Would you date yourself?

[madhatguy]

We're too similar. It'd be boring.

 

[no.hope]

I would not because I'm still at the red-flag phase of my recovery journey. What about you???

no

 

[Fe(IV)]

It's a thought I had about having children. Taking care of child me? Hell no I was a piece of shit LMAO

Would I date myself? Nowadays? Nobody dates me, but I don't think I'm that bad. I guess.

 

[audison]

I would not because I'm still at the red-flag phase of my recovery journey. What about you???

No, but idea of anyone wanting to date themselves in of itself seems kind of narcissistic lol

 

[Lost Magic]

Hell no. Why would I want to date a person (me) who is plagued with mental and physical health problems (and that's just scratching the surface)? Nah, if I was the other person I would put a bullet in my head lol BANG! Would save me the trouble.

 

[yellowtin42]

i'd probably be really psyched to date me for a little bit and then realize i'm a total nutjob and run away.

 

[TapeMachine]

i'd probably be really psyched to date me for a little bit and then realize i'm a total nutjob and run away.

I feel sorta similarly about myself. I think I can be really fun and loving on my good days; but I don't know about my bad days.. I can hardly stand to be around myself on those days, so I know it isn't easy for others.

But I do like myself, in general.

I don't know. This is a tough question to answer.

 

[Torabol]

If I weren't suicidal, yeah sure

 

[day]

Honestly I don't think I'd be a bad candidate to date outside of the whole yano.. CTB thing. I'm super sweet most the time, I'm honest, fairly attractive (this is said often I'm not a narcissist), and I am surprisingly self-sufficient.

However, me, in the mental state I am, no, I don't think anyone including myself would enjoy me.

 

[Eriktf]

I am currently in a long term relationship with my right hand

 

[loyalskateboard]

I mean... obviously not a clone of myself or anything. If you mean someone with the exact same values and interests, sure.

 

[ggetout33]

Assuming I'm a woman, honestly god no.

Mental ailments aside, I have a few negative qualities that would've made me a bad partner especially before I started meds (Wellbrutin + Concerta). Meds only made me self aware of how bad I was. Though I've only been on for close to a week as of writing.

I'm a very pessimistic, impatient, inexperienced, depressed, self-hating person. I have no job nor car, I still live with my parents. I'm gonna be 22.

Not to sound like a "nice guy" but I feel my only saving grace is just me caring about the wellbeing and feelings of others. More than some of the guys I used to know for sure. But that's like the bare minimum in my eyes. Or at least I think it should be.

But knowing I'm in this bad position has made me hold off on dating until I got myself straight. So there's that, I guess.

But if I were to meet someone at a similar life stage as mine, I guess why not. Just as long as they were pretty cute and not batshit crazy. But given both of our lack of romantic experience, the relationship would probably feel more like exclusive friends with benefits more than a romantic relationship.

 

[UnlikelyCandidate]

No I wouldn't.

 

[Baron]

I don't think I am able to develop any romantic feelings for anyone right now, given the mental state I am in. Besides that I am ugly which prob is a huge turn off

 

[blitz]

No. My mental illness alone is bad enough,never mind my personality and appearance.

 

[SpaceEngineer]

No, Not at all. Too many annoying traits.

 

[suicidalloser]

no—that's a burden no one, not even myself wants

 

[ctvunny]

lol no

 

[Final_Choice]

Yes, though neither version of me would probably confess to the other unless the perfect opportunity to confess occurs.

 

[Doz]

Nah. Even if I was into dating still no.

 

[TheMetalhead]

If I were a female I would date my male self, but I think that would lead either to a happy or dead end.

 

[lilypeachoo]

I wouldn't because I hate myself. Everyone around me likes me and I try to understand their perspective but I still can't agree with them.

 

[EndJstifiesTheMeans]

Its impossible to date me now, because i think only about my unrequited love

If was before i fall in love, yes definitly, i like my look and personallity

 

[アホペンギン]

No, I'm disgusting and I'm a horrible person, never in a million years.