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sserafim

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Sep 13, 2023
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If you just want to "do it" with no emotional attachments I would suggest a prostitute, male, female, whatever you are into. Sex workers are used to dealing with all kinds of people - this is from my own experience. Most are kind and gentle people. If you want to back out - you can. There are no commitments except you have to pay for their time, it is their job after all. I have heard of sex workers who have clients coming in just to get a hug or talk.

You should not get emotionally attached right now with someone expecting a relationship. especially if you are struggling mentally. Focus on your own needs. That is what I feel would be best for all parties.
I'm into guys; I'm not into girls. Are there really male prostitutes? Where do you find them? Would they be down to do it with a woman? Is there a difference between just doing it and doing it with emotional attachments?
If you're into music, you'll find plenty of guys ready to bang it out in clubs and festivals. Go see an artist you really like and guaranteed someone will hit on you. That's the way I would do it.
What about concerts?
Don't do that. I lost my virginity to a POS who I didn't vet very well. I'm not ashamed of no longer being pure, but I definitely have been negatively affected by that experience.

Also, all of the people ITT suggesting you should meet a guy through here, that one other forum, or any forum for that matter, is doing you a great disservice. Men on web forums (it really doesn't matter which one) tend to be unhinged. And unhinged men never respect women's boundaries.

Wait until you meet someone special in real life. And use a dildo in the meantime.
Anything from the Vixskin line is good.
Where and how do you meet guys in real life? I only know guys from high school
 
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Camper

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Where and how do you meet guys in real life? I only know guys from high school
Ideally, in coffee shops (located in college towns preferably) and social events (cooking classes and whatnot count). People from high school are also fine, I suppose. Regardless of where you meet someone, it's important to get to know them first. Not only as a safety precaution, but also because douchey men tend to be awful/selfish in bed.
 
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StillBreathing

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Dec 4, 2022
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I'm into guys; I'm not into girls. Are there really male prostitutes? Where do you find them? Would they be down to do it with a woman? Is there a difference between just doing it and doing it with emotional attachments?

What about concerts?

Where and how do you meet guys in real life? I only know guys from high school
There are all kinds, even trans people and couples offering services. You can easily find them online but since it's illegal in many countries I can't post any sources here.

Edit: from my experience it is easy to get emotionally attached. But an escort will most likely try to avoid this. You should too, don't see the same person several times if you are paying them.

I gave up dating for a while (bad breakups one after the other). The best advice I can give you is do not enter a romantic relationship when you are struggling mentally, it can really make things so much worse and it will hurt everyone involved.
 
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sserafim

머리 아프다
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There are all kinds, even trans people and couples offering services. You can easily find them online but since it's illegal in many countries I can't post any sources here.

Edit: from my experience it is easy to get emotionally attached. But an escort will most likely try to avoid this. You should too, don't see the same person several times if you are paying them.

I gave up dating for a while (bad breakups one after the other). The best advice I can give you is do not enter a romantic relationship when you are struggling mentally, it can really make things so much worse and it will hurt everyone involved.
I'm into cis guys and I don't want to do it with a couple. I would do it with two guys though. Guess I can find a guy from SS dating 🤣 jk. I don't want a romantic relationship; I just want to try the deed before I die
 
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any urban/metro bar or club. plenty of horny drunk dudes who will likely even be willing to do a quickie in the bathroom stall.

if you're in the US, you can fly to las vegas. they have legal brothels and you can purchase a service.
 
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StillBreathing

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I'm into cis guys and I don't want to do it with a couple. I would do it with two guys though. Guess I can find a guy from SS dating 🤣 jk. I don't want a romantic relationship; I just want to try the deed before I die
Find a nice guy who treats you well and knows your intentions. I'm a guy and we do often think with our dicks unfortunately - you might end up getting hurt emotionally with some drunk guy just looking for action. Don't know any better advice to give than that unfortunately 😬
 
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sserafim

머리 아프다
Sep 13, 2023
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Find a nice guy who treats you well and knows your intentions. I'm a guy and we do often think with our dicks unfortunately - you might end up getting hurt emotionally with some drunk guy just looking for action. Don't know any better advice to give than that unfortunately 😬
I don't want to get emotionally attached to anyone and I don't think that I'll get hurt emotionally. I'm just looking for hot sex with a hot guy. I'm curious about what sex feels like. Where do you find a nice guy who treats you well and knows your intentions?
 
