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Shouldn't @avaruus's name be crossed out, is it a mistake, my memory failing?


Yes it was crossed out. But now it's not. This worries me.

Please don't tell me what i think it is, that would be too cruel.
There was a bug that uncrossed a lot of users for some reason, your memory is correct
 
ijustwishtodie

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Shouldn't @avaruus's name be crossed out, is it a mistake, my memory failing?


Yes it was crossed out. But now it's not. This worries me.

Please don't tell me what i think it is, that would be too cruel.
There's a glitch where the users who should be crossed out aren't crossed out or at least don't appear to be crossed out
 
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I am sorry if this is wrong to say, but I have noticed this for a while now with crossed out members who have been gone for a while now and somehow are uncrossed or back? I have wanted to say something about it without getting in trouble. This isn't something that is recent, I've noticed this for years now with multiple accounts especially people I got to know and followed.

I sure hope it's a glitch or whatever cause if it's other people who somehow got access to their accounts then that'd just be completely disrespectful. If and I know it's a big if, again I am sorry, but the thought of other people using former members accounts who have passed away then that's messed up and wrong. I hope I'm wrong about it, but this isn't something recent.
 
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Oh god, scary thought but are the dead coming back in some kinda spiritual way to release their souls into their sasu accounts?
🙉🙊🙈🧟

Better start making🧂 protection circles
This isn't a joke and I'm not laughing. I may sound paranoid but I know what I am talking about. If what I said is true to some degree, then how would you feel if someone else had access to your account full of your personal troubles after you passed?
 
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People are allowed to have their accounts restored, being crossed out doesn't mean they are dead.
But what about those who most definitely passed away, others who got banned due to breaking the rules, even former scammers profiles are now uncrossed.

@Jean4, @Deafsn0w, @BPD_LE, @About_to_Go, @Moonicide, @Stan, @Dani Paradox, @LetzteAusfahrt, @Rex - who was a mod when the site first launched, @motel rooms, … I'll keep this going.


Plenty of scammers: @Vaughn, @Harriet, @x_LittleAmy_x, @BipolarGuy, … etc. etc.

How is that okay?
 
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It's still crossed out for me?

But what about those who most definitely passed away, others who got banned due to breaking the rules, even former scammers profiles are now uncrossed.

@Jean4, @Deafsn0w, @BPD_LE, @About_to_Go, @Moonicide, @Stan, @Dani Paradox, @LetzteAusfahrt, @Rex - who was a mod when the site first launched, @motel rooms, … I'll keep this going.


Plenty of scammers: @Vaughn, @Harriet, @x_LittleAmy_x, @BipolarGuy, … etc. etc.

How is that okay?
i have to question if those people actually would have access to the use of their accounts and its not just aesthetics, if its still crossed out on the mods side.
 
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i have to question if those people actually would have access to the use of their accounts and its not just aesthetics, if its still crossed out on the mods side.
Valid question. Nevermind the members who didn't get banned for breaking any rules, the fact that plenty of former scammers profiles are uncrossed should be enough reason to be concerned.
If you had just looked at the posts before yours you would have had the answer for those.
I did see it, but like I said if you haven't seen my post either is that this isn't something new that you guys just discovered. I've seen this for years now including with scammer profiles.
 
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Valid question. Nevermind the members who didn't get banned for breaking any rules, the fact that plenty of former scammers profiles are uncrossed should be enough reason to be concerned.

I did see it, but like I said if you haven't seen my post either is that this isn't something new that you guys just discovered. I've seen this for years now including with scammer profiles.
youve noticed this for years and youre concerned about it? did you bring it up when you first noticed it or just now because other people have?
 
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youve noticed this for years and youre concerned about it? did you bring it up when you first noticed it or just now because other people have?
I've brought it up before with Marquis whenever he was here but never got a response. So I didn't think nothing of it until I kept seeing former scammers profiles getting uncrossed and just now I feel safe to voice my opinion on the subject only cause others mentioned it.

-Appreciate the laughing emoji, I didn't know it was so funny.

lol. I guess you guys are okay with former scammers coming back and if anything else that I mentioned is even partially true then I guess it's a-ok for complete strangers to use your own account also. It's so damn funny, gee wow.
 
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But what about those who most definitely passed away, others who got banned due to breaking the rules, even former scammers profiles are now uncrossed.

@Jean4, @Deafsn0w, @BPD_LE, @About_to_Go, @Moonicide, @Stan, @Dani Paradox, @LetzteAusfahrt, @Rex - who was a mod when the site first launched, @motel rooms, … I'll keep this going.


Plenty of scammers: @Vaughn, @Harriet, @x_LittleAmy_x, @BipolarGuy, … etc. etc.

How is that okay?

I just checked all the members you have mentioned and they all show up banned and crossed out to me. I think the mods can see them crossed out but you cannot. The issue has been reported and I hope it can be fixed soon. Don't worry, scammers and other rule breakers won't be back. Neither do members who have passed away. If someone comes back claiming the account we're careful to verify everything.
 
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@sickofbeinghere self-banned, but does anyone know whether they are ok offsite? I feel like she ctb (or was locked up in a ward). There was another user, that was going to take SN and then call an ambulance immediately afterwards. I think they might've ctb too (or locked up in a ward).

