Discussion What would you do/feel seeing somebody using SaSu (real life, spotted in the wild)

[MapleS]

So like how would you feel about a random somebody sitting by your using SaSu. Would you do something?
Would something change if that would be a minor?

 

[lamy's sacred sleep]

So like how would you feel about a random somebody sitting by your using SaSu. Would you do something?
Would something change if that would be a minor?

i'd probably try to talk to them, if the situation allowed for it

 

[eggsausagerice]

Would you do something?

i'd whip out my phone and show them my follower count /j

probably mention that i recognize the site and try to talk to them. if that person was a minor, i might feel out of my depth since i don't talk to kids that often since going to college. i don't know how i would try to navigate bringing it up in a way that isn't cringy or patronizing.

 

[Mooncry]

Personally, I wouldn't want someone to say anything to me about it if they happened to see me on SaSu, so I'd probably just act like I didn't see it. I especially don't interact with minors, so that wouldn't change things. The most I'd maybe do is inform a parent or guardian if they happened to be nearby. Otherwise nope. Not my responsibility to be someone's therapist when I'm barely holding it together myself.

 

[microwaved_dawg]

I would talk to them, nice to see we are both on the same boat. Maybe follow his profile hahaha.

 

[perishsong]

I don't think I'd do anything - I wouldn't know how to approach them. Chances are, they could see me browsing SaSu as well. If they were a minor, I wouldn't do much but I'd be more stressed about it.

 

[lamy's sacred sleep]

i'd probably try to talk to them, if the situation allowed for it

cause i use sasu all the time in public just without the logo and having someone pro choice talk to me would be pretty nice

 

[TheLastGreySky]

That's a good question because I'm 33, so I wouldn't talk to someone I assume is under 18 unless it was appropriate (retail store cleric etc) but in the case that someone is suicidal... I feel like there is an obligation to reach out but, with all the factors involved (everything from how you imagined they would see you talking to them to where you are in public) I don't know what I would say... I think the only thing I could say is "Hey I'm sorry, but I noticed you have Sanctioned and I really feel compelled to tell you that things get better." But of course... I know some members here would be pissed off if someone told them that. I just think it's a better option than "Omgs you wanna ctb? Like, me too~ "

I'm now obligated to pursue recovery so respectfully my outlook has changed a lot since a month ago.

 

[Macedonian1987]

Few days ago while I sat in a restaurant and waited for my food to get cooked, a random waiter saw me using SaSu. He probably never heard about the website before, but I'm 100% sure that he read the name of the website in the top banner (I use a bigass Z fold phone, and this phone with it's big screen offers little privacy) When he saw me he didn't say anything. He just gave me a weird stare, and when he brought me the food and when I paid him, he gave me the weird stare again and again.

 

[eggsausagerice]

He just gave me a weird stare, and when he brought me the food and when I paid him, he gave me the weird stare again and again.

waiters don't even say "did you enjoy your meal?" anymore, they just give you the pro-life stare lol

i remember i accidentally had a sasu tab open on my laptop (you can see the name even when the tab isn't open). would've been a bad situation to have to explain. i think i was just checking my inbox.

 

[TheCallOfTheStars]

I'd probably show mild concern and ultimately move on with my day. I MIGHT talk to them, but ultimately I'd try to respect their decision and not bother them about using SaSu in public.

 

[BeyondSurvival]

If they're not a minor, I'd actually love to talk to them, because people here seem to understand me the most. But I'd probably be a little hesitant, since I'm not sure how they would react.

 

[itsgone2]

No way I'd say anything to them. Based on comments people have made on this site, I know I live near two members. I bet one is ten minutes away, tops. I haven't said anything to either. What's the point.