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Love and sex both take time, the act and also finding the right partner. Just a friendly reminder that the largest sex organ in a human is the brain.

Talking from a lot of experience, timing and also sometimes a lucky right place at the right time situation.

Take one's time and have fantastic memories forever. It has been 50 years, but I can still remember the 1st time with a warm glow.

I am dead serious, no joking with me on this matter.

Good luck, you are a wonderful, kind and such a good-hearted soul that you will be just fine.

Walter
 
StillBreathing

StillBreathing

Student
Dec 4, 2022
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Love and sex both take time, the act and also finding the right partner. Just a friendly reminder that the largest sex organ in a human is the brain.

Talking from a lot of experience, timing and also sometimes a lucky right place at the right time situation.

Take one's time and have fantastic memories forever. It has been 50 years, but I can still remember the 1st time with a warm glow.

I am dead serious, no joking with me on this matter.

Good luck, you are a wonderful, kind and such a good-hearted soul that you will be just fine.

Walter
The first time is definitely something special and should be shared with a good person.
 
Guy_Smiley

Guy_Smiley

Just another lost soul
Jan 4, 2024
353
I don't want to get emotionally attached to anyone and I don't think that I'll get hurt emotionally. I'm just looking for hot sex with a hot guy. I'm curious about what sex feels like. Where do you find a nice guy who treats you well and knows your intentions?

I'm sorry to say, but the only place you'll find a hot guy who's into no-strings-attached sex and is also nice and treats women well and is attuned to your intentions is in a gay bar.
 
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sserafim

머리 아프다
Sep 13, 2023
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I'm sorry to say, but the only place you'll find a hot guy who's into no-strings-attached sex and is also nice and treats women well and is attuned to your intentions is in a gay bar.
Why can't straight guys be like that?
 
sserafim

sserafim

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I think it's because we're afraid people might think we're gay.
Oh, well, I don't like any guys except for my crush. Anyways, I heard that attractive and successful white guys usually go for white girls, not Asian girls. Why is this the case? It seems like I have no chance with my crush then 😭 he's out of my league. If only I were successful too…
 
Guy_Smiley

Guy_Smiley

Just another lost soul
Jan 4, 2024
353
Oh, well, I don't like any guys except for my crush. Anyways, I heard that attractive and successful white guys usually go for white girls, not Asian girls. Why is this the case? It seems like I have no chance with my crush then 😭 he's out of my league

Where did you hear that? It's not true at all. Of course, I don't know whether or not your crush likes Asian women, but if he doesn't, it's certainly not because he's an attractive, successful white guy.
 
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sserafim

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Sep 13, 2023
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Where did you hear that? It's not true at all. Of course, I don't know whether or not your crush likes Asian women, but if he doesn't, it's certainly not because he's an attractive, successful white guy.
I heard it on Reddit lol. All the alpha (white and other race) males go for white women, and the beta males go for Asian women. The Asian woman settles for them, as she could do much better. The Asian gal is usually way out of the white guy's league. Anyways, I won't settle for anyone who isn't my crush. I won't settle for less
 
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Guy_Smiley

Guy_Smiley

Just another lost soul
Jan 4, 2024
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I heard it on Reddit lol. All the alpha (white and other) males go for white women, and the beta males settle for Asian women (or rather, the Asian woman settles for them). The Asian gal is usually way out of the white guy's league. Anyways, I won't settle for anyone who isn't my crush. I won't settle for less

Don't listen to the red-pill incel misogynists on Reddit or anywhere else on the internet. They speak utter nonsense.
 
