@Futile
I wonder what went wrong with me then. Sure, I can find relationships. You are right, males do have to take what they can get in general. But sometimes they end up biting off more than they can chew end up up with someone like me. Then they begin to hate me, or just can't put up with my shit anymore. One of the fun things of everything I've been diagnosed with, toxic explosive anger. I like to think I'm not a bitch, but there is a stigma around people who have BPD and are bipolar. I have no grip over my emotions, and I don't blame the people who can't handle it. I've only ever dumped one dude. The rest of them left me.
I'm sure I'm not the only women who has relationship problems such as myself. We shouldn't generalize just because society in general is the way it is. Some of us truly do want more for this world and dislike the way it is. In a nicer way to put it, I was cruelly told that I'm a good sexual partner, but not the kind of girl to put a ring on. You have no idea how that feels as someone who doesn't just roll around in bed with anyone she finds cute.
I am sympathetic for people who genuinely cannot get relationships no matter what they do. But sex is just so fleeting, and will leave one feeling empty if they can't find someone who GENUINELY loves them. God knows I wish my relationships turned out to be more than just about the feeling they get out of sex.
I myself am probably average looking, I think otherwise, but I know there's people worse off. Why do people hate being with me? Because it's not my looks they find ugly. It's my mental problems. Been called crazy and insane too many times to count. It hurts, really. There are women who only want sex, and yea, it's brutal a brutal world that they reserve themselves for the better looking. I remember a few years back when I was on OkCupid, I turned down a good looking dude cause he immediately said he was not looking for a relationship. Right away a turn off. But to each their own, take what you can ever get, hopefully you don't regret it.
Sorry, I'm a bit of a rambler.
EDIT: More or less, I wish someone could tolerate me and just love me and everything I could bring to a relationship if they looked underneath what's been broken. It's hard, even if it's a different way, even people who can't get relationships should know the feeling.