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dilapidatedMind
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- Oct 1, 2020
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Why do people hesitate and others just go for it?
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I've been thinking about it for 10 yrs but it doesn't feel any easier.I think even those who just go for it and leap to their deaths were thinking about it a long time beforehand in order to circumvent the survival instinct.
I'm thinking of using a step ladder. It's lightweight. I'd park on the bridge and move quickly to the barrier. I don't think the bridge is very busy. Almost a 10 hr drive though. I'll be exhaustedI would probably hesitate, or even contemplate, unless it was a spur of the moment thing. Once I was walking across a motorway bridge to the train station to get a train to work and although I always looked over the edge of that bridge and imagined jumping, for some reason this time was different. All these thoughts went through my head, I was working for money that I was spending on a degree that I already knew I was going to fail, to try and impress people I hate in a system I hate and I was so sure I was going to jump, take a run up and just go, no hesitation... but then I realised the wall was too high and I was too fat and I got really upset because I just wanted to die so badly. I'm not sure I would have hesitated at that moment if it was an easy jump. Other times, I believe I would stand there for a few minutes just to feel the calmness before I'm gone.
The getting there part is easy. I drove to the Golden Gate Bridge once. I didn't go there to die but I was passively suicidal and couldn't get myself to do it. I'm worried this time will be the same.I would jump. Hell I made it to there so the decision was already made.
Changing your mind is just SI kicking in.I don't think I could ever make myself jump. Big phobia of jumping, falling, drowning, and just excruciating pain in general... I also want to be able to change my mind and not realize too late I did the wrong thing.
What if there's a barrier? You climb it and are left standing.It s better to not stood only run and jump
That changes nothing for me. When I do it, I don't want to be backed into a corner and forced to finish.Changing your mind is just SI kicking in.
Then live.That changes nothing for me. When I do it, I don't want to be backed into a corner and forced to finish.
Yes i will probably hesitateChanging your mind is just SI kicking in.
What if there's a barrier? You climb it and are left standing.
Then live.
How does one go from hesitation to actually jumping? That barrier is tricky.Yes i will probably hesitate
No it's not about jumping in your case. You'd have to rule out hanging among other methods too.LOL
So my only choices are jump or live? I didn't realize suicide was so black and white!
If high enough, it should be instantaneous. Still scary though.im afraid of the unknown, will i feel pain when hitting the ground or will i be knocked out instantly, its 104m enough height?
i need to go look at the cliff but its 1pm here now and it also costs £4.50 on the bus just one way... so if i change my mind it will be £10 on the bus.
i need to do things like have a bath, clean my room, sit with my grandmother for a bit, message my sisters i love them, i want to leave a really short simple blunt message as my fb status too, nothing that indicates anything, then I'd go.
or maybe a really cringey fb status like "i wish i was prettier, some days i wish i was her so then you'd love me, i wish didn't let anxiety consume me, i wish i was with him and accepted, i wish i had family and my own family, i wish to be settled, i wish i could turn back the clock and i wish half of you on here that are my fb friends would be real friends"im afraid of the unknown, will i feel pain when hitting the ground or will i be knocked out instantly, its 104m enough height?
i need to go look at the cliff but its 1pm here now and it also costs £4.50 on the bus just one way... so if i change my mind it will be £10 on the bus.
i need to do things like have a bath, clean my room, sit with my grandmother for a bit, message my sisters i love them, i want to leave a really short simple blunt message as my fb status too, nothing that indicates anything, then I'd go.
thats true, most days i wake up and think about ctb but i look at the weather and think meh too cold, too rainy, too windy.No it's not about jumping in your case. You'd have to rule out hanging among other methods too.
If high enough, it should be instantaneous. Still scary though.
Yes, true. I'm not planning on jumping, hanging, trains, or guns. But that doesn't mean I don't have a way out.No it's not about jumping in your case. You'd have to rule out hanging among other methods too.
What method is best for people like us?I would hesitate. I do want to die, but I lived the life of a coward always making excuses to not pursue what I truly wanted, this time it wouldn't be different.
Why instant death hard to accept?I'm not sure jumping causes instant death, in which case it would be quite painful whether you were hit by a car or drowned.
or maybe a really cringey fb status like "i wish i was prettier, some days i wish i was her so then you'd love me, i wish didn't let anxiety consume me, i wish i was with him and accepted, i wish i had family and my own family, i wish to be settled, i wish i could turn back the clock and i wish half of you on here that are my fb friends would be real friends"