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SighCry
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- May 15, 2026
- 21
For most of this year my friend and my conversation has been about my mental health as it has obviously been horrific. We still talked about her and her life but the majority of the conversations were about me. She also moved to the opposite side of the world indefinitely so it's understandable that you drift a bit. Last year she did say that she felt I was being distant and didn't acknowledge her life as much (this was because I was depressed and wrapped up in my own suffering), but this year I have been trying to engage more with her life, though the conversation has still focused more so on me and my mental health.
The last message I sent was 2 months ago and it was "I just don't know how I'm going to get through this" and she hasn't responded and I haven't reached out again. Is this the end of the friendship? Should I reach out or just leave it? Part of me feels that if she didn't respond to that, maybe she's just tired of our conversations and needs a break. It feels like everyone in my life is tired of my depression/mental health (except my therapist cause I pay her well lmao).
The last message I sent was 2 months ago and it was "I just don't know how I'm going to get through this" and she hasn't responded and I haven't reached out again. Is this the end of the friendship? Should I reach out or just leave it? Part of me feels that if she didn't respond to that, maybe she's just tired of our conversations and needs a break. It feels like everyone in my life is tired of my depression/mental health (except my therapist cause I pay her well lmao).