NSFW Where can I find a guy to do it with?

[sserafim]

It's on my bucket list before I die. I don't know or talk to any guys irl (I used to talk to my crush (from high school) but he ghosted me ), and I don't have experience with the opposite sex or even relationships at all. I went to a women's college lol.

 

[cupcakesandmilk]

Sanctioned Suicide

 

[sserafim]

Sanctioned Suicide

Lol. Forreal?

 

[cupcakesandmilk]

Lol. Forreal?

I mean, there's a partners megathread lmao.

 

[psp3000]

I assume male escorts exist but I do not know if they are heterosexual or bisexual at all as they aren't talked about much in media or documentaries ?

 

[sserafim]

I mean, there's a partners megathread lmao.

That's for suicide partners not what I'm talking abt haha

 

[cupcakesandmilk]

That's for suicide partners not what I'm talking abt haha

I know, haha; it was my terrible attempt at a joke, lol.

 

[sserafim]

I know, haha; it was my terrible attempt at a joke, lol.

Oh lol

 

[psp3000]

I assume male escorts exist but I do not know if they are heterosexual or bisexual at all as they aren't talked about much in media or documentaries ?

(the ones that are heterosexual or bisexual that is/I only usually hear about homosexual male escorts in documentaries and media)

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

 

[EvisceratedJester]

Maybe you could try downloading one of those dating apps and see if you can find someone on there to hookup with. Usually there are a bunch of thirsty people on those apps.

 

[TheGoodGuy]

R.I.P your inbox.

 

[sserafim]

R.I.P your inbox.

Lol. Actually no one has messaged me yet

Maybe you could try downloading one of those dating apps and see if you can find someone on there to hookup with. Usually there are a bunch of thirsty people on those apps.

I don't want to use dating apps, I don't want my face or info on it. I don't want strangers knowing about me, I value my privacy a lot. Thanks for the idea though

 

[TheGoodGuy]

Lol. Actually no one has messaged me yet

Really? I would assume if a woman asked guys for s*x they would be lining up I sure would be willing if I lived closer lol and I bet other members would too. But as already mentioned just create a Tinder profile and you will be getting some in no time, I remember creating a female profile on there many years ago with a picture of an average looking girl to see how the other side was and it was insane how many offers you get.

I don't want to use dating apps, I don't want my face or info on it. I don't want strangers knowing about me, I value my privacy a lot. Thanks for the idea though

ups didnt see that message though

 

[LevUwU]

Fr fr just need me my boyfailure nerd himbo

God forbid women do anything..

 

[sserafim]

Fr fr just need me my boyfailure nerd himbo

God forbid women do anything..

Wdym

 

[LevUwU]

Wdym

I mean I get you, I need a bf so bad

 

[hot]

Male escorts and the internet would come up to my mind. Or you try your luck with 18 year old men with mommy issues, they would usually take any woman straight away haha

 

[Oliver]

It really shouldn't be a problem if you are an average looking woman or even a little below average. Men are usually not that picky.

 

[restless.dreams]

Maybe a bar?

Fr fr just need me my boyfailure nerd himbo

Try a comic convention, plenty of nerd boys there

 

[EvisceratedJester]

I don't want to use dating apps, I don't want my face or info on it. I don't want strangers knowing about me, I value my privacy a lot. Thanks for the idea though

Depending on which type of app you download you could just use some random picture of anything and then sext them for a bit before revealing your face. You won't really need to reveal any info about yourself, besides maybe which city you live in. You could even use a fake name. You could then just meet up with them somewhere. I've done that before (it wasn't on an app specifically for dating though). We didn't end up doing anything due to us both being nervous at the time.

 

[sserafim]

It really shouldn't be a problem if you an average looking woman or even a little below average. Men are usually not that picky.

I'm above average lol. People say that I'm pretty. I had a chance to do it with my crush when we hung out, but I didn't due to the 'tism

 

[Meteora]

Yeah I d go to a bar, too. You don't even need to talk much you know. And if it is a little bit dark and people have had some alcohol..... that should be no problem. It is good you care about your safety and privacy, though.

I'm above average lol. People say that I'm pretty. I had a chance to do it with my crush when we hung out, but I didn't due to the 'tism

Thought so. I find Asian ppl in general attractive. One more reason it shouldn't be a problem to find anybody.

 

[MyChoiceAlone]

I'm above average lol. People say that I'm pretty. I had a chance to do it with my crush when we hung out, but I didn't due to the 'tism

just go to any populated area and act dumb

 

[LevUwU]

This thread greatly worries me, not you OP you go girl

 

[Alexei_Kirillov]

@sserafim I'd be cautious if I were you. I'm in your same demographic (23 year old woman, no romantic experience, virgin, potentially on the spectrum) and even though I crave touch, I'm not planning on losing my virginity before I die because sex generally tends to be a bad deal for women, and that's even more so the case for first times. In all likelihood if you do it with a rando (or even someone you kind of know) it's not going to be pleasurable and will in fact probably be painful, and you might just end up feeling gross and used. There's also a high chance you won't be able to enforce boundaries and say no to doing things you don't want because of your inexperience and vulnerability. You could also attract some creeps who fetishize virginity.

Those are my considerations at least. I'd rather wait until I meet the right person and do it in a safe environment where I feel ready and trusting, or not do it at all.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Uh, sorry if this seems rude to say but aren't you asexual? I'll admit I don't really get the asexual community sometimes. Unless you're joking because I'm sure it'd be pretty easy for you to get some as others have said. Only question is whether you'd be able to do it safely but there aren't really any ways to guarantee that.

 

[sserafim]

just go to any populated area and act dumb

Lmao

 

[MyChoiceAlone]

of course you can always dress up in your sexiest outfit and stand in a parking lot. but the hazards there are you may get bitch slapped by another trying to make a living

but in all seriousness, sex may be on your bucket list but it won't be the same unless you have emotional feelings for the other

 

[sserafim]

Uh, sorry if this seems rude to say but aren't you asexual? I'll admit I don't really get the asexual community sometimes. Unless you're joking because I'm sure it'd be pretty easy for you to get some as others have said. Only question is whether you'd be able to do it safely but there aren't really any ways to guarantee that.

I actually don't know lol. I think that I was sexually and romantically attracted to my crush, but I didn't seize my chance to hook up with him. I didn't realize it. Sadly he has a gf now