Why did sasu got so anti social?

[Seneca65AD]

A lot of people are emotionally exhausted and can't really console everyone who posts a sad story on here.

This is what happens to me. When I first joined, there was a sense of relief that I could talk openly without any sense of judgment from others. Then I started to see the number of young people hurting and spending their time planning their exits instead of living their lives. I wanted to assure each and every one of them that things can get better - maybe not great but the experiences of teens and 20's are such a short time to base a CTB exit upon. Then I was conflicted because I did not want to minimize their pain and that caused an internal struggle which left me emotionally exhausted. I then stay away from the forum for a few days. I'm not anti-suicide, I guess I am just a "what's the rush" type of guy.

 

[YandereMikuMistress]

but people here do postings where they write about their suffering and they want at least some sort of help by an interaction that takes place interaction they can't have with their family etc but instead so many people who wrrite about all their pain get fully ignored whilr other bullshit stuff gets attention. Then i wonder then what is the purpose of this place? When you wanna interact about nonsense go to a normal forum go to reddit or whatever.
Yes in case of finding. Information it helped me but otherwise sasu just let me feel even more lonely
I didn't expect a magic pill here but I thought when lots of people have this one things in common the wish to end their life they might feel
For each other and support each other but thats not the case

I guess I dont mind if I get ignored in the end,, because I can resone with people here and I understand they've got lives

Not everyone is able to interact constantly with others when they know that one of them might try to ctb at anytime... people only have so much they can take mentally. I've lost so many friends on here and each time I see a post about someone wanting a interaction I do my best to help but I'm constantly ghosted or they end up ctb soon after.
Interactions with new users usually feel like a failed endeavor ... it's the people who stick around and actually communicate that make this forum run.
And just because people make post about something that you might see as "nonsense" doesn't mean they see it the same way. Not everyone knows every little thing about suicide or understand how this forum works fully until they've been on for a few months.

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