There are many good guys in this forum that are receiving this "men are evil" bullshit from people like you, and some may believe it and feel guilty and worthless for it. We should learn to speak up
I can get that. I feel like that sometimes, this collective guilt. Generalizing is not a good thing, I agree, and sometimes it's hard to read between the lines and see that is not all men that get hated, but, you know, the real assholes who think they are superior for the sole fact they have been born with a hose.
But in the end, you have to ask yourself: Am I the target of this vitriol? Have I hurt this person, or the people they represent? If the answer is no, then you're probably not in the line of fire here.
When I say I dislike misandry, and sexism in general, I'm always targeting the ones which diminish other sexes as inferior, and think theirs is superior and thus deserve more than others.
All that said, I think it's a more systemic issue that goes beyond men. It's more about the status-quo than anything. Be it men, women, white, black, whatever, people want to ensure their safety in power, and finding other that think, look and act alike to help has always been a way to do it. Patriarchy is that with men.