would it still be possible for me to get a girlfriend?(NSFW)

[HermitLonerGuy]

Basically i have a micropenis, like the smallest dick ever. Its a rare condition affecting under 1% of men. The penis never grows during puberty.
Ive let it hold me back in life, plus ive experienced quite a few rejections, bullying and mocking because of it. So you cant blame me for developing this serious body dysphoria and low self esteem due to it.

today im thinking to myself, what if i tried my best to become a desirable man.
what if i get money, get a good body, dress well in suits and style , be confident, funny, and emotionaly romantic and pleasure woman in oral , toys and hands and sexy talking, massages etc.

would i get one to fall for me? i would even live if i had a girlfriend.
its not even about the sex, i just want a woman to care about me and be mine and me hers.
my dream is to have a house and live with my gf and be happy ever after.
i would be sincere and honest to her and treat her like a queen.

or would the micropenis still ruin everything and make it all just a waste of time?

 

[leloyon]

I don't see penis size as too big of a deal. Either you're outright mentioning your penis to a girl in conversation, which you should stop, or you're getting far enough with a girl for her to see your penis, which shows you're doing things right if you get to that point.
If having a girlfriend is the difference between CTB or not, then sure. Become a desirable man. If you have enough hope that you can come up with such a tangible way to fix your issues then grasp it, a lot of us here don't seem to have that. I'm sure you'll find a girlfriend that will appreciate you no matter your size.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

I don't see penis size as too big of a deal. Either you're outright mentioning your penis to a girl in conversation, which you should stop, or you're getting far enough with a girl for her to see your penis, which shows you're doing things right if you get to that point.
If having a girlfriend is the difference between CTB or not, then sure. Become a desirable man. If you have enough hope that you can come up with such a tangible way to fix your issues then grasp it, a lot of us here don't seem to have that. I'm sure you'll find a girlfriend that will appreciate you no matter your size.

Ty i hope it comes true and thanks for the feedback. Yes i do tell them at first as sort of a "warning" because in the passed i got close with someone then she had an issue with it. I ended up getting attached and plus she said i wasted her time. I hope you can understand why i give a warning very early on.

 

[jodes2]

My gf once went out with a guy with a micropenis. He dumped her in the end! She said she liked him cos he had a good personality and the small penis wasn't a problem with sex cos he was good with his hands. Many women just want companionship

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

My gf once went out with a guy with a micropenis. He dumped her in the end! She said she liked him cos he had a good personality and the small penis wasn't a problem with sex cos he was good with his hands. Many women just want companionship

your girlfriend is awesome, i hope i find someone who accepts me one day. im serious i may live if i find someone who loves me.

 

[fizi22]

yes it could work. Get the girl off with your hand and mouth.


Now after all the improvement, would it be truly possible to get some girls? I think deep down you know the answer to that.

If you try to improve, enjoy the process

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

yes it could work. Get the girl off with your hand and mouth.


Now after all the improvement, would it be truly possible to get some girls? I think deep down you know the answer to that.

If you try to improve, enjoy the process

thank you for your feedback fizi, yes i think i can enjoy the process too. you a good friend.

 

[etherealgoddess]

Basically i have a micropenis, like the smallest dick ever. Its a rare condition affecting under 1% of men. The penis never grows during puberty.
Ive let it hold me back in life, plus ive experienced quite a few rejections, bullying and mocking because of it. So you cant blame me for developing this serious body dysphoria and low self esteem due to it.

today im thinking to myself, what if i tried my best to become a desirable man.
what if i get money, get a good body, dress well in suits and style , be confident, funny, and emotionaly romantic and pleasure woman in oral , toys and hands and sexy talking, massages etc.

would i get one to fall for me? i would even live if i had a girlfriend.
its not even about the sex, i just want a woman to care about me and be mine and me hers.
my dream is to have a house and live with my gf and be happy ever after.
i would be sincere and honest to her and treat her like a queen.

or would the micropenis still ruin everything and make it all just a waste of time?

