Any non incels here?

[asian.neet]

Sometimes I see posts from incels here and sometimes it makes me question my presence on this site although I do appreciate the ctb guides here. I dont wanna associate myself with incels bc of their dangerous/pathetic ideology.

Idk but is the majority of ppl here non incels?

 

[Seered Doom]

The majority of the chill people I've met on here aren't incels, so yeah, most here are just suicidal people who aren't incels.

 

[accountnamerequired]

I definetly don't get laid lol but I I don't blame society or women in general for it, if I improved myself and my finances enough I'm confident I could get some action too. I definetly don't fuck with the incel mindset that everything is someone else's fault, not mine

 

[stillvoices]

I've only had reference to 2 incels in the media so I'm not entirely sure, but as far as I know I'm not. Wait, can females be incels? Maybe I need to do more research before I post about this .

 

[Seered Doom]

I've only had reference to 2 incels in the media so I'm not entirely sure, but as far as I know I'm not. Wait, can females be incels? Maybe I need to do more research before I post about this .

Sadly yes, femcels exist

 

[Aergia]

Yeah, demographic (and other) polls indicate that incels are probably a pretty small minority here.

 

[tiger b]

Sometimes I see posts from incels here and sometimes it makes me question my presence on this site although I do appreciate the ctb guides here. I dont wanna associate myself with incels bc of their dangerous/pathetic ideology.

Idk but is the majority of ppl here non incels?

Has life become that binary now?

I think the most dangerous thing is to take a shred of truth, add cherry-picked sprinklings of pseudoscience and then wrap in a massive umm something of generalisation.

People can tell me if it's the case or not regarding incels. I've gone through my bitter stage of blaming women for my 'problems', and thoroughly regret the blinkered thinking that led to it.

 

[FuneralCry]

This is just a forum supporting the individuals right to die, it's a place for suicidal people to vent openly and discuss suicide methods without always and only receiving pro-life comments in response. I don't really know what you mean by incel ideology but this website isn't some hateful place, are you sure you are posting about this site. But anyway if open discussions about suicide bother you then of course it's a personal choice deciding to come on here.

 

[tiger b]

This is just a forum supporting the individuals right to die, it's a place for suicidal people to vent openly and discuss suicide methods without always and only receiving pro-life comments in response. I don't really know what you mean by incel ideology but this website isn't some hateful place, are you sure you are posting about this site. But anyway if open discussions about suicide bother you then of course it's a personal choice deciding to come on here.

It's the off-topic here, bud.

I'm not sure where you got that about hateful place or from the op's post, or open discussions about suicide bothering them. I didn't.

 

[Seered Doom]

Yeah, neither did I.

 

[Adûnâi]

I dont wanna associate myself with incels bc of their dangerous/pathetic ideology.

That's the same epithets normies use against pro-mortalism. Careful.

I for one identify myself as a jaded, hateful, autistic incel. I do not "blame women" because that would mean conceding females agency, and I'm not a feminist.

I blame the creators of this disgusting, vile Universe if any exist. I blame my mom for not making an abortion. I blame the RNG.

I will never ever receive headpats, for one. At least, I have the privilege of never having been bullied*, so I do not harbour any hatred towards the normies. So I do fantasise about school shootings... just about being on the receiving end thereof, haha. (Bonus points - being successfully shot in the head by a hot femcel, but that's rarer than a unicorn.)

*I was bullied by girls when I was 16, but I constantly kept summoning my mom to school to deal with them. Weirdly enough, I had zero interest in them sexually, despite my innate femdom fetish. Either I was that repressed at the time, or I just hate non-consensual humiliation (two things that I do despise to this day).

 

[Cage]

Like others here have said most of us are definitely not incels. I myself have never really been interested in dating or having sex. I'm very much sexually attracted to women but being with them IRL is a complete turnoff for me. Modern femininity is a complete cancer.

There is a trend of people conflating antifeminism/"sexism" with inceldom, which is not true, but that's just people being people for you.

 

[Scattered-Soul]

I'm pretty vocal about being against their ideology and so far haven't come across any. I mean it's a forum full of different kinds of people so I don't doubt that you've come across some but I think the majority are chill.

 

[Adûnâi]

I'm pretty vocal about being against their ideology and so far haven't come across any.

You're against autistic people who had never had a single friend having any hope of ever getting headpats? Am I understanding you correctly?

 

[Cage]

You're against autistic people who had never had a single friend having any hope of ever getting headpats? Am I understanding you correctly?

They probably mean "incel" as in "guy who hates women but still wants to fuck them"

Most people don't know the meaning of the word but it is what it is. Like seriously we're on SS, do you really think that's what they meant?

 

[Dread#0375]

How long after last having sex would count as being celibate? 2 weeks, 2 months?

 

[Celerity]

I've only had reference to 2 incels in the media so I'm not entirely sure, but as far as I know I'm not. Wait, can females be incels? Maybe I need to do more research before I post about this .

Supposedly, the original incel who coined the term was female. I suppose I would count technically, but it hasn't been completely involuntary. Haven't been all that interested in dating, and I don't subscribe to the ideology at all.

