How long since the last time that you had sex with other person ?

[Into The Void]

2 days ago, I have a GF so no problem for me. But I was a virgin for a long time, I'm so glad she's in my life. I can't see us breaking up either.

 

[Mentalmick]

47 years.

 

[suffocatingseraphim]

Back in January, honestly I didn't really enjoy it. It was consensual at first, but, meh. He covered my mouth so I couldn't ask him to stop or slow down, I really didn't get any pleasure out of the whole ordeal so I left feeling kind of weird.

That was after not having slept with anyone since 2018, granted he was the same guy I did sleep with in 2018 once when we were stupid teenagers.

I'm starting to think I might be asexual or only attracted to someone I have feelings for haha

 

[Ninive]

yesterday, but my interest in intercourse is pretty limited these days.

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

2 days ago, I have a GF so no problem for me. But I was a virgin for a long time, I'm so glad she's in my life. I can't see us breaking up either.

Thanks for sharing man, that's awesome.

 

[MYStERY_Man]

It's complicated.

I'm 24 and I haven't had sex with opposite sex. But that's not why it's complicated.

Spoiler: Trigger warning, maybe

I have a cousin, a guy about the same age. He used to live in another city and come by during vacations. We were very young and started exploring each other, eventually it came down to sex. It was not until we were 11 that we realized we probably shouldn't be doing that, so we stopped.

Since then I've had 4 crushes, only girls, which never worked out.

In my last year of High School, I tried recover. Really pushed myself, increased my social circle tenfold, exchanged some kisses with random girls. But anhedonia made it feel like the effort wasn't worth it. Because of this experience I didn't even bother in college, now here I am.

So, technically, it's been 13 years, but I kinda feel like a virgin.

 

[D11FER]

2 years for me ! And to be honest don't miss it at all :) life gets complicated when sex is involved

 

[BluesRunTheGame]

Four bastard years.

 

[awfullife]

Friday. I paid an escort and she was really cool and sexy. Not a druggy at all. Plus I took a pill from sex shop for ED and have had frigging terrible headaches and muscle aches entire weekend. WTF. It wasn't worth it. I'm not taking one of those again. Sex was fine but 5 minutes after its over I just want it again.

 

[TowerUpright]

A week or so, with my spouse. Only because I have to. I don't really like it. I have to get my mind going to other places and use imagination to finish. Old crushes, etc. I honestly can't remember the last time I had sex with her and really be in the moment. If ever.

Last time sex was meaningful?? Decades, if at all. Sorry if this puts anyone down, especially people who can't seem to find an SO. But marriage and long-term commitments aren't always what they're cracked up to be.

 

[Marktheghost]

Never had sex. At this rate I never will.

 

[UterEntonaur]

About a year.... (pre-pandemic)

 

[LifeQuitter2018]

It's been about 27 years since I've touched a vagina.

Same here bro. Wish we could all join the Club 27.

 

[Rolliewoo]

Saturday, I enjoy orgasams but hate it when the person gets all needy and cuddly after.....I'm like id rather you left now

 

[PapaSuicide]

2019 august.

 

[Tkmiz_Tsukumizu]

Going on a date with a guy this weekend so maybe soon...

 

[Mentalmick]

I didn't notice the person bit, oh well, that's different, I have sex with animals all the time. Just this morning my favourite alpaca came over for a visit.

 

[Tkmiz_Tsukumizu]

I didn't notice the person bit, oh well, that's different, I have sex with animals all the time. Just this morning my favourite alpaca came over for a visit.

Did you tip it well.

 

[Mentalmick]

Did you tip it well.

But of course, they kick the crap out of you if you don't.

 

[sadbadpsychogirl]

8 years i think

 

[Adamsnolife]

A long time ago.

 

[Lupgevif]

Never did and at this point I won't bother trying to anymore.

 

[saltshaker]

Like 2 years, i'm not a bad looking dude but the chicks can just smell my anti-social aura, it is a turn off :)

 

[Unlucked]

November of 2020, I was doing escorting in order to pay for a surgery for my transition so it wasn't enjoyable and I think escorting made me practically asexual, anything sex related makes me feel sick now. I also had an abusive partner who body shamed me alot so I did it with random people just to feel desired. In the end though sex really doesn't feel good unless you love the person, at least that's how it was for me, it has always been a source of insecurity, and doing it with a whole bunch of unattractive business men and pretending to enjoy it for 250 a dude was probably the worst part. The money went to my school loans and surgery funds so its not like I was buying purses and shit like every onlyfans girl ever.

 

[TwoTenEightyEight]

I've never had any sex with other human being.

If not with a human, then what?

See, now I'm concerned.

Just a quick question, but just if you feel comfortable answering it

In my case, it's been 3 months (by the time she left me and the main reason of my depression)

I'm virgin; early 30s. It'd be very unfair for me to commit to anyone now, while being suicidal and such. I'd prefer to minimize collateral damage as much as I can; I'm already the bad guy (duh) as it is anyway.

 

[grungeCat]

If not with a human, then what?

If you insist so much...
my right hand

 

[Mentalmick]

If you insist so much...
my right hand

May God have mercy on our souls.

 

[grungeCat]

May God have mercy on our souls.

Amen.

 

[Luchs]

It is about a year ago for me. I'm not really looking for a relationship right now, and I don't really care about it that much right now to actively pursue it.

 

[Tkmiz_Tsukumizu]

It is about a year ago for me. I'm not really looking for a relationship right now, and I don't really care about it that much right now to actively pursue it.

ah meinenwerfer, great band..