Men of SaSu, have you been able to fulfil your duties as a man/ will you be able to fulfil your duties as a man before ctb?

[OblivionOmitted]

I don't like the idea of other people telling me what my duties are, but yeah no I don't have a wife and I have no kids, but that's okay in my opinion. I'm lucky enough to have a girlfriend, and I'm super grateful for having her, even if it's just an online relationship.

Honestly I'm proud of everything I've accomplished in life so far, so if I were to CTB tomorrow, I think I'd be fulfilled. Somewhat at least.

 

[TooConscious]

Absolutely disgusting you would consider creating a life when intending to end your life.

Or even if you were gonna chance creating a kid so it makes 'YOU' feel better.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

What "duties" are you talking about?

 

[Georg]

I am ugly so ofc I failed in life.

 

[unnormal9]

What the fuck?

I agree but I don't think society will

This thing cannot be serious.
Who the fuck gives a shit whether they agree or not, especially with something like that.

 

[Kerrtu]

Sorry- not a man but I feel like I've done an enormous service to our race, the planet AND my potential child by not bringing them into this world! I don't think my genes would have made them very happy. I would have given them an upbringing similar to mine- in which they were polite and respectful of people- so they likely would have been walked over. They no doubt would have inherited my shy, unhappy genes and I'm hardly a stable role model for anyone. I'm not in a financially stable enough position to support them either. I think it would have been a disaster for me to have had children!

That said- I'm truly sorry for you if those urges are there for you. I think I'm just too repulsed by this world and our species to think it would be a good thing to contribute in upping our numbers. Especially with my own flesh and blood! I love them too much to not want to risk bringing them into this.

I guess I'm always curious when people do want children. I guess it's a natural drive. Are you happy and grateful to have been born though? I guess some people aren't but they know just what to put right to ensure that their children have a good life. I just don't get it though- sorry!

Not a man either - have I fulfilled my "womanly duties" ie reproduce? No, and I'm still glad I chose to have my fallopian tubes removed. I knew from an early age I didn't ever want to bring a person into this world. Years prior to the fallopian tubes being removed, I did become pregnant though I chose to have an abortion. If I didn't, I'd have a 15 year old son or daughter now.

Wish my parents thought more carefully when they decided to have me. They had 2 already but just had to have another one…and for what? To abuse and exploit.

I remember before I chose to abort, my mother was trying to persuade me not to, because she wanted another grandchild. Another living accessory.

No way.

 

[J Peace]

It seems to me that most men in the world I am in are depthless dipshits who essentially do the following:
-Enter this world
-Become confident
-Create waste so they can feel productive
-Emit a reckless amount of carbon
-Die

(coming from a 30 year-old man)

Fuck the "duties of a man".

Here's some duties:
-Help others enjoy life more
-Be a good steward of our planet

If your goals are to have a successful career and be a father, then all you are is a selfish robot, doing what your consumeristic surroundings imply you should do. Grow a pair of frontal lobes and then tell me what a real man is.

 

[Das Nichts]

The only duty you have is the one to yourself. Make the most out of your life with stuff that brings you joy.

Forget about the crap that society wants you to do.

 

[Superdeterminist]

I don't consider myself to have any "duties", except maybe the duty of leaving this horrible existence (lol). What I have are desires. And those will probably remain unmet (that's the reason why I think existence is horrible).

 

[TheSpookyNameGuy]

You haven't failed anything, stop worrying about "Natural Duties" as a man. You do not need a family or children.

That sounds like a hard way to live piled ontop of feeling suicidal etc.

 

[Wowser]

No, it's over for me. Too much brain damage from a decade of depression + neet life.