Discussion an encouragement

[MrBigSad]

It's not really everyone's choice after all. we can't stop them if we tried if they really want to. Screaming at them " please don't do it " and at the same time i feel like too many People encourage the ending.

"i hope you find peace"
"wherever you end i hope it's better"

i just wanna encourage them to live through anger. call them weak. pathetic. make them mad. love is strong yet hates stronger.

Live through pain out of spite. learn to love again to spite this world more.

 

[getoutgirl]

I mean I do kinda agree sometimes the popular "Hope you find peace" "All the best" "Good luck" do border the encouraging... more like sanctioning it ( ) but a bit encouraging yeah.
However, there's also the "Whatever you do/decide..." "Please make sure you think it through" "Remember you can change your mind and it's okay" often accompanying them so... mixed

I don't think you can convince most suicidal people about to or mid attempt, here specially, that they should use their hate to suddenly gain will to live. By that point most are too tired for that kind of rationality, exhausted to channel those specific emotions. They don't need more shit.
I really wouldn't encourage making that moment harder for them, trying to make them mad or calling them weak and pathetic :P
please don't

I think living out of spite is great, you can gain a lot from that + some love too + whatever keeps you running if you are able to. All that's great, share that if it has worked for you. It will probably work for others aswell, just also probably not for everyone at any moment.

 

[MrBigSad]

I mean I do kinda agree sometimes the popular "Hope you find peace" "All the best" "Good luck" do border the encouraging... more like sanctioning it ( ) but a bit encouraging yeah.
However, there's also the "Whatever you do/decide..." "Please make sure you think it through" "Remember you can change your mind and it's okay" often accompanying them so... mixed

I don't think you can convince most suicidal people about to or mid attempt, here specially, that they should use their hate to suddenly gain will to live. By that point most are too tired for that kind of rationality, exhausted to channel those specific emotions. They don't need more shit.
I really wouldn't encourage making that moment harder for them, trying to make them mad or calling them weak and pathetic :P
please don't

I think living out of spite is great, you can gain a lot from that + some love too + whatever keeps you running if you are able to. All that's great, share that if it has worked for you. It will probably work for others aswell, just also probably not for everyone at any moment.

well you're tight it does seem pointless, i would never call them weak or pathetic if i knew they'd taken it. and i am a hypocrite because on the other hand i say if they do it then they should go the whole way. half dying is awful. im sure in one of my posts i said something like "you don't want to end up as a vegetable. "

there's too many people here so eloquent. so loving and kind. why do they have to die? why can't it be people that deserve it?

 

[Anonymousa]

Yea as @getoutgirl said don't call others weak or pathetic for wanting to attempt suicide. it isn't going to help. Its just going to make people feel worse or guilt which isn't what this site is about. People shouldn't be made to feel worse for wanting to die here or to attempt to do so. People come here to escape from people saying stuff like that.