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sweetdrowning

sweetdrowning

living ghost
Jan 2, 2026
66
I'm just curious how many of you are logging in and out each time, clearing your history, or using private browsers. Personally I don't really make an effort to... I hide my entire identity here but on my computer its just logged in all the time.. I leave the tab open and go away from my pc because maybe the person I live with will see it. I think its something inside me that wants to believe I'm still cared about. I dunno.. Just curious.
 
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otium

otium

looking for the peace i crave
Aug 10, 2025
42
I personally use private browser, if if i do ctb, i would delete all passwords and accounts to this site.
 
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Spite

Spite

Nil Desperandum.
Aug 20, 2025
196
Yes, I do make efforts to conceal my use of this site as it is very taboo and I risk a lot if the people in my life were to find out I'm here.

I always use this site on a private browser separate from my main browser. I have very few people in my life both online and IRL, but nobody knows I post here. My presence here is kept a secret from my family and other online penpals.

If I were to CTB however, I personally don't mind if people found out I had an account here.
 
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kufajoy

kufajoy

Misfit
Nov 6, 2025
72
I use Samsung secure folder with a pass that no one can guess. I really don't want people find about what I gone through or this site at all after my death.
 
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lament.

lament.

the Immortal
Jun 28, 2023
223
Yes but I didn't used to until I screenshared with someone and without thinking went to google something, only for this site to show up first when I typed s.

They didn't notice or at least didn't say anything about it but since then I at least made an effort of making sure this site isn't in my browsing history.
 
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ScaredCutter

ScaredCutter

put a red heart if u love espoir city
Oct 16, 2025
151
always used a private browser and i try to go on at very late times to prevent suspiociusin. i dont save the account username + password anywhere, relying on remembering it myself. i copy n paste things that people tell me thats very helpful and information, neevr screenshotting it so nobody can try to find out where its from. i also try not to hint at using this site or saying anything relating to it. on my phone, private brave browsers get locked and ud need to unlock it with ur finger print to open it with the current tab/s.
 
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bluefeather177

drowsy in a dark room
Mar 2, 2023
38
No, because all of my devices are my own with my own accounts. I use a different username than on most platforms but not a totally unique one. Details like my pfp and title compared to the username would make it immediately obvious to close friends who I am. But I make very little effort to hide this forum.
 
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