Women love with their ears--just have a good personality.

I could date a guy with a micropenis if my relationship was fulfilling. Sex is literally not everything. It's just falsely painted that way for men and their corresponding societal standards. Some women may say otherwise, but that's like every other preference in the world. Like, dude--a woman most definitely will stay with you if you know how to please her via oral. Don't let that shit get to you, srsly. :)

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Women love with their ears--just have a good personality.

I could date a guy with a micropenis if my relationship was fulfilling. Sex is literally not everything. It's just falsely painted that way for men and their corresponding societal standards. Some women may say otherwise, but that's like every other preference in the world. Like, dude--a woman most definitely will stay with you if you know how to please her via oral. Don't let that shit get to you, srsly. :)

thank you for the encouragement, and yes i know many will reject me but there are some few who would accept me and that will make me improving and looking for a partner worth it.

 

[lukas19]

Basically i have a micropenis, like the smallest dick ever. Its a rare condition affecting under 1% of men. The penis never grows during puberty.
Ive let it hold me back in life, plus ive experienced quite a few rejections, bullying and mocking because of it. So you cant blame me for developing this serious body dysphoria and low self esteem due to it.

today im thinking to myself, what if i tried my best to become a desirable man.
what if i get money, get a good body, dress well in suits and style , be confident, funny, and emotionaly romantic and pleasure woman in oral , toys and hands and sexy talking, massages etc.

would i get one to fall for me? i would even live if i had a girlfriend.
its not even about the sex, i just want a woman to care about me and be mine and me hers.
my dream is to have a house and live with my gf and be happy ever after.
i would be sincere and honest to her and treat her like a queen.

or would the micropenis still ruin everything and make it all just a waste of time?

90% will reject you over a micropenis. The other 10% you need to reach out to. Many years ago I had a one night stand with a BI girl, the sex was ok but she only let me put my tip in as anymore would hurt her. More than 1% of girls have extra tight vag'/soreness/not turned on by intercourse. i.e Bet a lot of them have problems finding dates.
Maybe hit dating sites, title ''micropenis'' Tell the truth but make sure to place your other good points prominent
There will be girls out there, similar age, want sex/imtimacy but not that much into intercourse.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

90% will reject you over a micropenis. The other 10% you need to reach out to. Many years ago I had a one night stand with a BI girl, the sex was ok but she only let me put my tip in as anymore would hurt her. More than 1% of girls have extra tight vag'/soreness/not turned on by intercourse. i.e Bet a lot of them have problems finding dates.
Maybe hit dating sites, title ''micropenis'' Tell the truth but make sure to place your other good points prominent
There will be girls out there, similar age, want sex/imtimacy but not that much into intercourse.

thank you for your response, are you micro as well?

 

[lukas19]

Maybe you could make a micropenis thread, if you get enough replies pool resources about dating techniquies.
There are a percentage of girls who don't like intercourse, extra small vagina, sorness, just don't like it.
No i don't have a micropenis.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Maybe you could make a micropenis thread, if you get enough replies pool resources about dating techniquies.
There are a percentage of girls who don't like intercourse, extra small vagina, sorness, just don't like it.
No i don't have a micropenis.

ok i appreciate the feedback thank you.

 

[Forever Sleep]

Yes, I'm sure you can find someone. It sounds like you're doing all the right things. I think it is best to be honest with them from the start- so- both of you know where you stand. Like other people have suggested- maybe look for women who actually want this in a guy. Then- it won't be a turn off but an attraction. I hope you do find someone.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Yes, I'm sure you can find someone. It sounds like you're doing all the right things. I think it is best to be honest with them from the start- so- both of you know where you stand. Like other people have suggested- maybe look for women who actually want this in a guy. Then- it won't be a turn off but an attraction. I hope you do find someone.

thank you for your kind words.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

I feel like most people encouraging hope on this thread are doing so because they're on this site and don't want to see a fellow sasu member give up on life, whether they are right or wrong. The fact of the matter is sexual attraction is still an important fact in non asexual relationships, and most women may not be attracted to such conditions so it could be a deal breaker.

