Help please help me choose my CTB outfit

[parasytes_]

I like C because the cardigan captures my attention, but I think A flows better and is still pretty cute!

 

[MrAsclepius]

A looks like a nice fall night on the docks.

 

[letmeseethedeath]

the first pic is cool, i like it. i wish you the peace you deserve. i also have OCD and my life is falling in peace

 

[Philip]

I like C :)

 

[cantbe]

I like B. Then I had a breakdown because no one else chose B & I was like "why am I so different?"

 

[Theregoesthatidea]

I like the pink cardigan from A, but i think overall B looks nice

 

[ghostspace]

Agree. I don't understand, someone is going to commit suicide and asks what to wear. There are a lot of youth in this forum.

hey. fuck off.

1. not for attention, I have plenty of people who care about me and give me attention.

2. on this site, people talk about where they're going to CTB, when they're going to ctb, why they want to, what their last day will be spent doing, what their last meal will be.

caring about things like that doesn't mean a person isn't going to ctb or isn't sincere.

3. I LIKE being in the world, I care about things and have interests and hobbies. that alone isn't enough to make my life worth living but I think it's incredibly judgmental and downright ignorant to assume someone is young/to serious about ctb just for planning what they'll be wearing when they die. young people have plenty of reasons to ctb, there's no need to invalidate a person's feelings or life experiences just because of their age.

A person is allowed to take comfort in things such as clothing. I want to feel like myself and feel at home when i leave this earth.

Another thing worth mentioning again is that one of the reasons what I wear matters a lot to me is because I have debilitating OCD among other mental illnesses and being 'perfect' in certain ways completely overrides other priorities.

 

[Ghost2211]

hey. fuck off.

1. not for attention, I have plenty of people who care about me and give me attention.

2. on this site, people talk about where they're going to CTB, when they're going to ctb, why they want to, what their last day will be spent doing, what their last meal will be.

caring about things like that doesn't mean a person isn't going to ctb or isn't sincere.

3. I LIKE being in the world, I care about things and have interests and hobbies. that alone isn't enough to make my life worth living but I think it's incredibly judgmental and downright ignorant to assume someone is young/to serious about ctb just for planning what they'll be wearing when they die. young people have plenty of reasons to ctb, there's no need to invalidate a person's feelings or life experiences just because of their age.

A person is allowed to take comfort in things such as clothing. I want to feel like myself and feel at home when i leave this earth.

Another thing worth mentioning again is that one of the reasons what I wear matters a lot to me is because I have debilitating OCD among other mental illnesses and being 'perfect' in certain ways completely overrides other priorities.

That made me smile. Awesome self assurance! I hope you're feeling better today.

 

[Hazelnut]

Hello Ghostspace!
I really love the outfit A. Don't know why, but it seems really comfy for me!
Have a nice day, and thank you for the smile too

 

[ghostspace]

thank you all so much for your help!!! I'm going to go with A if the weather isn't too cold and C if it's more chilly. I love, love, love B but the neckline is a bit too wide and slips off my shoulders, which might be a little distracting. *:･ﾟ✧ ✧ﾟ･:

I'm feeling a lot better. I had to sleep and cry for a few days but I'm back now and in good spirits! ♡

 

[-Focusedarkness-]

A definitely! I wish you luck. Whatever you chose I hope it makes you happy.

 

[ThrownAwayTom]

thank you all so much for your help!!! I'm going to go with A if the weather isn't too cold and C if it's more chilly. I love, love, love B but the neckline is a bit too wide and slips off my shoulders, which might be a little distracting. *:･ﾟ✧ ✧ﾟ･:

I'm feeling a lot better. I had to sleep and cry for a few days but I'm back now and in good spirits! ♡

Glad you're in good spirits! I like outfit C the most, but you'll know on the day. Fuck anyone who says you can't post this here - some people can't decide on stuff like this, especially when it's the last thing you'll ever wear. Some people wouldn't have anyone else to ask.

 

[Lady black]

I like it that I´m not the only one that cares about the last outfit. CTB is a happy thing like a wedding or a birthday, so you should be dressed fine

 

[ronigail9]

I died in my favorite outfit, and the paramedic cut my $200 sweater right down the middle, and I inherited it as a present in my paper bag "suitcase" in the hospital. ITs been a year and IM still NOT over it

 

[Ghost2211]

I died in my favorite outfit, and the paramedic cut my $200 sweater right down the middle, and I inherited it as a present in my paper bag "suitcase" in the hospital. ITs been a year and IM still NOT over it

Thats a good point to make. They will destroy your clothes to get to your chest if you're coding. Sorry for your loss

 

[Masonfight]

Looks like I'm the only one that would choose B

 

[FatalSystemError591]

I think A is very pretty and poetic.

 

[Throwmyselfaway]

all are great choices but a looks the best

 

[LastFlowers]

I am ugly so I wouldn't be caught dead in something cute (literally). But I like B.

thank you so much, you're so nice, thank you ♡
thank you guys.

im so upset for my family because i love them and there isn't a way i can make it easier for them once I'm gone. thanks for helping me with this, it was so hard to think about.

im on a new med that's clearly not working but for those who messaged me mean things, please stop, I'm not thinking clearly right now and am really not okay so please just stop

What are people messaging you? About the frivolity?