Tinder and Social Media make me feel suicidal also
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Meditation guide
Always was, is, and always shall be.
- Jun 22, 2020
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Here is something you need to realize. Women are not all alike. Just as you would never lump every single person of for example one race into the same exact mold and way of thinking, you cannot take 50% of the human race and put them all in the same basket and say they all think alike due to being programmed by nature to all like the same things.
It would be like saying all white men like to twerk due to nature programming them that way.
Women are varied in how they think just like men are.
If I said men inherently want someone passive who does what they are told would you believe that also?
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In general women don't want a weak desperate man. Obviously there's exceptions
Meditation guide
Always was, is, and always shall be.
- Jun 22, 2020
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I don't know how you get your ideas. If a man behaves in an obnoxious way they may have a problem. Or if a man is stalkerish or scary. I don't think of it as "weak desperate" I think of it as not acting right. As in not taking no for an answer, going to her work all the time, calling her too much, following her around, being too aggressive.
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DeathBySuicide
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- Nov 30, 2020
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If Tinder is making you feel worse, I would recommend you stop using it. Maybe try some other dating sites? That could help you
I'm simply going off the op.. did he say he was stalking girls on tinder? His quote was after they talk to him they disappear and he's desperate for love.. no offense to the poster but desperation is a sign of weakness.. granted if he's expressing it by being aggressive as a means to compensate than I can see how it wouldn't appear as being "weak" from a woman's perspective.. but at it's core it's a symptom of low self esteem etc..
Either way, he needs to start loving himself and figuring out why he brings value to a relationship instead of just pleading for someone to accept him
Internet dating is ruthless and the dating world is an unforgiving place.
I'm sadly too ugly for success on or in either (so don't try at all and stay lonely) but I watch so many people get hurt so much by both.
I feel for them.
I'm sadly too ugly for success on or in either (so don't try at all and stay lonely) but I watch so many people get hurt so much by both.
I feel for them.
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Don't try to find love there. All women there are rotten, yet they have unlimited demand. Because there are more guys on the app.
Don't try to become a jester to get women, it doesn't work. Find women elsewhere.
I say this from experience. My jester tactics went so desperate that I'm a pure clown now and I'd like to disappear completely.
But that's not possible so suicide comes into my mind.
Brick In The Wall
2M Or Not 2B.
- Oct 30, 2019
- 25,159
Dating in general nowadays is terrible especially during this pandemic heh. Dating apps are one of the few ways left to show interest without getting fired or #MeToo'd, sad fact.
Marriage rates are at an all time low, cheating and hedonism are on the rise. Dating isn't the fairytale bullshit they sold you when you were a kid.
Marriage rates are at an all time low, cheating and hedonism are on the rise. Dating isn't the fairytale bullshit they sold you when you were a kid.
You can be metood, if you do certain things on dating apps. Or even worse, if you become delusional from too much booze, you can write ridiculous stuff on dating apps which makes anyone suicidal.
Edit: Afaik, marriage rates go down because of divorce industry.
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Brick In The Wall
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- Oct 30, 2019
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I'm not sure I get where you're coming from with that last part. Dating in general is rough on anyones emotions, especially anyone already suffering from depression.
The whole #MeToo thing has killed cold approaching for men in the real world. Which is why I'm saying that dating apps are basically the only "safe" way for men now.
NightmareTour
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- May 13, 2020
- 398
Unfortunately Tinder and other dating sites are designed in a way that has everyone chasing after the top 10% in terms of physical attractiveness of their preferred gender, and ignoring everyone else. Almost nobody is making their choices based on who they would actually date or be attracted to if they met them in real life. How you do on dating sites doesn't reflect on your worth at all, and honestly they're just all around bad for people's self esteem, mental health and love life. They're made to bring in money from boosts and subscriptions, not actually help people form relationships.
I just don't get the logic of how these apps work. Meeting someone based on physical appearance isn't going to give you any information on the person, and if you're just rapid swiping based on how they look how can you ever really meet somebody? I have found that how attractive somebody is to me is very much based on how I feel about them. People are always more beautiful when you love them.
@Brick In The Wall I get the whole metoo thing in a work setting especially when one of the people is in a place of power above the other, but is this actually affect your day-to-day life if you're walking down the street or at the store and you see somebody you would want to approach? Personally, I would probably feel a little harassed if my boss was like "if you hook up me I'll give you a raise", but if some guy walks up to me on the street and says "hey do you want to go get a cup of coffee or something?" I wouldn't feel harassed. I would honestly be quite flattered if I got any attention nowadays lol.
@Brick In The Wall I get the whole metoo thing in a work setting especially when one of the people is in a place of power above the other, but is this actually affect your day-to-day life if you're walking down the street or at the store and you see somebody you would want to approach? Personally, I would probably feel a little harassed if my boss was like "if you hook up me I'll give you a raise", but if some guy walks up to me on the street and says "hey do you want to go get a cup of coffee or something?" I wouldn't feel harassed. I would honestly be quite flattered if I got any attention nowadays lol.
Brick In The Wall
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I don't believe in fraternizing with coworkers as it's always a terrible idea. I do believe it's having a real effect on how men approach women outside of work. There have been multiple studies recently proving it.
Men are also far, far, less likely to propose marriage now. But I believe that's a symptom of modern culture and not directly correlated.
They're not safe for me. Screenshot is bettter evidence than verbal one. And not in criminal, but reputational way.
Saying bs on dating apps is main reason why I'm suicidal.
E: Metooers get more evidence from internet dating than from normal ones.
Brick In The Wall
2M Or Not 2B.
- Oct 30, 2019
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Oh, I've said my share of stupid things to women. I'm not worried about reputation or ego. Criminal charges will not just put your ego in check, they'll stain your record, and drain your finances.
So yea, people can think whatever they want of me. As long as I'm not criminally liable lol.
Saying delusional things to women is not criminal, but it will destroy your reputation and make you suicidal.
Unless you manage to change your idenity completely. But that's not availabe to us. I wish that was.
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That's quite sad to be honest. Also, I would like to think that's why people don't approach me anymore but I think it's a combo of having kids and I'm old now. Oh well people can kiss my old butt if they can't see past that.
Meditation guide
Always was, is, and always shall be.
- Jun 22, 2020
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I don't know what a "metooer" is. The me too movement is about women being sexually assaulted. It's very common.
I would feel not too comfortable with a man approaching me and asking to go somewhere with me. That's just me, maybe other women would welcome it. It has nothing to do with the me too movement, as no sexual assault has taken place at that stage.
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And about making stuff up, too. If there is no evidence, then no one cares, but if you are a normie pervert with picture evidence...
Meditation guide
Always was, is, and always shall be.
- Jun 22, 2020
- 6,089
Let me explain, you are more likely to be metood from solid evidence than from word-against-word-evidence.
From internet dating it is more likely that they can record actual evidence.
Meditation guide
Always was, is, and always shall be.
- Jun 22, 2020
- 6,089
If you commit a crime and someone has it recorded then yes you will be more likely to be arrested.
As much as we can call dating a crime.
But criminal intent is often inferred from legal interaction, you know, escpecially, in metooera trials.
However that doesn't affect me since I'm not a normie. Poor normies...
When I was in Thailand there were hundreds of go-go girls everywhere. The main issue brought up by the people who had been there to the area once or twice before.. was determining which of them were the females, I guess depending on your preferences...
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Frauw
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- Oct 31, 2020
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