Overall, it is up to you whether or not you want to try to find the exception to the rule. Maybe you'll get lucky with demisexuals.

Also, the women commenting don't have to be concerned with being born with a micropenis so they underestimate how terrible it is, thus they tend not to think it is a big deal. It really fucking sucks.

They are right though. You "could" find someone, just like I could walk out of the house and find a million dollars on the ground. Nearly anything is possible, but that doesn't mean the likelihood is high, or even probable. You do have to keep your expectations realistic instead of falling into the hope trope and ending up even more disappointed.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

I feel like most people encouraging hope on this thread are doing so because they're on this site and don't want to see a fellow sasu member give up on life, whether they are right or wrong. The fact of the matter is sexual attraction is still an important fact in non asexual relationships, and most women may not be attracted to such conditions so it could be a deal breaker.

Overall, it is up to you whether or not you want to try to find the exception to the rule. Maybe you'll get lucky with demisexuals.

Also, the women commenting don't have to be concerned with being born with a micropenis so they underestimate how terrible it is, thus they tend not to think it is a big deal. It really fucking sucks.

They are right though. You "could" find someone, just like I could walk out of the house and find a million dollars on the on the ground. Nearly anything is possible, but that doesn't mean the likelihood is high, or even probable. You do have to keep your expectations realistic instead of falling into the hope trope and ending up even more disappointed.

hmmm yes i suppose you are right as well, thanks for giving another perspective.

 

[Againstthewind]

I think you are putting yourself down too much in what is possible because of your predicament, you think that being a relationship is impossible. Now on the one hand, yes sexual interaction is important but that's just one love language, people have their other languages in spending time together, personality and everything else.

I don't know how NSFW we can get in the threads so I will try and keep it PC I guess. Yes, sex is one part of relationship which is gonna be important, but there are ways around there anyway in if you can't pleasure a woman because of your situation there's so many other ways to do so anyway, especially this day and age, there's so many toys et cetera that would help you out anyway.

Women don't immediately just get attracted to you because of the sexual part it's about conversation and everything else and how you are as a person. People can be attracted to so much more than just sex. So yes in a way if you focused on all these things you're wanting to do that could help you to make your mind feel better. However, in my opinion, don't focus on wanting to be with someone or wanting to be with a woman or having a companion as the sole reason why you should stick around because your life is so much more than just being with someone else, you wanna be able to make sure that you are okay and that you think of yourself positively because if you don't like yourself other people will struggle to connect with you, you gotta figure out how you're gonna get there.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

I think you are putting yourself down too much in what is possible because of your predicament, you think that being a relationship is impossible. Now on the one hand, yes sexual interaction is important but that's just one love language, people have their other languages in spending time together, personality and everything else.

I don't know how NSFW we can get in the threads so I will try and keep it PC I guess. Yes, sex is one part of relationship which is gonna be important, but there are ways around there anyway in if you can't pleasure a woman because of your situation there's so many other ways to do so anyway, especially this day and age, there's so many toys et cetera that would help you out anyway.

Women don't immediately just get attracted to you because of the sexual part it's about conversation and everything else and how you are as a person. People can be attracted to so much more than just sex. So yes in a way if you focused on all these things you're wanting to do that could help you to make your mind feel better. However, in my opinion, don't focus on wanting to be with someone or wanting to be with a woman or having a companion as the sole reason why you should stick around because your life is so much more than just being with someone else, you wanna be able to make sure that you are okay and that you think of yourself positively because if you don't like yourself other people will struggle to connect with you, you gotta figure out how you're gonna get there.

Thank you so much and it's true self love is important and it can rub off on other people. And yes I'm willing to use toys and other stuff I just hope it's enough for some woman yes I know it's not enough for some but maybe others.

