Venting it depresses me how misandry is so normalized.

[Lady_V]

I'm a man, just not an incel like you guys. Get well

Is it true? Do you really get bombarded with "men are evil" bullshit on this site?

 

[IncrediblePal]

Unrelated to the 'discussion' going on here but here is one of my colonist from Rimworld with Misandrist trail. She keeps starting social fights with the male colonists and hospitalizing them lol

 

[martyrdom]

Is it true? Do you really get bombarded with "men are evil" bullshit on this site?

Not enough of it, but I'm doing my part!

 

[iamanavalanche]

I can't say what I think of you, because I would get banned, but be sure I won't cry when I read your goodbye thread

you complain about misandry but act like the man we dont want to be around. women just dont like pricks.
hearing women speak get you guys aggressive and defensive and misogynistic as shit lmao no wonder women avoid you and you go cry about it online. BE BETTER!!! LISTEN TO WOMEN!!! STAND UP FOR THEM!!! then women will actually feel okay with being in a room with you.

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

There are many good guys in this forum that are receiving this "men are evil" bullshit from people like you, and some may believe it and feel guilty and worthless for it. We should learn to speak up

I can get that. I feel like that sometimes, this collective guilt. Generalizing is not a good thing, I agree, and sometimes it's hard to read between the lines and see that is not all men that get hated, but, you know, the real assholes who think they are superior for the sole fact they have been born with a hose.

But in the end, you have to ask yourself: Am I the target of this vitriol? Have I hurt this person, or the people they represent? If the answer is no, then you're probably not in the line of fire here.

When I say I dislike misandry, and sexism in general, I'm always targeting the ones which diminish other sexes as inferior, and think theirs is superior and thus deserve more than others.

All that said, I think it's a more systemic issue that goes beyond men. It's more about the status-quo than anything. Be it men, women, white, black, whatever, people want to ensure their safety in power, and finding other that think, look and act alike to help has always been a way to do it. Patriarchy is that with men.

 

[DistraughtWolf]

Damn, Ralsei really be spitting and starting a riot

 

[luvpup]

...

hey arent you the guy who saw some boy post about being freshly 18 and wanting some person to come find them and have sex with them and do whatever they want to him before he kills himself and replied saying "why isnt it ever chicks that post this" ? LMFAO

i reported the post just because of your weird ass comment and the thread got taken down otherwise damn i wish i would've had that screenshot of you saying that right now ughhhh. but i know mods know so i really dont care LOL literally like 2-3 days ago..

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

Or maybe, just maybe, it's the men you choose to surround yourself with are scumbags?

Or maybe they chose to be scumbags? And maybe less men should act like scumbags so that less people point it out? I'm doing my part.

 

[Arvayn]

 

[Unbearable Mr. Bear]

Sounds like you're a bad judge of character, so maybe do better.

I am not responsible for other's actions. Others choose to do as they want. To think otherwise is to deny their individuality, and their free will.

So, what your saying is the only real type of misandry is the type that effects transmen (woman)? So in other words you're saying that woman are the primary victims of misandry? Wow gentlemen, we can't catch a break can we. Lol

I'm really curious where you got that from.

 

[Lady_V]

hey arent you the guy who saw some boy post about being freshly 18 and wanting some person to come find them and have sex with them and do whatever they want to him before he kills himself and replied saying "why isnt it ever chicks that post this" ? LMFAO

 

[martyrdom]

Yeah, jokes are supposed to be funny.

The funny part being? LMAO

 

[iamanavalanche]

Yeah, jokes are supposed to be funny. But I doubt you'd know anything about humor. You're too busy trying to clean cat piss out your carpet then trying to find a sense of humor.

okay, nonce

 

[rs929]

you complain about misandry but act like the man we dont want to be around. women just dont like pricks.
hearing women speak get you guys aggressive and defensive and misogynistic as shit lmao no wonder women avoid you and you go cry about it online. BE BETTER!!! LISTEN TO WOMEN!!! STAND UP FOR THEM!!! then women will actually feel okay with being in a room with you.

I avoided discussing with you because you sound really angry and I would hate men too if I were you. But I'm sorry for what you've been through.
Again, I never deny that misoginy and violence towards women exists, I just deny patriarchy as a sociological concept which is a completely different story.

 

[KlMeNw]

Or maybe they chose to be scumbags? And maybe less men should act like scumbags so that less people point it out? I'm doing my part.

Sounds like you're a bad judge of character, so maybe do better.

hey arent you the guy who saw some boy post about being freshly 18 and wanting some person to come find them and have sex with them and do whatever they want to him before he kills himself and replied saying "why isnt it ever chicks that post this" ? LMFAO

i reported the post just because of your weird ass comment and the thread got taken down otherwise damn i wish i would've had that screenshot of you saying that right now ughhhh. but i know mods know so i really dont care LOL literally like 2-3 days ago..

yes,.you totally dont look like a psycho right now...

 

[rainwillneverstop]

Thread has been locked and there's unfortunately warnings to both sides being handled out

Obviously everyone has their own experiences and traumas, but that's never a reason to dismiss what other people are going through.
Just because people from one group has been hurt, does not mean that other people in that group does not suffer.
onstant trivializing and sexual from either side will not be tolerated.
Men and women have struggles which make them suicidal, and they should not be expected to justify or prove them to other people.