Honestly, as previously mentioned, I think relationships can leave you even worse off. Being cheated on is worse than being a virgin in my opinion. Or having someone who appeared to be into you go hook up with someone else and leave you hurt and confused. Investing emotion into other people can have very bad results. I'm sorry if this is patronising, I know being alone and seeming to be forever is shit, I don't mean to belittle your feelings if it comes across that way, sorry.
BlackDragonof1989
Mage
- Jul 12, 2018
- 526
Me too <3
Oh isn't that the truth I realized I am not ready for one and it's a big reason I came here, well, precipitating one, it seems <3
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Pepega
Betaman
- Mar 2, 2019
- 101
Let's say I convince myself that i'm better off alone, then at 30 i have a sudden urge to get a partner, how the fuck i tell her i'm still a virgin
Ipassbutter
Member
- Feb 24, 2019
- 49
Not quite sure why you think you would have to tell someone. It's none of their business about your past sex life - whatever it may be.
Kyrok
Paragon
- Nov 6, 2018
- 970
Help_Me
Gene pool mistake
- Oct 21, 2018
- 516
GeorgeJL
Enlightened
- Mar 7, 2019
- 1,621
I just banged an escort tonight. Go online to find them. Trust me you don't want to mess around with the ones that advertise on the streets.
seekingoblivion
Arcanist
- Dec 11, 2018
- 454
It might but if you're a virgin cause you can't get laid (instead of don't want to ) you're not gonna be beaming with self respect.
What happened bro?
Quinlor
The stranger
- Feb 21, 2019
- 1,058
have same problem here...
I dated three times with a woman a friend of the spouse of my best friend. I liked her very much and I told about all my life, my depress and relationship problems and she seemed listen everything. I became emotionally attached to her. So in last date when I was less nervous she told me that she felt embarrassed when she was on my side. After that I stayed two weeks talk to her by text and when I finally told her that I was virgin she only said: you need to go see a doctor and she never talk to me again...
Since then I try to kill myself
I dated three times with a woman a friend of the spouse of my best friend. I liked her very much and I told about all my life, my depress and relationship problems and she seemed listen everything. I became emotionally attached to her. So in last date when I was less nervous she told me that she felt embarrassed when she was on my side. After that I stayed two weeks talk to her by text and when I finally told her that I was virgin she only said: you need to go see a doctor and she never talk to me again...
Since then I try to kill myself
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RememberWhatUCameFor
dont cry for me im already dead
- Nov 20, 2018
- 590
jesus christ thats a stupid reason to ctb
are you actually trying to find a girlfriend?
and btw once you lose your virginity you will realise that your problems are deeper because no mentally health human would have suicidal thoughts just because he cant get his dicks wet...im pretty sure you will be still unhappy even after finding a girlfriend
lol ...
are you actually trying to find a girlfriend?
- do you interact with women as much as possible?
- do you have the balls to escalate with a women and risk a rejection? if yes how many rejection did you received this month? im talking about real life here nd not a right swipe on tinder (something most men shouldnt use anyway)
- do you do something to be more sexually attractive (working out, dressing well, concentrating on money and education - and yes if youre ugly as the sin you might consider some surgery correction like hairtransplant if youre bald , its drastic but certainly less drastic then kiling yourself)
- you could also go to some poor countries in africa or asia for vacation - there is no big difference to prostition but the illusion is bigger and some guys are fine with it
and btw once you lose your virginity you will realise that your problems are deeper because no mentally health human would have suicidal thoughts just because he cant get his dicks wet...im pretty sure you will be still unhappy even after finding a girlfriend
lol ...
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Chinaski
Arthur Scargill appreciator
- Sep 1, 2018
- 3,131
Some absolutely premium content in this thread, been a while since we had one on this theme and I've certainly missed it.
