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violetforever

violetforever

Mage
Dec 24, 2025
570
Genuinely I don't know any women in long term relationships who like the men they are with. They tolerate them. I have been in several long term relationships with men and continue to be amazed by how they continue to let me down in new and impressive ways. Our only hope is lesbianism. It's not portrayed in the media (in a positive, attractive way) for a reason.
i think i was forever changed when my grandma was talking about her marriage to my grandpa and she said exactly what you did. she said "ive been tolerating him for almost 50 years". that moment and those words have just stuck in my mind and paralyzed me. i always knew their marriage was horrible since i was a child but something about directly hearing that from her made it so much more real. not to mention all the other women in my family whose marriages or relationships scare me away from ever having one.

i cant see relationships with men as anything more than settling. they see no problem in their behavior that is so misogynistic, abusive, predatory and unfaithful. actually i think they are aware and they just dont care because of how inferior they see women aside from being sexual objects.
 
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rainwillneverstop

rainwillneverstop

Global Mod | Serious Health Hazard
Jul 12, 2022
936
heya - it's nice to see people supporting each other here, and I appreciate how civil discussions have been.
Just lately noticing some generalizations creeping in, and would just appreciate if people can try to be conscious when making "all men are..." posts.
It's completely okay to be angry and frustrated and hurt - and many have very valid reasons for that and unfortunate experiences. Just try to keep this in mind.
I know how gender-based threads can often end up, and just want to make sure this thread stays as the safe space it was intended for.
 
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violetforever

violetforever

Mage
Dec 24, 2025
570
this is so fucking stupid. being so in love and obsessed with one person that i will never go after another. i am young and pretty, besides my mental instability, i dont think it would be hard to find anyone else who would want me. especially with my shitty type and standards. but no. i have to have this one fucking person who is also unwell. i think its all in the fear that i know love isnt real or lasting. this right now is infatuation. if anyone likes me right now its just infatuation or sexualization of youth and beauty. one day my looks and age will grow old and no one will want me then. maybe id live better like that. also any other man is going to treat me the same horrible way and it will inevitably end. theyre all like this. romantic love isnt real. this isnt even a healthy or normal relationship. i need to die and get away from all of this. i hate how everything is in this world between men and women. it makes me laugh how much i want to die even though im pleased with my body and face. i thought beauty was fucking everything? what the fuck do i need to be beautiful for? im distrusting and afraid of men and i avoid sex and relationships. isnt that the whole point of why anyone feels the need to be pretty? for a partner and romantic attention? well its nothing when the person you want ignores you. i am beautiful and so lonely alone in my room. its partially my fault. i dont want anyone else. i dont even think i want him anymore? im just looking to get hurt so i have more confirmation in killing myself. he definitely isnt enough to keep me alive. oh my god violet you are so fucking stupid for depending so much on people on the internet that you have never and will never even meet. this existence is a fucking weird twisted joke. youre so weird. why cant you be normal and talk to or be interested in people in real life? people that are actually your age? everybody can sense that something is wrong with you though. i know theres nothing here on earth for me and that i should die.
 
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YandereMikuMistress

YandereMikuMistress

you say falling victim to myself is weak, so be it
Apr 26, 2023
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women's Nordic combined not sufficiently developed globally to justify Olympic inclusion.


Nordic combined is a sport that combines two events,

1. Ski jumping athletes jump off a large ramp for distance and style

2. Cross country skiing
athletes then race across a long snow course
 
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piercedheart

piercedheart

Mortician Mommy
May 29, 2023
85
Thank you. <3 There are not enough safe spaces for women where men won't barge in to give their opinion.

I'm here if any of you girlies wish to talk, or vent!
 
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YandereMikuMistress

YandereMikuMistress

you say falling victim to myself is weak, so be it
Apr 26, 2023
1,348
Thank you. <3 There are not enough safe spaces for women where men won't barge in to give their opinion.

