I don't think you're being honest with me or with yourself. But it doesn't matter, you won't change my mind, and as I said, it's a matter of perspective. For example, I've been social isolating myself for some 5 years. Some people isolate themselves for 6 months and can't take any more of it and kill themselves. Hardcore hikikomoris have been doing this for decades. Just because they can, doesn't mean it will work for anyone else.
Honestly the main reason I, despite being an incel myself, shy away from the larger incel community is having to keep track of all the terminology.
Guess you could say I'm blackpilled then.
Onlyfans? No
Yes, leaving the angry, lonely and insecure men alone (and only dating the already well-off) will do wonders for a society. I'm sure they'll gather confidence and security on their own from the complete lack of affection and the computer screen. What could ever go wrong?
I don't remember when I saw that, but someone created a "Gini coefficient" for both genders and surprise, women are far more egalitarian than men with regards to relationships (which means men are either incels or chads and women aren't like that at all). That's modern society.
So why is it your girlfriends responsibility to dispel your unhealthy view about sex. Maybe you should fix it yourself by idk, not obsessing over it constantly. I literally gave my entire being to this dude to try to build up confidence he had over his penis size, his body weight and everything. But really what should have been fixed was that he didn't obsess over sex so much. Anyways im to tired to deal with a raging incel, you may go back to 4chan and your hentai now.
Exactly, maybe if incels didn't chronically masturbate hours each day and bask in their self loathing, maybe the dopamine dependency in their brain would return to normal and they wouldnt be so hypersexual, and perhaps not have a unhealthy view of sex or expect women to act like a tragic hypersexual pixy from an anime. Try nofap fam, reset your insatiable libido so you can idk not care about sex like a true chad. (yes he taught me the 4chan lingo too)
I do nofap several times every day.
Some people have a tendency to generalize vastly from anecdotal experiences. You know, let me tell you about this black guy that I went to school with...
Is this an issue about being insecure? Or is this an issue about feeling like you need sex to exist and basking in your self loathing over the importance of sex. No girl should have to deal with that. Alot of trauma women have is already sex-based, and that can fuck someone up really bad. I personally wouldn't care if a guy is insecure Id date him, now if he's insecure and angry and bitter because of lack of sex sorry but that's major red flags for what he holds important in his life, which is his own sexual gratification.
That doesn't justify obsessing over it to an unhealthy extreme where you are literally spending money for escorts and porn numb nuts. Honestly if that is your sole motivator in life to reach self actualization and it seems the reason you want to cbt. I cant really say anything but feel pity that you consider it that much of an importance. Anyways I'm sure the onlyfans girls will capitalise on them. Incels make for the best type of customers in my experience. Oh and don't expect any girl to like you if all you are going to do is bitch about sex and how you don't get any. Maybe if you uh idk, went outside and stopped fapping to anime girls and actually knew how to talk to a girl without expecting her to act like a anime or movie trope you'd have better luck.
You're actually the one obsessing with sex here. @GenesAndEnvironment doesn't focus on that in his first post.
I have no idea who you think you're talking to. I am not one of your several ex boyfriends.
He self identified as an incel that's already at the point of obsession where you base your whole identity off of your lack of sex, sorry to break it to you bud.
