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Chili

Chili

Member
Sep 27, 2023
81
Okay, so first and foremost I'm not an incel.
And actually the reason I'm asking is because I find most of the men on this site are incels.
So I'm just curious if the majority of people's wanting to CTB is because of lack of sex/being touched starved OR if that's just a more gender specific problem.
I've seen femcels, but not as many? I can't relate to men's struggles as much. Most men are AOK with me being unhinged as long as I'm skinny and somewhat decent to look at lmfao. The underlying issue I think for all parties is that MOST men I have met do not really care about my personality nearly as much as I care about theirs and their general habits.

I think we have more incel men because what they want from a relationship and what we want is very different. I don't care if a man is ugly, tall, etc. I do care if he doesn't match other criteria (Doesn't believe men should be able to perform basic living tasks, such as cleaning, for ex.). I also ironically find it hard to be attracted to a man who has extreme mental health concerns (which I have), which I think most people in the thread have kind of linked to being an incel. Women who aren't on the website can absolutely tell when you are struggling. Women might say, ew he doesn't shower, etc. The deeper you go into this depression and inceldom, the harder time you'll have finding a partner. Kind of ironic lmao
 
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SpinandPainr

SpinandPainr

Member
Jun 9, 2025
19
Not an incel perse anymore but permanently heavily influenced by them. I look OK now. I used to be a very ugly lady and 99% of my interactions with both sexes have been heavily altered by pretty-tying myself.