Memento Mori
shambling garbage
- Jan 24, 2019
- 573
if you play with love you may burn yourself
having a gf with that mindset would mean it won't work out good anyways, it's easy to say but make peace with it and concentrate on yourself until that person hops in your life. that may happen anyways but like i said you may fuck up (or she if u took a bad gf just to have someone who 'wants' you at that time) and regret falling in love
there are bigger things to worry try to focus on them and think about the good things about being single if there are good things about it for you.
starting with a lie doesn't sound that good to me.
there's a difference between love and 'relationships' these days. in my opinion lying shouldn't be a normal process in a healthy and not stressful relationship, but it's more than daily business here
having a gf with that mindset would mean it won't work out good anyways, it's easy to say but make peace with it and concentrate on yourself until that person hops in your life. that may happen anyways but like i said you may fuck up (or she if u took a bad gf just to have someone who 'wants' you at that time) and regret falling in love
there are bigger things to worry try to focus on them and think about the good things about being single if there are good things about it for you.
starting with a lie doesn't sound that good to me.
there's a difference between love and 'relationships' these days. in my opinion lying shouldn't be a normal process in a healthy and not stressful relationship, but it's more than daily business here
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Bentley Goldman
OFFMYSELF
- Feb 13, 2019
- 28
It was one of the lowest points in my life ... I'll make a thread about it today or tomorrow
i got ya ^^
There is no stupid reason to ctb as we will all due and you just make it happen quicker.
Not having a gf usually goes together with not having a social circle and being ugly. Then a person can conclude that he should better kill himself than spend a large amount of time into improving his looks with no guaranteed result, and feeling depressed in the process, this is completely legit conclusion.
CoolGuy9
Mage
- Mar 5, 2019
- 524
It's more about really wanting that emotional connection with someone where you can just lie in the bed with someone and kiss them and hug them and have a really good conversation about all sorts of different topics and explore all of your and her different sexual interests, but thinking that you are a loser so you'll never get it and the closest is watching porn and other people be in a relationship. I don't really do anything about it, because in the last 6 years of trying to self improve, everything failed including my try to get a social life idea. I'm gonna try therapy soon and maybe then I'll become more social and mentally healthy so I wont enter the grave as a virgin. Also I realize that if I put my dick in a pussy, I'll still have these problems and that prob wont effect my choice to ctb at all.
Dude, how old are you?
I remember thinking I would die a virgin at 15, but things change
Pepega
Betaman
- Mar 2, 2019
- 101
ofc they change, you die as a virgin at 40 instead of 15
CoolGuy9
Mage
- Mar 5, 2019
- 524
PsychoPyro
Chronic Pain
- Jun 7, 2018
- 102
Lol dude the muscle mass loss is only very minimal unless you're inactive all day. And it's only at high doses over long periods of time of inactivity that make a somewhat noticeable difference. Kratom's endurance boosting, energy boosting, and motivating powers far outweigh the edge it takes off your muscle mass gain.
It's an NSAID, so if you don't like its effects on muscle mass, you probably should avoid naproxen sodium and advil/ibuprofen before/after workout too.
It's an NSAID, so if you don't like its effects on muscle mass, you probably should avoid naproxen sodium and advil/ibuprofen before/after workout too.
bigj75
“From Knowledge springs power."
- Sep 1, 2018
- 2,540
seekingoblivion
Arcanist
- Dec 11, 2018
- 454
No they're not dude (well most of them anyway). We just suck at being attractive.
Does a disfigured mind count?
seekingoblivion
Arcanist
- Dec 11, 2018
- 454
futur
Member
- Mar 2, 2019
- 53
man, that is silly. There is nothing to be proud about, but i am almost 29 and never had sex or any close relationship. But you are still young and maybe you will get it someday.
Reliable sources (9gag and reddit) say, that i have a 100% chance to turn into wizard in a year. So I got that goin for me which is nice.
Xaphous
hikikomori
- Nov 11, 2018
- 550
Yeah I can relate. I don't have confidence to date anyone now or 10 years ago. Blew all my chances. I would get an escort but they all ugly af in my area. I've never even talked to the opposite sex and I have no social life at all so I don't stand a chance anyway.
I managed to find a woman on Reddit to help me with my virginity issue and lost it at 34. Had zero action on my point but I got to have fun. I didn't tell her until later and she was actually shocked at the truth. I had found another person also on reddit and she is the only reason I haven't CTB this year.
why is it weird being alone? I hate other people so if I do manage to live long, i'd probably be all by myself or with family
seekingoblivion
Arcanist
- Dec 11, 2018
- 454
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