Women’s Space Peer Support Megathread

[YandereMikuMistress]

The first rearview mirror is usually credited to Dorothy Levitt, a British race car driver, in 1909.

She advised women drivers in her book to carry a small hand mirror and use it to see behind them a concept that led directly to the rearview mirror's adoption in cars later.



Canadian-American film actress
star and inventor Florence Lawrence designed an "auto-signaling arm" for turn signals and a mechanical brake signal around 1914, but she did not patent these inventions and received no credit or profit for them. Her innovative designs were precursors to modern turn signals and brake lights, demonstrating her practical and inventive nature, though her contributions have been largely forgotten

 

[YandereMikuMistress]

Is this like a hate vidoe or a support video bro like what? He makes some points but damn bros making it sound like we need to be controlled









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So i find it fuckin wild how calling someone a pussy implies they're weak or cowardly, while calling someone a dick suggests they're assertive or dominant. The double standard is baked right into the language.

And sure being called a dick isn't exactly a compliment either. It means you're an asshole. But notice how even THAT still ties back to dominance and aggression.

Men get labeled 'asshole' all the time, and the insult carries this underlying assumption that they're supposed to be harsh, unfeeling, and forceful anyway. It reinforces the same tired expectation on both sides softness is shameful, and cruelty is power..

Anyhow rant over.

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[YandereMikuMistress]

Yea were cooked guys because what on earth?! How do these kind of men exist,, it just hurts its not funny its actually sad.

 

[YandereMikuMistress]

SHORTS!!

sorry, but women's shorts are most of the time "too short" because they're not designed for women who actually have extra ass. When you have curves, the fabric gets pulled upward, the back hem lifts, and suddenly the shorts look way shorter than they did on the hanger that's not someone "trying to be a whore," that's just basic fit and anatomy.

And guess what? These are man made designs. The clothing industry is still dominated by men, so guess who's creating these supposedly "revealing" styles? Women aren't the ones driving this "problem" when most major brand executives and designers are men the same men who claim to hate these looks, yet still design them, produce them, and market them to women.

The idea that "women choose revealing clothes" ignores the fact that companies literally decide what's available. Hate me if you want, but that's just the reality

 

[CC123]

I don't know how I have not seen this thread before!
Glad it exists.

 

[YandereMikuMistress]

Fuck whats wrong with the fuckin UK Jesus christ just give in to the oppression for the ignorant idea about having to be culturally open,, even if it means your advocating an oppressive cause and recently the Blue Light Hijab, has entered production and it's no longer just a concept or simply a trial piece it is now being implemented into the police workplace for women..
This is a travesty,, but hey we can agree to disagree if you truly believe this isnt oppressive,, okay,, thats on you,,anyway.

"Quick-release" police hijab goes into production for frontline officers

A groundbreaking quick-release hijab for female police on the front line has gone into production with orders coming in from around the country.

www.dmu.ac.uk

The Blue Light Hijab was conceived by Yassin Desai. He first identified the need for a safe, operational hijab for Muslim female officers about 20 years ago, when he was working in policing as a detective sergeant at Leicestershire Police but only since 2022 did the project gain momentum through formal collaboration with DMU designers

2022, he teamed up with designers at De Montfort University Leicester
specifically with Dr Angela Davies an Associate Professor in Textile and Garment Technology at De Montfort University Leicester, and technician Kay Radford helped to develop a new hijab design.



Woo blantant oppression,,,,,
no fuck you yassin,, you are a creep if seeing as how this was such a "must" for you,, sick fuck.



But hey doesnt that sounds sooo cool
I mean lets all wear a hijab that has even undergone "wearer trials" omg!
and even combat testing, woo wee,, and multiple design iterations to ensureee safety, comfort, MODESTY and compatibility with policing equipment,, yumm ...


The first adopters are officers at Leicestershire Police, as it was developed for them.

But the announcement states that "police forces and emergency services across the UK" have already begun placing orders.

