murphyy
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- Nov 24, 2022
- 39
Of course on a thread made by a woman about the shit that specifically comes with being female, there go men with their usual "umm ackshually, men have it bad too" (as if someone's disputing that...)
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Well, in patriarchy, nice guys do finish last. Let's look at what it really means: "'patriarchy', after all, refers not primarily to the fact that men wield public office, but first and foremost to the authority of patriarchs, that is, male heads of household – an authority which then acts as a symbolic model for, and economic basis of, male power in other fields of social life."Keep making the same mistakes and blaming ""'patriarchy'"". You've been misled by Marxist educators and social media nonsense. Nice guys finish absolutely dead last.
Some of you (women) receive too much attention, some of us (men) are always almost forever alone..I think that both genders suffer. In slightly different ways perhaps.
But I get what you mean.
Being fourteen and suddenly getting cat called on the streets was shocking for me as I was still more of a child during that time.
I almost got raped when I was seventeen and the only reason why I didn't is because I had a pepper spray on me.
The biggest problem however might be how the medical system treats women. I am saying this as someone who suffered with chronic horrific bed bounding endometriosis pain for years without treatment.
I cannot believe that you even think like this. Do you seriously mean to say that if a "boyfriend" wants to have sex and the partner does not want to have sex, then the boyfriend can force himself on the partner. If sex or any form of sexual relationship is not consensual, then that is RAPE. We all have rights to.our personal bodies, personal space and personal privacy 100% of the time. NO ONE has the right to RAPE another human being or animal - RAPE is WRONG. It doesn't matter if that person is boyfriend, husband etc - RAPE is RAPE.How your "boyfriend" rape you ? I think rape is committed by an unknown person.
Snoot, I appreciate that often as victims, we tend to blame ourselves. But please try and remember that it is NEVER your fault or the fault of anyone who has been raped. The blame belongs to the aggressor/rapist/paedophile/abuser at all times.I've only just recently been speaking about it, I felt like it was all my fault for ages, so I tried to push it out of my mind … :/
I'm going to a rape crisis centre next week. Thank you, that means a lot to me
I agree. It's not fair they get to move on with their lives after sexually assaulting someone, while victims have to carry it forever.
Snoot, I appreciate that often as victims, we tend to blame ourselves. But please try and remember that it is NEVER your fault or the fault of anyone who has been raped. The blame belongs to the aggressor/rapist/paedophile/abuser at all times.I've only just recently been speaking about it, I felt like it was all my fault for ages, so I tried to push it out of my mind … :/
I'm going to a rape crisis centre next week. Thank you, that means a lot to me
I agree. It's not fair they get to move on with their lives after sexually assaulting someone, while victims have to carry it forever.
I dont belive in patriarchy. If you look closer the elites are certain families ruling everythingSome of you (women) receive too much attention, some of us (men) are always almost forever alone..
I'm sorry you almost got raped. I'm apprehensive about weird men walking around at nighttime, I can only imagine how you feel. It's good that you carry pepper spray with you, I hope you fuck up whoever ever tries to attack you.
Something weird is happening to me though, ever since I decided that I'm going to CTB, even though I'm still afraid of situations like these, at the same time I also wish I would get into one, I wish someone would attack me at nighttime, I just want to beat the shit out of some piece of junk. It's not that I crave violence, or maybe I do.. Ok, it's not that I'm looking for violence, I'm not, but I would welcome it.
I think the medical system is just bad in general.
One last thing, I also despise the patriarchy! Men are ruling the world and they are doing a shit job of it, I hate them! I wonder how women would do if they'd have the chance, I wouldn't mind if they would have a go at it.
Hmm, didn't see this request at first, since it was at the bottom of the OPIf any of you have stories of people (or even you) that did something when you saw something, please please tell me so I can have them in mind when I need to calm tf down.
No need to be sorry. You think we're monsters? Guess what patriarchy does to guys: all those monsters are now our competitorsAre there any other women who's reasons to CTB are because of how the world treats us? With patriarchy (I can feel the eye-roll from a million people every time the word is uttered), our bodies seen as property with no soul inside, our existence and trauma invalidated by our own governments, and us constantly being harassed. Almost every woman has a fucking story of at LEAST harassment-- a large majority of us around the world have been assaulted, and others like me have been raped..... then we're blamed for someone else's evil actions--as victims. And to not be believed because the person has been so convincing to everyone, maybe even you, that they're a wonderful person.
I don't like to go anywhere without a man I trust with me, and even with almost any man there's that tiny bit of skepticism. For that, I'm so sorry to those of you that are truly good men, it's not you, it's the world. I don't hate normal men, I'm just on high alert around most of them, especially when I they're complete strangers.
Why's it a fucked up thing to say? Your mind's yours to simulate anything. And while violence has a high burden of justification — that burden can be metI also don't want to have this bloodlust for adult sexual predators--I want to kill them and do horrible things to their bodies beforehand. I know it's a fucked up thing to say and would be even more fucked up to do, so I won't. But it's fucked up that the world will do nothing to actually help.