This is absurd. Of course there are rules. They aren't explicitly written anywhere, but unspoken or unwritten rules are still rules.
I'm a man. What are you talking about
Huh? What does this even mean? Especially this:
I clearly stated I was using "you" in a general sense.
No, pronouns shouldn't have to be "earned". If you misgender someone because they haven't "earned" your respect, you're just transphobic. Correct me if I've misunderstood your point here.
I have no clue why you responded to me the way you did and I'm genuinely confused. All I said was it isn't right to generalize and that it makes sense for people being generalized to be offended by it.
Im going to make this clear to you.
Your views are different than mine and I do not need to change my CORE BELIEFS because you demand that I do so. You literally had the nerve to report me to the admin, yet you expect tolerance and acceptance? I am entitled to be who I am and that INCLUDES my beliefs. I have gender dysphoria, but did you ask? No. You assumed that because I believe what I believe that I'm some how transphobic. You're intolerant of anyone else's opinion other than your narrow minded perspective and it needs to stop.
I don't like you because you're a Karen who I've seen take a very aggressive and intolerant stance towards other people in regards to their religion and core beliefs.
Move.on and stop flaming posts for attention just
because I chose to be the bigger person and I refused to respond to you.
I've seen femcels, but not as many? I can't relate to men's struggles as much. Most men are AOK with me being unhinged as long as I'm skinny and somewhat decent to look at lmfao. The underlying issue I think for all parties is that MOST men I have met do not really care about my personality nearly as much as I care about theirs and their general habits.
I think we have more incel men because what they want from a relationship and what we want is very different. I don't care if a man is ugly, tall, etc. I do care if he doesn't match other criteria (Doesn't believe men should be able to perform basic living tasks, such as cleaning, for ex.). I also ironically find it hard to be attracted to a man who has extreme mental health concerns (which I have), which I think most people in the thread have kind of linked to being an incel. Women who aren't on the website can absolutely tell when you are struggling. Women might say, ew he doesn't shower, etc. The deeper you go into this depression and inceldom, the harder time you'll have finding a partner. Kind of ironic lmao
I think everything you said is very valid. Honestly men who only want you for your body are only going to be bad for you.
I think most incels are people who are shallow and refuse to believe that looks and hygiene are separate factors.
Not an incel perse anymore but permanently heavily influenced by them. I look OK now. I used to be a very ugly lady and 99% of my interactions with both sexes have been heavily altered by pretty-tying myself.
If you are the person in your pfp (in case it's a celebrity I don't know about) you look pretty, so do you mean you struggled with hygiene issues or just grooming expectations? You don't have to answer if you don't want to. The only woman I've dated that I would consider a femcel was a person who had no issues grooming but she did have to be reminded to shower because of being a little maladapted. Also, the only habit I found unattractive was she had a spit jar near her nightstand.
Other than really wild things like that, I hope you've managed to keep your autonomy. I feel like autonomy and social expectations are constantly at war with each other, and it's easy to have a mindset of extremely left or extremely right,
But neither one is exactly healthy. So while everyone should try to be the best version of themselves... No one should be uncomfortable within themselves or as themselves.