There's also interest from paramedics, the National Health Service (NHS), and some private sector employers suggesting the hijab may be adopted more widely than just policing uniforms.

The product is being manufactured in the UK
(for the first time under this design) thanks to DMU setting up
"UK based production
specifically for the Blue Light Hijab."


The hijab is offered as an option for Muslim female officers and frontline workers who wish to wear it as UK police uniforms already allow certain religious dress items
(like hijabs or turbans)
if they meet safety and operational standards.

The Blue Light Hijab is just a safer, quick‑release version it doesn't replace other approved hijabs no no so idk dont worry I guess,
but personally id worry with it even being encouraged,, but hey hey
Officers can still wear traditional versions if they "PREFER"

Making it mandatory would likely require a formal change to national police uniform regulations,
"which hasn't been announced"
it might never be mandated, but it also just might givin how its goin so far.

I do not support brainwashed women nor do I support corrupted men.

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[YandereMikuMistress]

Now I wish I got screenshots before they delted there shit, but anyway scum stays scum, and this pig is scum.

 

[YandereMikuMistress]

Ofcourse he targets the democrats





90%+ of childcare workers are women
Apprently and So when funding pauses, women's jobs are the first to destabilize,,
Am I being unreasonable, maybe but I know that man that orange fuckin pumpkin is not for the women, he does not care for the women,
And as we know Mothers are far more likely than fathers to quit there jobs or reduce how much they work,, why?
Because of culturally gendered expectations Childcare isn't somthing thats just
"nice to have."
It's economic infrastructure, like busses and roads and power
Not only will women who work in childcare loose there jobs so will many nurses and schools and offices and more,, And again women face the shock, because they are - -

1.The ones expected to "figure it out"
2.The majority of childcare workers.
3.The majority of caregivers.

And Why this hits women harder than men "structurally" and
This isn't about individual choice its about structure- -

Women are more likely to
Work in care sectors and
Earn less than their partners while being the primary caregivers,
So when a family has to choose,,

"Who stays home?"

The answer is usually

"The woman"

That's how policy decisions quietly undo decades of workforce participation..

This all widens
Poverty rates among women
Economic dependence
And gender pay gaps
Plus
Women are more likely to work part-time or take time off for caregiving which can reduce long-term earnings.

What is the gender pay gap in the US? | USAFacts

Women made about 82 cents for every dollar men made as of the second quarter of 2025. This means that men with full-time jobs typically make 22% more than women in full-time jobs. This ratio compares the median weekly pay of full-time workers—people who usually work 35 hours or more each week.

usafacts.org

And hey yes The gap has narrowed over long periods, but remains persistent and significant..

US suspends funds for needy families in five Democratic-led states | Trump administration | The Guardian https://share.google/5Wxaxe14NBzEKGHi1

Trump freezes over $10 billion in childcare, family assistance funds to 5 US states | Reuters https://share.google/ETU2Y2mAV3cLrdz3g

 

[YandereMikuMistress]

Seen this on the web today and thought,, damn,, good point.


"Men don't think they're misogynistic and sexist because sexism wasn't taught to them like a lesson.

It was fed like background noise.
On the TV.
At the dinner table.
In locker rooms.
In movies where women were prizes and props.
In homes where women carried everything.
By the time it had a name, it already felt 'normal.' "

 

[ConfusedClouds]

Those with experience of PMDD. Do you struggle every single month, or can it be hit/miss? I'm trying to read up on it a bit more. But I'm so inconsistent in symptoms and no tracking offers any patterns. Some cycles I am all over the place mentally and now sometimes physically. But others its not too bad. So can't tell whats me just over reacting.