I'm here if any of you girlies wish to talk, or vent!
Thank you so much this means allot genuinely,, I dont get to talk with other women enough, your small bit of kindness goes further then you might know ☆ thank you, ill remember that.
 
piercedheart

piercedheart

Mortician Mommy
May 29, 2023
85
Thank you so much this means allot genuinely,, I dont get to talk with other women enough, your small bit of kindness goes further then you might know ☆ thank you, ill remember that.
Thank you, I am elated to hear my actions leave a positive impact! It is why I returned, to share my journey and hopefully improve the lives of others however I can, and if not provide comfort to those that feel like they have no one.

Please don't be afraid to reach out, even if you don't want help, advice or anything, I will listen if you simply wish to talk.
 
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YandereMikuMistress

YandereMikuMistress

you say falling victim to myself is weak, so be it
Apr 26, 2023
1,348
I was gonna post this as a reply ro some chode but then my fb page froze and I lost the post so heres the comment I was going to leave them as they where complaining about women and how they all love to be the victims that make up bs.


So heres what would be my reply.



First, women going to doctors more often isn't proof they "complain about nonexistent issues." That's nonsensical thinking. It's actually the opposite it's called preventative care, and preventative care reduces death rates. Men avoid doctors more and as a result die earlier🤷‍♀️. Plus men have higher death rates from heart disease, cancer, and other preventable conditions largely because they seek care later or not at all.
What's especially ironic is that heart disease is also the leading cause of death in wOMeN, yet women's cardiac symptoms are more likely to be dismissed, misdiagnosed, or simply attributed to some bs like anxiety. Women often present different heart attack symptoms and experience delays in diagnosis and treatment, which leads to worse outcomes.On top of that gang medical science has historically been built around the male body as the default..
For decades, clinical trials primarily used male participants, and centered around male anatomy and symptoms were treated as the standard reference. The studies indexed both have acknowledged that women were underrepresented in clinical research, which contributed to gaps in diagnosis, symptom recognition, and treatment accuracy for women.
So women seeking medical care more often isn't "playing victim." It's literally one of the reasons women survive longer!.
While avoiding care leads to worse outcomes, luke death♡

Nowww
Second, your mental illness claim is w.r.o.n.g Women are more likely to be diagnosed with anxiety and depression, but men are far more likely to die by suicide. In Canada, men account for about 75% of suicides. And buddy
Diagnosis rates don't equal weakness they reflect who actually seeks help.

Third! Lets be clear your claim about medical negligence is flat out false in its context. The contains multiple studies showing women's symptoms are more likely to be dismissed, especially in areas like heart disease and chronic pain. Women are less likely to receive pain treatment, more likely to be misdiagnosed, and often wait longer for diagnosis,
women living longer doesn't mean they aren't dismissed. It means they seek medical care earlier and survive more conditions that men ignore until it's too late💥
So no, it's not "playing victim" Its understanding basic epidemiology instead of how others put it "cherry picking statistics to fit a narrative"
like what you just did
 
piercedheart

piercedheart

Mortician Mommy
May 29, 2023
85
I was gonna post this as a reply ro some chode but then my fb page froze and I lost the post so heres the comment I was going to leave them as they where complaining about women and how they all love to be the victims that make up bs.


So heres what would be my reply.



First, women going to doctors more often isn't proof they "complain about nonexistent issues." That's nonsensical thinking. It's actually the opposite it's called preventative care, and preventative care reduces death rates. Men avoid doctors more and as a result die earlier🤷‍♀️. Plus men have higher death rates from heart disease, cancer, and other preventable conditions largely because they seek care later or not at all.
What's especially ironic is that heart disease is also the leading cause of death in wOMeN, yet women's cardiac symptoms are more likely to be dismissed, misdiagnosed, or simply attributed to some bs like anxiety. Women often present different heart attack symptoms and experience delays in diagnosis and treatment, which leads to worse outcomes.On top of that gang medical science has historically been built around the male body as the default..
For decades, clinical trials primarily used male participants, and centered around male anatomy and symptoms were treated as the standard reference. The studies indexed both have acknowledged that women were underrepresented in clinical research, which contributed to gaps in diagnosis, symptom recognition, and treatment accuracy for women.
So women seeking medical care more often isn't "playing victim." It's literally one of the reasons women survive longer!.
While avoiding care leads to worse outcomes, luke death♡

Nowww
Second, your mental illness claim is w.r.o.n.g Women are more likely to be diagnosed with anxiety and depression, but men are far more likely to die by suicide. In Canada, men account for about 75% of suicides. And buddy
Diagnosis rates don't equal weakness they reflect who actually seeks help.

