites are hit or misses. Grindr had been a major miss for me up until a couple days ago when I met someone cute and cool and compatible for hookup stuff. It just depends I guess. As with anything