 

[violetforever]

i wish i found this thread earlier

 

[violetforever]

i will blow my brains out if i hear one more man whine about how women supposedly have so many options in terms of men. it is literally lust. just lust. that's it. not even one at a time. they lust after multiple women at a time. so special. that's who our options are. the decent men would back off after hearing this argument. the sickos will still try to convince us that only being sexually desired is better than nothing. it's so telling what men want for themselves when they try to force it onto us. i've had men get insecure over other men giving me "unsolicited compliments", aka sexual harassment, as if they really thought i would be flattered and interested in those guys instead for saying things like that. i was actually visibly uncomfortable and didn't even respond to the comments but these insecure men still couldn't see or comprehend that. and i'm expected to trust men enough to date one and lose my virginity to one. they think too differently for me, especially when their thinking enables abuse against women. i can't trust a man's perception of love to match mine. i'll never be able to with one. just leave me alone already.

 

[TANETS]

The epst*in filed have ruined how I see the world . I will never see it differently again. Those poor girls , children . Hr and his associates revolved their entire lives around 'sex' and abuse. Looking at trauma diary of the girl who was abused by leon black has broken me. I can't imagine.

The birthday letters having drawings of breast, women's bodies , argues with a bunch of women . It's very awful how women are seen by these monsters.

 

[YourLocalEdgelord]

women supposedly have so many options in terms of men

It's one of their favorite quotes to guilt trip us.

The bar is in hell. Between all of the misogyny, cheating, porn addictions, orgasm gap, violence, not doing the household, not raising the children, disgusting lack of hygiene (but we have to be the exact opposite)...

Who would want a partner like that?? If you can even call them that.

It's a tough pill to swallow that romance, love and loyalty are a privilege. Only few are lucky to truly find that. Even in a platonic context.

I'm glad the 4b movement exists.

 

[violetforever]

The bar is in hell. Between all of the misogyny, cheating, porn addictions, orgasm gap, violence, not doing the household, not raising the children, disgusting lack of hygiene (but we have to be the exact opposite)...

Who would want a partner like that?? If you can even call them that.

It's a tough pill to swallow that romance, love and loyalty are a privilege. Only few are lucky to truly find that. Even in a platonic context.

I'm glad the 4b movement exists.

yes to everything u said. the reality of men makes me cry. i feel like i have to keep a distance from them to even feel ok.

 

[YourLocalEdgelord]

yes to everything u said. the reality of men makes me cry. i feel like i have to keep a distance from them to even feel ok.

Undertsandable. Do that, if you need to. No shame in it. I've been keeping my distance for a long time now. Many women have decided for themselves to do the same, and many even blossomed doing so. I just don't want to take these risks anymore. I don't get along well with women either and some of them even traumatized me, but better to be alone than to be in danger, even if just in terms of mental well-being.

 

[capi]

Undertsandable. Do that, if you need to. No shame in it. I've been keeping my distance for a long time now. Many women have decided for themselves to do the same, and many even blossomed doing so. I just don't want to take these risks anymore. I don't get along well with women either and some of them even traumatized me, but better to be alone than to be in danger, even if just in terms of mental well-being.

Same. Every old lady who ive met where they just focused on her career and pleasures in life over a man and children are absolutely vibrant.
I lost hope in almost all men. I miss martyrdom, he actually surprised me and gave me hope a man can be a feminist. (I actually learned new things from his threads)
I honestly didnt know it was possible to that point.
But i am NOT risking myself in getting close to another one just for an extremely off chance they are good.
My ex who on all accounts was a "kind person" was so misogynistic i threw up, and he couldnt even see what was wrong. Thats disgusting.

 

[YandereMikuMistress]

yes to everything u said. the reality of men makes me cry. i feel like i have to keep a distance from them to even feel ok.

Yet I force myself and alwsys find myself surrounded by them, not in some look at me way but I grew up with four older brothers and was only allowed to go places with them growing up and even now they arent as in control but Im still surrounded by them, and I dont mean just my brother's,, I know its because I in some way wont let myself feel just a little safer by avoding them mabye ive convinced myself they cant be avoided and im still certain all the inequality will kill me i just hope for it to be by my own hands that take my life.