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Unicr0n

Unicr0n

Stuck in a black hole...
Mar 26, 2024
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I find it a bit offensive that we're applying the asexual label to an individual who desired to have sex with a male. That is not asexual.

There's also a bit of racism going around here with these stereotyping posts.
Oh, well, I don't like any guys except for my crush. Anyways, I heard that attractive and successful white guys usually go for white girls, not Asian girls. Why is this the case? It seems like I have no chance with my crush then 😭 he's out of my league. If only I were successful too…
Your crush already basically told you no by ghosting you and then dating someone else.

Hikikomori are often enabled by someone else in the house. I'm sorry to hear that is your situation. I have been active in furthering research and the spread of awareness of it as it begins to spread in the USA.
 
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Guy_Smiley

Just another lost soul
Jan 4, 2024
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I find it a bit offensive that we're applying the asexual label to an individual who desired to have sex with a male. That is not asexual.

But she said she only wants to do it out of curiosity and because it's on her bucket list to lose her V card. I guess maybe she's more agnostisexual?
 
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sserafim

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But she said she only wants to do it out of curiosity and because it's on her bucket list to lose her V card. I guess maybe she's more agnostisexual?
I want to do it because I want to know what it's like. Anyways, I think that I actually used to be a lesbian lol. I grew out of it though I think. I was attracted to the female body (like boobs and stuff), but I only want to have sex with a guy (for PIV)
Your crush already basically told you no by ghosting you and then dating someone else.

Hikikomori are often enabled by someone else in the house. I'm sorry to hear that is your situation. I have been active in furthering research and the spread of awareness of it as it begins to spread in the USA.
My crush and I used to be like friends/acquaintances though. We would talk on Instagram. I don't know he stopped talking to me but it coincides with the time that he got a girlfriend
 
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Unicr0n

Unicr0n

Stuck in a black hole...
Mar 26, 2024
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I want to do it because I want to know what it's like. Anyways, I think that I was actually a lesbian when I was younger lol. I grew out of it though I think. I was attracted to the female body (like boobs and stuff), but I only want to have sex with a guy (for PIV)
Sexually attracted to boobs? I think a female's body is aesthetically appealing and had like fifty posters of Megan fox on my wall when I was a kid. But I didn't get like. Wet from it. XD My autism brain just latched onto her cuz Transformers and she's pretty.

PIV isn't enjoyable unless you yourself are aroused/wanting. Otherwise it's just gonna tear, and it's just gonna hurt. I've seen too many rape victims bleed like crazy as a Victim Witness Volunteer. Trying to stick the speculum in there ends up with them crying in pain every single time. Even that little cotton swab makes many girls with tears in their vagina hurt.

Don't have sex unless you can make your body aroused. Just don't do it bruh. Only 25% of women can even orgasm from vaginal stimulation.
 
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RemainingDubious

RemainingDubious

Most men only receive flowers at their funeral.
Feb 18, 2024
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It's on my bucket list before I die. I don't know or talk to any guys irl (I used to talk to my crush (from high school) but he ghosted me 😭), and I don't have experience with the opposite sex or even relationships at all. I went to a women's college lol.
Didn't you want to keep your virginity? Is there a reason for this sudden change? i hope it's solely your decision. Realistically it would be best for someone to actually care about you. i've heard numerous males express that they don't care if they satisfy a woman as long as they satisfy themselves 🤦🏻
 
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sserafim

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Didn't you want to keep your virginity? Is there a reason for this sudden change? i hope it's solely your decision. Realistically it would be best for someone to actually care about you. i've heard numerous males express that they don't care if they satisfy a woman as long as they satisfy themselves 🤦🏻
I'm just curious about what it's like
Sexually attracted to boobs? I think a female's body is aesthetically appealing and had like fifty posters of Megan fox on my wall when I was a kid. But I didn't get like. Wet from it. XD My autism brain just latched onto her cuz Transformers and she's pretty.