 

[Scattered-Soul]

You're against autistic people who had never had a single friend having any hope of ever getting headpats? Am I understanding you correctly?

Honestly your wording and mention of "headpats" makes me feel like you're just messing with me but oh well, might as well reply.

I'm autistic myself lmao (and so is OP probably based on their custom title) and an involuntary celibate if you were to take those words literally just by themselves. You should know that being an incel goes far beyond that though. That's all I'm gonna say since I don't feel like engaging in such debates on this forum and I don't have the energy for it either.

 

[Seered Doom]

Yeah, that sounded fallacious from Adunai's end

 

[randal_bond]

Honestly your wording and mention of "headpats" makes me feel like you're just messing with me but oh well, might as well reply.

I'm autistic myself lmao (and so is OP probably based on their custom title) and an involuntary celibate if you were to take those words literally just by themselves. You should know that being an incel goes far beyond that though. That's all I'm gonna say since I don't feel like engaging in such debates on this forum and I don't have the energy for it either.

Hi to fellow-autist. I guess we need to make another thread titled "Are there autistic people here?" There will be many, with rejection and ignorance we face every day. But I'm not here to vent.

 

[リンさん]

It is pretty upsetting seeing ppl with incel ideology on here. I even got PMs from some of them, but thankfully the "ignore" button works perfectly fine lol.

Isn't this website used by predominantly male population? Which is why I guess incels are more often noticed.

Either way, yeah, spewing dehumanizing rhetorics is never a good thing. But I'm sure the majority isn't that… opinionated.

 

[asian.neet]

The majority of the chill people I've met on here aren't incels, so yeah, most here are just suicidal people who aren't incels.

Nice thats good to hear

 

[Seered Doom]

Yeah, definitely

 

[jinx <3]

I'm a trans woman and I also feel kind of weird knowing that this site has a reputation for having a large incel userbase. I do appreciate the site's resources, and the people are generally lovely, but I still feel odd spending time here regardless. I don't hate incels as a rule, but I'm not the biggest fan of the violent ones, and most seem pretty mean-spirited regardless. So yeah, basically just agreeing with your feelings here. But I do believe that the majority of the people here are truly just a mix of all backgrounds with only suicidality in common.

 

[Cage]

It is pretty upsetting seeing ppl with incel ideology on here. I even got PMs from some of them, but thankfully the "ignore" button works perfectly fine lol.

Isn't this website used by predominantly male population? Which is why I guess incels are more often noticed.

Either way, yeah, spewing dehumanizing rhetorics is never a good thing. But I'm sure the majority isn't that… opinionated.

A lot of them were probably abused by women growing up though, so I can understand why they think that way.

 

[tiger b]

A lot of them were probably abused by women growing up though, so I can understand why they think that way.

You think so? What leads you to that conclusion?

 

[リンさん]

A lot of them were probably abused by women growing up though, so I can understand why they think that way.

Abused as in "I talked to a girl and she didn't immediately fall in love with me"? Wow, so sad :(

Can we then also talk about women being abused and harassed by incels? Or is it suddenly justified on the off chance they were abused?

 

[Adûnâi]

honestly your wording and mention of "headpats" makes me feel like you're just messing with me but oh well, might as well reply.

I'm autistic myself lmao (and so is OP probably based on their custom title) and an involuntary celibate if you were to take those words literally just by themselves. You should know that being an incel goes far beyond that though.

Assuming what people mean is a rather non-autistic trait. I hate it when normies do it to me. Why can't I hate most people, but also desire kindness and connection with a worthy soul? Putting people in boxes is useless when it comes to individual cases. In my case, I'm an incel hated by all sides possible and impossible for what I am and what I am not.

And if I suddenly reject the incel term, it will bring me neither the proverbial headpats nor respect from people such as you. Nor greater understand. So yes, I will call myself an incel because why not? Although the upcoming advent of AI waifus is making me mightily disinterested in real people.

 

[Cage]

Abused as in "I talked to a girl and she didn't immediately fall in love with me"? Wow, so sad :(

Can we then also talk about women being abused and harassed by incels? Or is it suddenly justified on the off chance they were abused?

I know one specific user here who was horribly physically abused by his mother growing up, and also entered into multiple abusive relationships with other women as he got older. As you can expect he's quite resentful of women and believes them far more privileged than men.

Not every man you dislike is an incel Redditor.

 

[Adûnâi]

Like seriously we're on SS, do you really think that's what they meant?

Yes, I do. I mention headpats and that I'm an incel - and I'm apparently "messing with him". Such moral grandstanding leads to people being left out because "they deserve it". I for one do not consider thieves

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getting their arms chopped off

justice. Neither do I consider males who were born to be mated left to rot justifiable.

I will admit that reality is vile, existence is painful and unjust, and it's a constant war among a myriad of parties to get what they want. The best reality for females is to chase the chad, leaving the rest to rope. In truth, I do not view it as reconcilable. Just wolves eating sheep. Far from every hatched bird gets to fly.

That said, I personally do not "hate" women for their nature, just the way I do not personalise summer heat. And I cannot hate individuals for belonging to their respective groups unless they have wronged me specifically - but that's common courtesy.