Third! Lets be clear your claim about medical negligence is flat out false in its context. The contains multiple studies showing women's symptoms are more likely to be dismissed, especially in areas like heart disease and chronic pain. Women are less likely to receive pain treatment, more likely to be misdiagnosed, and often wait longer for diagnosis,
women living longer doesn't mean they aren't dismissed. It means they seek medical care earlier and survive more conditions that men ignore until it's too late💥
So no, it's not "playing victim" Its understanding basic epidemiology instead of how others put it "cherry picking statistics to fit a narrative"
like what you just did

Fun fact, most deaths I see from accidental overdoses when I was a mortician was from women, as medicines are rarely tested on women, or for women, but for men, so they're given meds that are simply too strong for them, and not fitting.

This world is hostile against women, we're treated like incubators, meat to be tossed around and nothing else.
Anytime women try to get some kind of equality, we're called fat feminists, crazy, whiners etc.. its horrible..
 
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YandereMikuMistress

YandereMikuMistress

you say falling victim to myself is weak, so be it
Apr 26, 2023
1,348
So apparently im not allowed to like song like this



With lyrics like this


I'm on the dark side sinnin' and grinnin' then you let me in
Fill you up with passion and rage
I stroke you slow, deep and under
Try to make you wonder just why you feel so violently strange


And don't you feel like a god when you come and savor my skin?
And don't you feel like a whore, let the pussy worship begin

Cuz they say I'm in the wrong but I'm feeling so right
Awaken for your saviour she's coming tonight
I change my sex and slowly shape my member right
Join the pussy worship tonight


Yeah, Yeah, Yeah, Flesh Is The Law
I'll be your goddess and you'll sing my praises
Yeah, Yeah, Yeah, Flesh Is The Law
I sleep with the god damned and you get the graces

Come on and stick your finger into me
Just as far as you can see
Blind you when you look in my eyes
No, now every woman that you see is hidden deep inside of me
Makes you feel so violently strange
Now don't you feel like a god when you come and savor my skin?
Now and don't you feel like a whore, Let the pussy worship begin



Cuz they say I'm in the wrong but I'm feeling so right
Awaken for your saviour she's coming tonight
I change my sex and slowly shape my member right
Join the pussy worship tonight

Call you on your broken souls
Bring me all your broken dreams
You always stop to wonder, but you never know
How to change my sex and slowly shape my member right
Join the pussy worship tonight

Yeah, Yeah, Yeah, Flesh Is The Law
I'll be your goddess and you'll sing my praises
Yeah, Yeah, Yeah, Flesh Is The Law
I sleep with the god damned and you get the graces
Flesh Is The Law.




So im not allowed to like that song but the ppl im surrounded by can like music thats just bashing on women and calling them bitchs and noisy hoes
 
bluevalentine

bluevalentine

Member
Dec 22, 2025
15
just want to wish a happy valentines day to all the queens on here <3 having a rough night but trying still..be kind to yourselves
 
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WallTermite

WallTermite

Student
Aug 16, 2025
101
heya - it's nice to see people supporting each other here, and I appreciate how civil discussions have been.
Just lately noticing some generalizations creeping in, and would just appreciate if people can try to be conscious when making "all men are..." posts.
It's completely okay to be angry and frustrated and hurt - and many have very valid reasons for that and unfortunate experiences. Just try to keep this in mind.
I know how gender-based threads can often end up, and just want to make sure this thread stays as the safe space it was intended for.
Thank you!
 

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