Same. Every old lady who ive met where they just focused on her career and pleasures in life over a man and children are absolutely vibrant.
I lost hope in almost all men. I miss martyrdom, he actually surprised me and gave me hope a man can be a feminist. (I actually learned new things from his threads)
I honestly didnt know it was possible to that point.
But i am NOT risking myself in getting close to another one just for an extremely off chance they are good.
My ex who on all accounts was a "kind person" was so misogynistic i threw up, and he couldnt even see what was wrong. Thats disgusting.

i Can relate to this heavily unfortunately.

Undertsandable. Do that, if you need to. No shame in it. I've been keeping my distance for a long time now. Many women have decided for themselves to do the same, and many even blossomed doing so. I just don't want to take these risks anymore. I don't get along well with women either and some of them even traumatized me, but better to be alone than to be in danger, even if just in terms of mental well-being.

Same here keeping my distance, cutting off what little connections I had years ago women especially... even the closest 'friends' betrayed and traumatized me. I still care, but I won't drag anyone else into my "abyss" or whatever one might call it,, They're all better than me, anyway." Shorter, sharper, like a silver dagger,, thats the only difference

 

[violetforever]

I miss martyrdom

what happened to him?

Yet I force myself and alwsys find myself surrounded by them

me too kinda. my trauma wound wants to be fixed by personally knowing at least one decent man but it has never happened.

 

[capi]

what happened to him?

he left, i can assume because some men were stalking and harassing him... ugh !

 

[WhatCouldHaveBeen32]

he left, i can assume because some men were stalking and harassing him... ugh !

Yep, most likely.

 

[violetforever]

he left, i can assume because some men were stalking and harassing him... ugh !

oh i miss him too then

 

[camusfan_ig]

Wish I found this thread earlier Ty to all the ppl contributing here

The epst*in filed have ruined how I see the world . I will never see it differently again. Those poor girls , children . Hr and his associates revolved their entire lives around 'sex' and abuse. Looking at trauma diary of the girl who was abused by leon black has broken me. I can't imagine.
The birthday letters having drawings of breast, women's bodies , argues with a bunch of women . It's very awful how women are seen by these monsters.

It's truly disgusting. I'm still baffled by the people who defend the ones involved in all this. They need to be rotting in jail for all the shit they did to those girls and women.

 

[YourLocalEdgelord]

I do not support brainwashed women nor do I support corrupted men.

Exactly. They immediately shut you down by saying "you're just x-phobic!!"

Bet nobody has ever told them they are women-phobic. But even if they did, apparently that's perfectly fine. /s

It's truly disgusting. I'm still baffled by the people who defend the ones involved in all this. They need to be rotting in jail for all the shit they did to those girls and women.

I saw a thread on reddit the other day where women discussed this. They said that this hasn't caused as much of an uproar as it should because so many men are addicted to porn categories with borderline illegal content. And now it makes so much sense to me. The more I know, the more I want to get off this planet.

 

[TANETS]

Exactly. They immediately shut you down by saying "you're just x-phobic!!"

Bet nobody has ever told them they are women-phobic. But even if they did, apparently that's perfectly fine. /s

I saw a thread on reddit the other day where women discussed this. They said that this hasn't caused as much of an uproar as it should because so many men are addicted to porn categories with borderline illegal content. And now it makes so much sense to me. The more I know, the more I want to get off this planet.

Another hard pill to swallow is that there would be much, much, much more epsteins if the average person could be as wealthy as him . I've seen a lot of people use this to discuss how the rich and powerful get away with crimes like this, which is undeniably true, but ignore the fact there are millions of the average sex abuser will also get away with their crimes. Its also so interestering to see how a lot far right wingers flipped their script and even began defending epstein because the guy lived their fantasy of being able to subjugate & humiliate women and girls. The only thing truly holding them back being that epstein fit their criteria of a 'superior' person or whatever.

