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So far your research shows the vast majority are financially struggling and their look is below average.
I wonder if you use this information for any type of research or just personal curiosity
I've been told I'm quite good looking. I've had a few girlfriends and most of my female friends have told me I'm attractive. But it's like I don't believe people when they say it. I think things like "they must be stupid to think I'm good looking". Ive suffered from severe depression, anxiety and various health issues since I was 17, which has always held me back from even thinking about whether I'm good looking or not
i think so. people have told me i was beautiful since i was a child....but it might be just cause im biracial?? you know how the media fetishizes us biracial kids.
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I don't consider myself to be good looking. I am ugly and getting uglier with age (now in mid 30s). I suddenly lost my hair in the past year. With the excuse of protection from coronavirus, when I leave the house I now wear a ninja style mask with only my eyes exposed. I overheard coworkers making fun of me about it the other day. My appearance is just one of the reasons I wish I never had to leave my house again.
I'm male but from another thread 'when your smiling the world smiles with you' but when I'm not smiling I wouldn't be surprised if people jeered or spat at me or something.
I'm above average had 6 girlfriends within the last 7-8 years but every time managed to fuck it up mainly due to bipolar episodes either having manic thinking they aren't good enough for me or being low feeling they are burden
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People who find me visually attractive are, without exception, intellectually incompatible with me. The only I fish I caught and was glad to catch was not attracted because of looks. And didn't stay.
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I think my body is decently attractive. But I couldn't get a gf even if I wanted one(I don't). No, I don't get compliments or anything. I also don't flirt around or anything either.
Looks aren't really a suicidal contributing factor for me though.
I dunno. I'm definitely not unattractive, but I'm not sure how attractive I am, on the other hand. Maybe I'm more attractive than Elmer Fudd? I don't know. I'm not sure how to measure the variables here. I look like a cat. THat's a default answer that'll never grow past its prime. I am always a cat, have always been a cat, and will always be a cat, until the day I'm not.
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Don't feel like I am. Never really liked how I looked. Guess that sort of mentality really affects how other people see you as I get no sort of attention from onlookers. Well, that's not 100% true. There were times where I hear comments that I'm weird or I frighten them. So that's most likely a no on the attractive side.
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I have a pretty face, and various people occasionally tell were telling me that I'm good looking, but my body is out of shape, could be linked to my excessively sedentary lifestyle, and hormonal problems. It's hard to get any attention if no one is seeing you. Numbers game.
I'm middle aged and used to attract plenty of attention from some. I'm fit and exercised extensively pre Covid, and compared to many of my peers, I stand out based on my fitness level. Plus, I'm around 6' 3" tall. On a grading scale from school of A through F......I would say most would grade me as B+ , while in my younger years through early middle age.
However, many would immediately lower my grade to F, because I shave my head due to male pattern baldness.
Plus, the last six years, I've aged a lot. For many of us who have entered our fifties, it seems the aging process really accelerates in late middle age, and it has in my case. I'm definitely turning substantially less heads than when I was younger. I accept this reality for myself.
My outlook is this for myself - between all the visual and intrinsic short comings (my personality is extremely quirky) that I posses that I might turn off 90% of the opposite sex, at this stage in my life, but I'm not looking to attract 100% of the opposite sex; I'm monogamous and I only need to attract the one person meant for me. I take this process as "finding a needle in a haystack".
It does not matter. I can attract a women, give her as much of the world I possibly could, and she'll still cheat on me. If I could make a deal that made me hideous but happy I would.
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