I was 10 when I first had suicidal thoughts.
I suppose I do understand why something like an assisted suicide programme would be limited to 18+ adults (unless there are extenuating circumstances.) Similarly, why this forum is for 18+. I don't think we have quite the same coping mechanisms emotionally or knowledge when we're young as we do when we're adults. We can't always see a way out when we're a child. As we grow, I think we realise that we can sometimes escape certain situations (depending on our circumstances) and in other ways, we get better at knowing what is actually important to us. That is of course a very broad statement but I assume many of the other big decision making choices are allowed at 18 for a reason. So, I tend to agree with that as a standard for allowing easy(ish) access to suicide or method information.
The reasoning being that there may very well be alternatives that the child can't see. (More I'd argue when we are young. There will be more investment in helping the young I imagine and at that stage- at least for me, I felt like more doors were open.) The hope is that they make use of the support out there- hoping that there is indeed support for them rather than going straight for suicide.
In terms of a feeling though- that's where this is so sad. For me, ages 10-18 were the very worst of my life (to date.) I felt so desperately unhappy. So utterly trapped in my situation and so alone. That's the worst thing about all this. In denying children access to a place like this (which I do agree with) they are also denied access to a support system where they can tell people their problems and they will be actually listened to and sympathised with.
Children in particular desperately need this and if they're coming here and trying to stay here- that surely means they can't find this anywhere else! That's where our governments and parents need to step up- I feel. Children need a safe space where they can express their true thoughts and not be riduculed, dismissed, or treated terribly heavy handedly and carted off to a psyche ward. It really angers me in fact that they don't have this! They need to be free to express how they really feel and not be terrified of the consequences. That's a greater criticism of the whole world in general though. Suicidal adults quite often won't express their true feelings because they fear the consequences. That isn't going to solve anything!
As a thing though, it's sad- terribly sad. The worst in terms of a feeling I think because, we are genuinely vulnerable when we are children. We don't know all our options and we're likely alone. If we're unfortunate to have grown up around narcissists, sociopaths, we won't know they are! At the least, we'll be utterly baffled by their behaviour. At worst- we'll believe their gas lighting. We're believe it's our fault. And, that will follow us into adulthood. Plus, I have this suspicion that, once you've considered suicide as a legitimate option, those thoughts are always there as an option.
I guess the greatest difficulty I have is when I consider- were my suicidal thoughts at age 10, 13, 18, in my twenties, my thirties so very different to my suicidal thoughts now- at 44? The motive behind them changed I guess. But- were they illegitimate when I was a child? Of course not. No feelings are illegitimate! How can you deny what someone is feeling? I guess the issue is on when we 'should' be allowed to act on them and it be considered reasonable or rational.
I suppose the reasoning is- a child will likely only really know it's home environment, school, maybe a few social activities. If those are awful, of course the child will want out. I suppose the reasoning is that adulthood brings with it a bigger world to escape in to. I think the hope I suppose is that the person has tried more options before they leave. That assumes they magically want to though! I think that's something they ignore about suicidal people of all ages. Quite a few have simply lost all interest and motivation in life. With that attitude- just how well are they likely to do in life? How can someone be happy if they hate everything?!!