Would you date yourself?

[BetweenRadioStations]

I would not because I'm still at the red-flag phase of my recovery journey. What about you???

 

[DarkMilk]

Way too impulsive and neurotic.

 

[Forever Sleep]

That's a great question! I'm not sure really. I think the empathetic side of me would feel sorry and compassionate for me. Plus, I know I'm a very loyal and loving person. I get really annoyed and frustrated with myself though- so- that would be worse if it was directed at someone else. I don't think we'd be at all good for one another. We would likely just spiral further together into melencholly depression and CTB together.

 

[Anonymus]

I don't really understand what you mean, I mean you are usually already with yourself, actually from the time you are born until you die, so a date with yourself what does it mean? you mean if i would date a duplicate of myself? I suppose that if it were a duplicate of me, neither of us would dare to go there, and if we finally did, both of us would want to leave in a hurry.

I don't think the meeting was possible.

//

No entenc gaire bé que vols dir, vull dir que normalment ja estàs amb tu mateix, de fet desde que neixes fins que mors, llavors una cita amb tu mateix que vol dir? et refereixes a si sortiría amb un duplicat de mi mateix? suposo que si fos un duplicat meu cap dels dos s'atreviría a anar-hi, i de fer-ho finalment tots dos voldriem marxar a corre-cuita.

No crec que la cita fos possible.

 

[Rocinante]

Assuming I'm a woman dating my male self? Yes

 

[Nebel_meer]

Yes. I have good looks and men always chased after me.
But it makes no sense if you're sick and depressed. I don't care about this stuff anymore, I don't care how I look and I'm not interested in anyone.

 

[murmur]

Assuming I'm a woman dating my male self? Yes

can't believe im indulging the thought but yeah, if I was going on a date with the genderbend version of myself, it would be an epic time

 

[StolenLife]

Hell no I'm ugly, asocial and boring.

 

[MentalStefan]

Buhahaha...
No.

 

[unnormal9]

oh yeah.

 

[TraumaEscapee:)]

Hell to the no!

 

[WorthlessTrash]

Considering the fact that I am only attracted to women, and I am a male. Absolutely not.

 

[Lamentice]

I would, I understand all my needs better than anyone else ever could. Generally I like myself & spending time with myself.. hate bothering with other people.

 

[DietoLive]

Yes. I have good looks and men always chased after me.
But it makes no sense if you're sick and depressed. I don't care about this stuff anymore, I don't care how I look and I'm not interested in anyone.

You look so pretty that everyone would chase you out.

 

[Source Energy]

Lookwise, yes.
Otherwise, no, because I'm attracted to people who have personality qualities I lack.
Luckily, everybody's preferences differ. Just because I wouldn't date myself doesn't mean nobody would.

 

[wishmomwasprochoice]

I would first kill the male me and CTB

 

[EmmaD]

You look so pretty that everyone would chase you out.

Weirdo

 

[Shivali]

Never

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

I'd give myself the old "it's not you, it's me." I wonder if I'd fall for it.

 

[BetweenRadioStations]

I don't really understand what you mean, I mean you are usually already with yourself, actually from the time you are born until you die, so a date with yourself what does it mean? you mean if i would date a duplicate of myself? I suppose that if it were a duplicate of me, neither of us would dare to go there, and if we finally did, both of us would want to leave in a hurry.

I don't think the meeting was possible.

//

No entenc gaire bé que vols dir, vull dir que normalment ja estàs amb tu mateix, de fet desde que neixes fins que mors, llavors una cita amb tu mateix que vol dir? et refereixes a si sortiría amb un duplicat de mi mateix? suposo que si fos un duplicat meu cap dels dos s'atreviría a anar-hi, i de fer-ho finalment tots dos voldriem marxar a corre-cuita.

No crec que la cita fos possible.

In short, the point of the question is less about literally dating yourself and more about if you met someone with similar qualities/at a similar phase in their life such as similar job, wage, personality, mental health, etc would you date them.

 

[luminiby]

absolutely

 

[AerialBoundaries]

Truthfully? I would. I'm a decent looking guy. My personality traits are included, so I would be willing to date someone with mental struggles and I have shown the ability to improve on negative traits that affect others.

 

[The_End_Is_Comfort]

Honestly yeah, I get along better with people with similar interests and beliefs as me so being with someone who's interested in pretty much the same things as me seems like a dream At the same time though maybe I'd like some different things to spice things up.

 

[woh6]

I dont know.. I have a lot of love and care to give but at the same time, there are definitely some things I need to work on, such as communicating. Though, since it's me, it could be easier!

 

[Mothgirl]

When I start dating someone, I tend to change into something that doesn't work. I try too hard and I treat my partner in ways that make them feel as though they are abusive to me, because it's just what I'm used to. I think if I dated myself, we would very quickly end our lives together, so on that front I think I would, but at the same time I'd stop even recognizing myself or my partner right away and I don't think the ability to not be alone when I finally have my exit date is worth even more crisis and pain

 

[Dead Meat]

No because I'm a POS

 

[Dead Horse]

I am in a very strange position, where I can't fathom how another person would even consider dating me, and at the same time I would happily date a female version of myself. At least I think so.

 

[Anonymus]

In short, the point of the question is less about literally dating yourself and more about if you met someone with similar qualities/at a similar phase in their life such as similar job, wage, personality, mental health, etc would you date them.

Well, I haven't met anyone like me, but I haven't related much to other people either, only those I was close to in my day to day. But it's been many years since this (family, educational or work environments) and since I'm asocial, the fact that I don't use meeting spaces to talk to other people (leisure environments) makes it very difficult for this never happen, especially when there is almost no predisposition on my part.

Almost...

//

Doncs no he conegut pas ningú com jo, però tampoc m'he relacionat gaire amb d'altres persones, només amb les que tenía a prop meu en el meu día a día. Però ja fa molts anys d'això (entorns familiars, educatius o laborals) i com que sóc asocial, el fet de no fer ús d'espais de trobada per parlar amb d'altres persones (entorns d'oci) dificulta molt que això passi mai, sobretot quan no hi ha gairebé cap predisposició per part meva.

Gairebé...

 

[silent star]

l'm ugly and definitely a red flag so probably not

 

[Georg]

l'm ugly and definitely a red flag so probably not

Same