PIV isn't enjoyable unless you yourself are aroused/wanting. Otherwise it's just gonna tear, and it's just gonna hurt. I've seen too many rape victims bleed like crazy as a Victim Witness Volunteer. Trying to stick the speculum in there ends up with them crying in pain every single time. Even that little cotton swab makes many girls with tears in their vagina hurt.

Don't have sex unless you can make your body aroused. Just don't do it bruh. Only 25% of women can even orgasm from vaginal stimulation.
Yeah I think I so? I used to have to avert my gaze whenever I saw cleavage; otherwise my face would feel hot. Now I don't even look at it, and I don't feel anything at all. I think this attraction went away. Even though I hate being female and having boobs myself, I think the female body is aesthetically appealing as well. I also used to have girl crushes but I only like guys now, and I only like one (my crush lol). I just wanted to lose V card to check something off of my bucket list. It seems like sex is a universal experience that everyone ends up having eventually. I want to try it before I die. I think I'll probably reconsider though. I heard that it hurts but only the first two times. The only person that I want to do it with is my crush but he's taken…
 
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RemainingDubious

Most men only receive flowers at their funeral.
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I'm just curious about what it's like
Since curiosity killed the cat. Do you really want to know what it could it do to your pussy? 🤔😂

i imagine they'll be hundreds if not thousands, possibly even millions of guys that will want to have sex with you. It would be a better experience to find someone who cares about what you want more.
 
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sserafim

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Since curiosity killed the cat. Do you really want to know what it could it do to your pussy? 🤔😂

i imagine they'll be hundreds if not thousands, possibly even millions of guys that will want to have sex with you. It would be a better experience to find someone who cares about what you want more.
Yeah sure, why not? I only want to do it with my crush though, but sadly he's taken. I'm so sad that I missed my chance to do it with him
 
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RemainingDubious

Most men only receive flowers at their funeral.
Feb 18, 2024
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Yeah sure, why not? I only want to do it with my crush though, but sadly he's taken. I'm so sad that I missed my chance to do it with him
Does he know how you felt about him? He could be settling if assumes you're not interested.

You still want to ctb right? If so maybes just tell him. How would you feel if someone denied you a choice you'd of loved because someone wrongly assumed?

What have you got to lose especially when wanting to ctb anyway. The potential embarrassment or whatever will only be temporary in the bigger picture.

i personally think you should just be you and express yourself. If people have a problem that's their problem. At least you were keeping it real.
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
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Oh, well, I don't like any guys except for my crush. Anyways, I heard that attractive and successful white guys usually go for white girls, not Asian girls. Why is this the case? It seems like I have no chance with my crush then 😭 he's out of my league. If only I were successful too…
Literally over half of my dad's sisters all married white guys: one married a half-Chinese, half-Filipino guy and the other married an Indian but the other three all have white husbands. It's way more common than you think especially when the white guy is actually successful and into nerdy stuff. It's possible your crush doesn't find Asian women as attractive but I highly doubt it or maybe he's just focused on his current girlfriend.

Asian males on the other hand are usually only ever desired by other Asian girls (who either don't know any better or purposely settle for someone who makes over seven figures) or by girls from other races who are specifically only looking for Korean men because they watch Korean dramas and listen to their music so good luck if you're not Korean in that respect. 🫡
 
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sserafim

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Literally over half of my dad's sisters all married white guys: one married a half-Chinese, half-Filipino guy and the other married an Indian but the other three all have white husbands. It's way more common than you think especially when the white guy is actually successful and into nerdy stuff. It's possible your crush doesn't find Asian women as attractive but I highly doubt it or maybe he's just focused on his current girlfriend.

Asian males on the other hand are usually only ever desired by other Asian girls (who either don't know any better or purposely settle for someone who makes over seven figures) or by girls from other races who are specifically only looking for Korean men because they watch Korean dramas and listen to their music so good luck if you're not Korean in that respect. 🫡
From his girlfriends that I know of, the first one was European and the current one is Turkish. He's interested in Asian society and culture though, but maybe not the people?
 
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