I heard @akana ctb, does anyone know what happened for sure?
I just checked all the members you have mentioned and they all show up banned and crossed out to me. I think the mods can see them crossed out but you cannot. The issue has been reported and I hope it can be fixed soon. Don't worry, scammers and other rule breakers won't be back. Neither do members who have passed away. If someone comes back claiming the account we're careful to verify everything.
Ah yes, I was wondering about this, I noticed it right away with @Marktheghost . I figured it had to be an all crossed out users forum bug.

I see people who self-banned with crossed out names, but everybody else is uncrossed.
 
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I just wanna check that @Myforevercharlie hasn't been prematurely driven to CTB or check themselves into a psych ward after they finally snapped due to a certain infamous user on here making a repetitive thread tens of thousands of times.

In all seriousness I hope you're ok and didn't get de-moderator-ed for your very understandable comment that many of us agree with 😁
Sorry not sure if you're a he or she, or maybe you prefer they/them 🤷
 
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I just wanna check that @Myforevercharlie hasn't been prematurely driven to CTB or check themselves into a psych ward after they finally snapped due to a certain infamous user on here making a repetitive thread tens of thousands of times.

In all seriousness I hope you're ok and didn't get de-moderator-ed for your very understandable comment that many of us agree with 😁
Sorry not sure if you're a he or she, or maybe you prefer they/them 🤷
I saw her recently on the online mod list, so neither of them.
 
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I just wanna check that @Myforevercharlie hasn't been prematurely driven to CTB or check themselves into a psych ward after they finally snapped due to a certain infamous user on here making a repetitive thread tens of thousands of times.

In all seriousness I hope you're ok and didn't get de-moderator-ed for your very understandable comment that many of us agree with 😁
Sorry not sure if you're a he or she, or maybe you prefer they/them 🤷
😃 I'm here.
 
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@sickofbeinghere self-banned, but does anyone know whether they are ok offsite? I feel like she ctb (or was locked up in a ward). There was another user, that was going to take SN and then call an ambulance immediately afterwards. I think they might've ctb too (or locked up in a ward).

I heard @akana ctb, does anyone know what happened for sure?

Ah yes, I was wondering about this, I noticed it right away with @Marktheghost . I figured it had to be an all crossed out users forum bug.

I see people who self-banned with crossed out names, but everybody else is uncrossed.
I think a few people know what happened to @akana but won't post that publicly because it's very painful for certain people.
 
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I would like to know too, I knew quite a bit about Akana but not how they passed away.
 
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Dear ijustwishtodie, Myforevercharlie,not-tobe-the-answer and Suicidebydeath,

Thank you for caring enough to wonder where I am. It is honestly touching to know that someone cares.

I am going through a really rough few weeks where it feels like a battle between life and death. I have been on the site, bit to be honest haven't had the energy to write. Following a couple more overdoses over the past few weeks (did not reach out for medical support though) and a determination to stay alive for my children feels like an impossible dream. I even reached out to the community mental health team (therapy finished weeks ago) and agreed to be referred to the specialist trauma clinic (and apparently there is a wait of up to 2 years for this hospital)! And the mental health team are unwilling to offer more than another 8 therapy sessions (1 per month) unless I agree to work with their nurses and my GP (who let me down badly) - I refused as I am not going to lie and say that I will engage with other services when I wouldn't. A good friend of mine also died on Mother's day. Basically life has been crap. That feeling of utter isolation, rejection and loneliness really hit me after the last two overdoses. Yet my children need me and somehow I have to live on. Often I thought about trying to share how I felt on this forum and yet I feel like I depress other people when I talk about my feelings and that is the reason that even the NHS are unable to handle me. Hence I thought that I will just keep quiet.

But when I saw that someone here actually wondered where I was, I felt less alone. And Thank You for that.
 
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Dear ijustwishtodie, Myforevercharlie,not-tobe-the-answer and Suicidebydeath,

Thank you for caring enough to wonder where I am. It is honestly touching to know that someone cares.

I am going through a really rough few weeks where it feels like a battle between life and death. I have been on the site, bit to be honest haven't had the energy to write. Following a couple more overdoses over the past few weeks (did not reach out for medical support though) and a determination to stay alive for my children feels like an impossible dream. I even reached out to the community mental health team (therapy finished weeks ago) and agreed to be referred to the specialist trauma clinic (and apparently there is a wait of up to 2 years for this hospital)! And the mental health team are unwilling to offer more than another 8 therapy sessions (1 per month) unless I agree to work with their nurses and my GP (who let me down badly) - I refused as I am not going to lie and say that I will engage with other services when I wouldn't. A good friend of mine also died on Mother's day. Basically life has been crap. That feeling of utter isolation, rejection and loneliness really hit me after the last two overdoses. Yet my children need me and somehow I have to live on. Often I thought about trying to share how I felt on this forum and yet I feel like I depress other people when I talk about my feelings and that is the reason that even the NHS are unable to handle me. Hence I thought that I will just keep quiet.

But when I saw that someone here actually wondered where I was, I felt less alone. And Thank You for that.
I just shake my head at how life is. I'm sorry you have to go through this. 😥 I hope things can get better. 🤗
 

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