 

[vyvanceandvodka]

I miss martyrdom

God. I miss him too. He was venting to me shortly before he left. I fell asleep when he sent his last message and now I feel guilty I wasn't there. I wish I could have sent him a proper goodbye. I hope he'll be okay. :(

 

[violetforever]

i cant live as a woman anymore. it depresses me so much. i cant live an entire life avoiding men as much as possible and never forming friendships/relationships with them. its impossible to have full trust in them and form bonds because i know they will never have true love or respect for women. sooner or later their misogynistic tendencies come to light and i am let down again and again. i cant live with this fear and sadness. i cant pretend to be ok and put up with it like other women do. maybe im weak for letting it hurt me this badly but i cant help it. i dont want to live in a world where i have to avoid an entire gender just because of how they view and treat mine. what is the point of a life like that?

 

[Gabbi_Station]

Anyone else feeling really demoralized about the whole Epstein thing?

I thought about putting up fliers in the city, just to feel like I was doing something, but my sisters talked me out of it. Said I could be put on a watch list or worse.

Everything just feels depressing. It's just heartbreaking that a bunch of teenager girls can be trafficked and SA-ed and nobody cares.

 

[joey2424]

Anyone else feeling really demoralized about the whole Epstein thing?

I thought about putting up fliers in the city, just to feel like I was doing something, but my sisters talked me out of it. Said I could be put on a watch list or worse.

Everything just feels depressing. It's just heartbreaking that a bunch of teenager girls can be trafficked and SA-ed and nobody cares.

I just saw this thread and had immediately wanted to ask the same thing. Like are any women ok right now? It's impossible to put to words, but I don't feel I need to. Teenage girls, younger also.

I'm polyamorous and my partner and I have had issues regarding the age of people he dates. Last week he made it clear that 18 is his age limit and he won't change it (he's 40). With everything going on, it was incredibly triggering. We're no longer speaking. I'm losing my mind.

i cant live as a woman anymore. it depresses me so much. i cant live an entire life avoiding men as much as possible and never forming friendships/relationships with them. its impossible to have full trust in them and form bonds because i know they will never have true love or respect for women. sooner or later their misogynistic tendencies come to light and i am let down again and again. i cant live with this fear and sadness. i cant pretend to be ok and put up with it like other women do. maybe im weak for letting it hurt me this badly but i cant help it. i dont want to live in a world where i have to avoid an entire gender just because of how they view and treat mine. what is the point of a life like that?

Genuinely I don't know any women in long term relationships who like the men they are with. They tolerate them. I have been in several long term relationships with men and continue to be amazed by how they continue to let me down in new and impressive ways. Our only hope is lesbianism. It's not portrayed in the media (in a positive, attractive way) for a reason.

 

[YandereMikuMistress]

I just saw this thread and had immediately wanted to ask the same thing. Like are any women ok right now? It's impossible to put to words, but I don't feel I need to. Teenage girls, younger also.

I'm polyamorous and my partner and I have had issues regarding the age of people he dates. Last week he made it clear that 18 is his age limit and he won't change it (he's 40). With everything going on, it was incredibly triggering. We're no longer speaking. I'm losing my mind.

Genuinely I don't know any women in long term relationships who like the men they are with. They tolerate them. I have been in several long term relationships with men and continue to be amazed by how they continue to let me down in new and impressive ways. Our only hope is lesbianism. It's not portrayed in the media (in a positive, attractive way) for a reason.

Perfectly put "they tolerate them"
Only reson im not with a women rn is bc of some old kid i use ti.have history with in my small boonie home town and eveb then he was and has admitted he was only trying to fuck, and somhow im a gem compared to the women who let him fuck them because "your diffrent then other girls" because Im not a fucking horn dog,, and hes no different then those girls, fuck but,, I think im gonna die wishing I hadent let my pride control who I am with, as well as dying hoping for freedom, for equality in death,, anyway ive only dated women and then this guy "a" im with is the only guy ive actually dated,, but you know i was so lonely in a small town with no one but myself to blame for my own loneliness,, then again my parent's growing up pulled me in and outta school,, constantly,, no point explaining further bc ill never be able ti convey it properly