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disabledlife

disabledlife

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Jun 5, 2020
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Sorry if I disturb people on this forum, I react hotly, faced with an immense anger that makes my head boil. All my excuses.

I just did my shopping, I don't have a car and I find it difficult to get around, since I have a disabled person's card, I can show it to jump queues.

At the checkouts of my usual store, there are no checkouts reserved exclusively for disabled people, but only a priority checkout but allowing everyone to go there.

Only here, I am always obliged to show people that I am handicapped so that they leave me room at the checkout.

However, today, an elderly person, bourgeois type, well made up, well dressed, the type of person who tends to beat down anyone who is not in their upper social class, asked me: "Why are you showing me this card? " yelling, and I showed him the handicapped priority checkout logo.

Then she yelled at me saying that she had already let people pass and that she only had three items, when there weren't that many people in the checkouts.

Since there was a crate that opened next to it, she quickly ran to this crate almost in front of everyone and continued to stare at me!

How often to be handicapped is to be despised. Asking for a seat on the bus is the same, there are people who despise you, look at you out of the corner of their eye pretending to ignore you, in the elevators of the metro, it's the same.. .

Sometimes I want to CTB very violently in front of everyone, but instead I say, because I want to yell to empty my bag, express my anger:

"Shitty society, shitty country, which gave birth to me, if you hate the handicapped so much, why don't you ever legalize euthanasia and even less eugenics.
Inclusion of different people, so promoted by the law, my ass yeah!"

In my country there are so many children created just for parents to receive money and public benefits from my country, a country that only thinks of procreation, only of the family, does not help single people without children, a legacy of World War II fascism! It is the only developed country to have a fertility rate significantly higher than any other country.

And now, for lack of control, many people are born disabled, abandoned, born under x (the only country in the world to allow this, in defiance of the child to know his origins, but parents are kings), grow up either with bad parents, or in social services which are hotbeds of crime, violence, drugs, because the country has abandoned these services, there is a lot of corruption, but censorship is king, except when the UN s invite to condemn. Once adults, these abandoned children end up alone, unemployed, disabled, in psychiatric hospitals, in prison, in institutions, drugged...

They prefer to do anything with procreation, control nothing, give money to parents according to the number of children, prohibit suicide, and any form of right to die in dignity, in a peaceful way. That way, there are plenty of sheep that will consume, feed the corrupt capitalist system. A disabled person is profit for big-pharma, the institutions... But for a disabled person, the costs are not so high because it is the country's aid that will pay, therefore the taxpayer, who will not not hesitate to tell the disabled person that it is expensive for society. But the person never asked to be handicapped.

Quantity rather than quality, ie people who will be able to live well, and if there are people that society considers useless, see waste, such as the disabled, they put them aside, marginalize, ghost on social networks, forget, ignore, instead of helping them die!

Society is cowardly not to take responsibility for bad births and people with bad childhoods, especially when asking for CTB peacefully or asking for euthanasia!
 
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In trying to understand this situation it could be helpful to know if your handicap is siomething that people can see, like a wheelchair, or not. Knowing the kind of disability could be a factor in helping how you present this to others, to try to avoid confrontation.
 
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Unfortunately it can't be seen, that's why I have a map. And even sometimes other people whose disability is visible, a cane for example, it bothers!
 
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It might be helpful to know more about what the disability is and how it makes being in line longer more difficult for people to know what to suggest to help.
 
disabledlife

disabledlife

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Difficulties in breathing, pain in standing, the risk of discomfort...

I had an extra infection, not to help.

Maybe I had to say this, but I was too tired, losing my balance, the only thing was that I was leaning on a barrier next to the cash register to relieve myself. I let it go, she should have let me pass, on simple presentation of the card.

Besides, why did she stare at me when she waited after rushing to the checkout next door? Those stares are contempt, right?
 
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Difficulties in breathing, pain in standing, the risk of discomfort...

I had an extra infection, not to help.

Maybe I had to say this, but I was too tired, losing my balance, the only thing was that I was leaning on a barrier next to the cash register to relieve myself. I let it go, she should have let me pass, on simple presentation of the card.

Besides, why did she stare at me when she waited after rushing to the checkout next door? Those stares are contempt, right?
I think the issue is that unfortunately there are a lot of people who get fake disability cards just for their convenience, and they are assuming that you are someone like this since they can't see your disability. In the u.s. anyway, many able bodied people, for instance, get fake handicapped stickers so that they can park closer. So, sadly, this is the key problem I think. Maybe carrying a cane and explaining that you have problems with balance could help them understand. I know you shouldn't have to, but the people with fake cards are ruining this situations for you is how it seems. It might be a good idea to give people a short explanation, they then may go out of their way to help you, at least in a lot of cases. But in some cases they may not believe you because there are so many scammers out there. It's a tough situation, but most people would have no issue if they understood.
 
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It's a very interesting explanation. I find it very serious that valid people take advantage of fake disabled people's cards and stickers to benefit from advantages given to disabled people who really need them.

We must punish the counterfeiters, consider this as a crime, because, by force, real disabled people go CTB, even violently!

In Europe, the cards are apparently sophisticated, there are numbers, QR code, photo... It's more difficult to reproduce.
 
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I understand why you would be so angry. That sounds like an incredibly frustrating situation to be in, there is already enough suffering in this world without other people making things worse for us. But of course procreation is the true horrific thing, those people are unbelievably selfish and denying people peaceful ways to leave this world means that existence is so prison like.
 
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Sorry to hear about your bad experiences, I don't think excuses should be made for anyone who treats disabled people with suspicion and contempt. Nobody should have to announce their medical history to a bunch of strangers every time they queue up somewhere just because their disability isn't visible, the whole point of the card is to avoid scenarios like that. Even if some people fake disability cards it still doesn't have a big impact on a country's economy.

I don't know what country you live in, but the UK's spending on disability is below average yet there's still the widely held view that disabled people are a drain on the economy and that's one reason for the huge increase in hate crimes online and offline, (another reason is that people are assholes). In some cases disabled people have had to quit their job and become reclusive because they can't travel to work or leave their house, not because of their physical health but because they're facing violence when walking down the street, sometimes even their support animals are attacked and hospitalised. In many cases hate crimes and discrimination can be more disabling than the physical health problem itself.

www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/m000rh4p via @bbciplayer
 
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