 

[nozomu]

Absolutely. It is about love, and there is lots of ways to please a person that doesn't involve penetration, and there's also toys to assist with that. It will take being vulnerable and it will take many failures to find the right person but I'm sure she's out there.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Nozo Thank you so much for your input . Yes I know il face alot of rejection. Guess il have to prepare for it.

 

[Source Energy]

Let me put it into perspective for you : there are some of us who don't like the big. It can be very uncomfortable and painful. I'd take an average or even a micro ( provided that he was my type ) over a "monster". For me, and for many others, sex is just a form of connecting. If there is a spark, if we are very attracted to each other, this matter is not a deal breaker at all.
But then, I'm different than other girls.
Just saying that not all women care about this. Finding one is the hard part.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Let me put it into perspective for you : there are some of us who don't like the big. It can be very uncomfortable and painful. I'd take an average or even a micro ( provided that he was my type ) over a "monster". For me, and for many others, sex is just a form of connecting. If there is a spark, if we are very attracted to each other, this matter is not a deal breaker at all.
But then, I'm different than other girls.
Just saying that not all women care about this. Finding one is the hard part.

thats awesome to know, i hope i find a diffrent girl like you. Yes i think there can be a sexual connection with a person despite there being physical lacks?? yeah but i hope i can become desirable enough in other ways. ty for replying.

 

[Source Energy]

you are doing the right thing in telling them upfront though. the ones who are a keeper won't be bothered by it, and why waste time with the rest of them

 

[nozomu]

Nozo Thank you so much for your input . Yes I know il face alot of rejection. Guess il have to prepare for it.

I believe in you friend. You have a very kind heart and that is what matters

 

[gentleflower]

Basically i have a micropenis, like the smallest dick ever. Its a rare condition affecting under 1% of men. The penis never grows during puberty.
Ive let it hold me back in life, plus ive experienced quite a few rejections, bullying and mocking because of it. So you cant blame me for developing this serious body dysphoria and low self esteem due to it.

today im thinking to myself, what if i tried my best to become a desirable man.
what if i get money, get a good body, dress well in suits and style , be confident, funny, and emotionaly romantic and pleasure woman in oral , toys and hands and sexy talking, massages etc.

would i get one to fall for me? i would even live if i had a girlfriend.
its not even about the sex, i just want a woman to care about me and be mine and me hers.
my dream is to have a house and live with my gf and be happy ever after.
i would be sincere and honest to her and treat her like a queen.

or would the micropenis still ruin everything and make it all just a waste of time?

I have not read all the other answers before, but I don't think that this should make it impossible to find a woman who loves you. There is so much more to a relationship than penetrative sex. For me personally, the personality of my partner is much more important than their physique.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

you are doing the right thing in telling them upfront though. the ones who are a keeper won't be bothered by it, and why waste time with the rest of them

thank you, i do it so i dont waste either of our time . I know its a deal breaker for many im not a fool but i rather be hurt up front than build a connection then be dissapointed/ a dissapointment.

I believe in you friend. You have a very kind heart and that is what matters

you are such a sweetheart too ty nozo.

I have not read all the other answers before, but I don't think that this should make it impossible to find a woman who loves you. There is so much more to a relationship than penetrative sex. For me personally, the personality of my partner is much more important than their physique.

thank you for commenting and for being so kind and accepting of people.

 

[Iamchickenhat]

Hlg, I don't have experience in this area, and I was always horrible at relationships, but I honestly do believe you can find someone pleasing to you who can care for you for you... Not something else. It may take a long time, or it might not, for all the wheels to click. I have hope for your happiness.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Hlg, I don't have experience in this area, and I was always horrible at relationships, but I honestly do believe you can find someone pleasing to you who can care for you for you... Not something else. It may take a long time, or it might not, for all the wheels to click. I have hope for your happiness.

thank you so much, i wish you happiness too.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

she will cuck you with a bull

im not into that so no.